IDEAS FOR ALTERNATIVE WAYS TO PAY AN ESCORT

[stephania ricci]

Hi everyone

Hope everyone is having a happy horny day lol!

I have a question: About 99% of all my clients are married. The biggest issue they seem to have is how to draw X amount of dollars out of the atm to see an escort without the wife finding out.

I would like to get some alternative ideas from all providers and hobbyists on other ways to pay for an escorts time without the wife finding out.

I recently had a gentlemen that wanted to do a 3 hr outcall to San Francisco. He originally tried to pay by buying me an amazon E gift card but the problem with that is that anything over $500 will take about 8 hrs to clear. So he canceled that transaction (since he tried to buy this 3 hrs before our date lol) and instead he opted to buy gift cards and use his credit card to pay for it. It was great since I use visa gift cards all the time for online purchases.

Any other ideas or suggestions?

[Flirtatousfemalefan]

Stephania a good question is what do you like and what do you use? I have know escorts in the past to accept gift cards from major retailers like best buy, Target, Nordstroms and a host of other places. As long as he has the receipt to say that he spend whatever your donation would be then you have got a deal. That way just like his Amazon attempt you could use those and buy what you want from those places. It is just not as obvious as having cold hard cash on you.

Originally Posted by stephania ricci

Hi everyone

Hope everyone is having a happy horny day lol!

I have a question: About 99% of all my clients are married. The biggest issue they seem to have is how to draw X amount of dollars out of the atm to see an escort without the wife finding out.

I would like to get some alternative ideas from all providers and hobbyists on other ways to pay for an escorts time without the wife finding out.

I recently had a gentlemen that wanted to do a 3 hr outcall to San Francisco. He originally tried to pay by buying me an amazon E gift card but the problem with that is that anything over $500 will take about 8 hrs to clear. So he canceled that transaction (since he tried to buy this 3 hrs before our date lol) and instead he opted to buy gift cards and use his credit card to pay for it. It was great since I use visa gift cards all the time for online purchases.

Any other ideas or suggestions?

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by Flirtatousfemalefan

Stephania a good question is what do you like and what do you use? I have know escorts in the past to accept gift cards from major retailers like best buy, Target, Nordstroms and a host of other places. As long as he has the receipt to say that he spend whatever your donation would be then you have got a deal. That way just like his Amazon attempt you could use those and buy what you want from those places. It is just not as obvious as having cold hard cash on you.

Yes thank you for your answer! I do like all those stores (esp target and amazon. Love Victoria's Secret but obviously do not recommend married men purchase an e card from that store lol)

would PayPal or Google wallet or anything like that work for a married man and not have the wife find out?

I'm just trying to get more alternative ideas for the married man since obviously the two hurdles seem to be getting out of the house for x amount of hours and then taking out x amount of dollars. So the least amount of hurdles that a man has to jump over is better and less stressful for him.

I know all ladies want a mans experience with us to be as enjoyable as possible, so the least amount of stress is obviously the intended outcome 😊

[Flirtatousfemalefan]

Stephania, I am just wondering you are not at the point were you would take cards. If you where, then you could put lunch or whatever on the charge? Also if he was smart would he have another account that could be just his. Then I am also thinking since you are looking for alternative ways of compensation is would he also have a hobby phone. That would be your next question or do you always block your number when you call? This is critical because you always have to have a way to communicate with them. The question is do all your married men have joint accounts with their wives or would they have separate accounts. If they have separate accounts then it shouldn't be a problem. However if they don't then you are into creative ways to compensate you for your time. I have just got to ask do you have an age limit which begins at say 45 and up? I am asking this because if you expand your age limit say by 5 to 10 years lower then you might attract some single men into your client base. I am also thinking that you prefer these classes of men but there are some stipulations that are hard to go undetected that is why you are resorting to creative compensation for these clients.

[python54]

While I'm oddly a BFF with my ex, at least discretion is WAAAAY easier. Especially when they live 700 miles away.

Yes a separate pay as you go hobby phone is a must. If it's found just say you found it somewhere and not sure what to do with it. Open a PayPal account and slowly xfer money there so it's not noticed.

Also stockpile some cash a little at a time. $20 cash back at Wal Mart etc.

Back in the 2000's when I hobbied a lot, I was an ebay seller and the money went to paypal. It was totally discrete and I did share my earnings with my spouse, family along with the hobby since she had no idea of my earnings opening on the hobby was easy.

My suggestion to married guys is caution caution caution. It's easy for the brain in the head to be overtaken by that little brain down below. When the urge strikes. let things calm down and review your strategy :-)

[ck1942]

Interesting and very well done website, Stephania.

imo, given your rates and special offerings, which are well above most petty cash drawers, it would be somewhat difficult to fund many ordinary giftcards.

http://stephaniaricci.com/items/

So my suggestion is to perhaps consider the much greater financial universe in which SDs might operate and open a business account in your home city or an offshore account or better yet an investment account at a reputable brokerage and ask your gents to make direct deposits covering your necessaries. Those types of accounts are easily checked on line.

Gents in this level league don't need much help or ideas in covering their tracks. They already know how to accomplish that imo.

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by Flirtatousfemalefan

Stephania, I am just wondering you are not at the point were you would take cards. If you where, then you could put lunch or whatever on the charge? Also if he was smart would he have another account that could be just his. Then I am also thinking since you are looking for alternative ways of compensation is would he also have a hobby phone. That would be your next question or do you always block your number when you call? This is critical because you always have to have a way to communicate with them. The question is do all your married men have joint accounts with their wives or would they have separate accounts. If they have separate accounts then it shouldn't be a problem. However if they don't then you are into creative ways to compensate you for your time. I have just got to ask do you have an age limit which begins at say 45 and up? I am asking this because if you expand your age limit say by 5 to 10 years lower then you might attract some single men into your client base. I am also thinking that you prefer these classes of men but there are some stipulations that are hard to go undetected that is why you are resorting to creative compensation for these clients.

In answer to your questions: I do see all ages and even all races. I don't block my number. It is a 50/50 split and some guys have joint accounts and some don't.

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by ck1942

Interesting and very well done website, Stephania.

imo, given your rates and special offerings, which are well above most petty cash drawers, it would be somewhat difficult to fund many ordinary giftcards.

http://stephaniaricci.com/items/

So my suggestion is to perhaps consider the much greater financial universe in which SDs might operate and open a business account in your home city or an offshore account or better yet an investment account at a reputable brokerage and ask your gents to make direct deposits covering your necessaries. Those types of accounts are easily checked on line.

Gents in this level league don't need much help or ideas in covering their tracks. They already know how to accomplish that imo.

Well thank you!

What I have noticed with the vast majority of married men that are wealthy, is that they are usually the ones controlling the purse strings and the wife does not really know what is going on. The husband usually always has a mistress, sugar baby or escort on the side and so for the husband to control the money situation works out in his best interest.

Yes my rates are on the higher side and yes this can sometimes be challenging for some gentlemen to extract that type of cash out of the atm, but in the SF bay area where I live $400 an hr is not unheard of for high class companions such as myself (some of my escort friends charge $500-$700 an hour).

The other thing about charging more per hour is that you get a different clientele who can afford to take you out to dinners, weekend getaways and they tend to be more educated and value conversation and connection over a quick suck and fuck. Which is fine too (and I love doing) but I also like to go out for dinners and other fun events

I also used to be in porn and usually women who used to be or are still in porn will command $1,200 an hr believe it or not and many of them still cannot even deepthroat and lick and swallow balls like I can lol. Btw I do have a Deepthroat video on my website and 2 other videos - go to www.stephaniaricci.com to watch them (the DT one is going to be the first video in the video section)

The good thing is I am very close to the silicon valley and San Francisco and I get lots of gentlemen flying out from Texas, NY and elsewhere that stay in SF and of course want some companionship. 'When a man is traveling it is a little easier to hide expenses also so the traveling man has it a little easier in paying for an escort

You are right in that the wealthier men don't have an issue with knowing what to do and how to protect their money from their wives

[ICU 812]

Cash always works for me.

Every time I make a legitimate purchase, I get some cash-back. Smaller ATM withdrawals from time-to-time accumulate and so on. I may use a gift card as a tip.

Money laundering is always an issue ion both sides of the Hobby.

[SkylerScarlett]

wal mart has their money card. They can put 500 a day on it with 100k limit. it works like a debit card and you can withdraw at any wal mart for FREE.

[PsychedelicMut]

Originally Posted by stephania ricci

Hi everyone

Hope everyone is having a happy horny day lol!

I have a question: About 99% of all my clients are married. The biggest issue they seem to have is how to draw X amount of dollars out of the atm to see an escort without the wife finding out.

I would like to get some alternative ideas from all providers and hobbyists on other ways to pay for an escorts time without the wife finding out.

I recently had a gentlemen that wanted to do a 3 hr outcall to San Francisco. He originally tried to pay by buying me an amazon E gift card but the problem with that is that anything over $500 will take about 8 hrs to clear. So he canceled that transaction (since he tried to buy this 3 hrs before our date lol) and instead he opted to buy gift cards and use his credit card to pay for it. It was great since I use visa gift cards all the time for online purchases.

Any other ideas or suggestions?

Where the money comes from is really the hobbyist's problem. I understand that it's the provider's too, if the hobbyist can't figure it out. It is very sweet and smart to try to help us out.

Originally Posted by ICU 812

Cash always works for me.

Every time I make a legitimate purchase, I get some cash-back. Smaller ATM withdrawals from time-to-time accumulate and so on. I may use a gift card as a tip.

Money laundering is always an issue ion both sides of the Hobby.

Good point. I have a "rat hole", which is nothing more than an accumulation of cash from these sources. The biggest source is from cash leftover after a trip together. I make a reasonably large withdrawal before we leave. On the trip, I charge every I can when we return I have a nice addition to my "rat hole". Also, many companies pay expanses based on IRS allowances. Most of the time my per diem and mileage far exceeded my out of pocket expenses. Cha Ching!

[stephania ricci]

[QUOTE=PsychedelicDog;105800564 7]Where the money comes from is really the hobbyist's problem. I understand that it's the provider's too, if the hobbyist can't figure it out. It is very sweet and smart to try to help us out.

You are quite welcome! I love to write and one of the things I love to do is to educate thru writing. Many of my blog posts on my website are written to help newbies tread thru this business more easily and carefully. (like for instance a lot of them will talk about money and/or sex in an email and then the provider just disappears and they have no idea what they did wrong)

This is why I want to write a new blog post about alternative ways men can pay an escort since I am sure this can be a factor for some guys wanting to see a particular escort and then not knowing how to do it without the wife knowing. This is esp true for newbies who are just getting into this. Knowledge is power and the more you know the less mistakes you'll make. Some of these mistakes can either get you arrested or be costly, so the more you know the better off you are.

[Clark W. Griswold]

Originally Posted by python54

Also stockpile some cash a little at a time.

Good idea. If you need a place to store the money in the meantime you should hide it in the last place where your wife would check.

[Jislander]

Originally Posted by Clark W. Griswold

Good idea. If you need a place to store the money in the meantime you should hide it in the last place where your wife would check.

Found a good place to hide my cash,



Lol, I kid..I kid....

Back to on topic, to piggy back off CK, most gents know better. I know my bank has limits on how much I can draw daily, when alerts are sent to wife when limits exceeded. It's great that your working on improving your business practice but I guess that situation to be a rare outlier that you shouldn't pay heed to.

[Ed Highlight]

I prefer to pay using a little known technique that features my telekinetic powers... All I have to do is think of the amount I want pay and you receive that amount in your brain. No fuss, no muss!!