WTF does open-minded mean?

[Cpalmson]

Okay, I've witnessed a trend when it comes to provider ads (here and elsewhere). The term open-minded gets thrown out there like it was yesterday's trash. Please tell me what does open-minded mean? Here's the way I read it. Open-minded means everything is on the menu, and as a hobbyist, I have every right to ask for whatever I want and the lady should not be offended by my request. So ladies, be careful of what you put in your ads.

[Calista_Syn]

I get more or less the same interpretation from the phrase myself.. Although you don't necessarily have the "right" to anything, it is a little insinuative to the woman being "open" to less conventional requests.

Adds are trial and error.. sometimes it takes someone pointing out that something we thought sounds cute, isn't. For example, I had one once titled "Caramel Cream Pie" not even thinking about what that meant to guys.. Bad idea... Got a few vulgar requests before I realized what I'd done.. Live and learn.

[anaximander]

I thought open minded meant
they take it in the ass too.

[Tantalizing Tia]

My interpretation would be that they are open to some fetish and fantasy ideas a hobbyist might have.

But You might do yourself and in justice to assume everything is on the menu.

Best thing is contacting the provider and asking what they meant. I am aware that many provider.
(myself included) won't talk about services until some one is screened but you can ask by saying.
"with out risking too much indiscretion could you tell me what you meant by "Open Minded".

[RED PHOENIX]

Open minded, simply means what it says. We are open to suggestions. it does not mean that we do everything under the sun. I am a very open minded person. I judge no one for what they do. However, open minded, does not mean, (just for example), I am going to f**ck your dog. It kind of goes along the lines as to what is kinky to one, may be completely perverted to another. I can openly accept whatever floats your boat, that does not mean, that I have to participate.

[Ms. Athena]

I feel I am a very open minded person as well as a provider. I try very hard not to judge others as I dont care to be judged myself. I encourage clients to share with me their fantasies and fetishes.....I enjoy making fantasies come true.....I do have limits but I am always willing to listen and see how far we can both push our limits and grow....How do you know if you like something till you try it......Yes, I am a honest kinky Cock Slut and proud of it!! Yum!

[Sweet N Little]

+ 1 with the sexy red phoenix, we will entertain ideas but it doesn't mean someone has to do what your requesting, it could be anything from someone wanting to wear the girls panties to bondage. Everyone's different, It doesn't mean the girls body is a free for all just because she states she is open.

[Old-T]

"Open minded" is another undefined term like GFE, PSE, etc. At best it might convey an idea that she is a little more willing to consider some less vanilla things. It is not a blank check. As to being upset about what you ask for, I'd guess how annoyed she might become is more a function of how you ask, and how you respond if she says "no".

I think to assume "open minded" means she is open to anything without reservations is being a little naieve. And setting yourself up for serious disapointment.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by anaximander

I thought open minded meant
they take it in the ass too.

no it means YOU take it in the ass
{lol--just kidding baby!}

to me open minded means being open minded to try different things that you or your partner are curious about

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

no it means YOU take it in the ass

Open minded means you get to keep the gerbil.

[Nicolet]

Good one pyramider!

[anaximander]

Thus far the providers Ive hooked with who
claimed being open minded offered greek
right away. I thought OM was another escort
term for greek or watersports.

Lol live nd learn

[Cpalmson]

Good, these are exactly the type of response I was hoping to see. From the provider perspective, open minded is kind of a loose term that doesn't imply specific acts but more of an attitude towards a session. From the guys who have responded, open minded seems to indicate specific acts i.e. Greek is on the menu. I worded my OP specifically to be provocative when I used the first person "I" when talking about the hobbyists interpretation of what open-minded meant and the expectations that went along with that. So, as I ended the OP, I think providers need to be cautious in how they word their ads. It might come back to get them in the ass-- literally

[Nicolet]

Once again, proof that men are from Mars and women are from Venus! 2 different ways of looking at the same thing. That is what makes the sexes so interesting!

[LaStang]

to me when i see "open minded " that means they won't judge me for wanting them to give me a foot job while a drink a fruity drink with an umbrella in it on the couch singing Margaritaville