Most common excuse used to cancel the date

[BabyDallass]

I want to know what is the most common excuse that girls and guys use to cancel the date last minute?.? I`ll share mine...They always say their sick. I had a guy who said he was so sick he threw up at the ATM.....lol I guess he was having some sort of withdraws or something??

[willro]

Escorts seem to have an unnatural amount of car problems and sick relatives.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

And phone troubles. Providers lead all professions in the categories of car and phone troubles. With sick relatives and family deaths, I'm forced to give them the benefit of the doubt.

[Iridemhard]

I heard the excuse, "i fell asleep and didnt hear my phone" several times. One time i had a BP provider tell me she couldnt see me at the time i had scheduled with her because one of her regulars called and said he wanted to see her at that time. She let me know when i was about 5 minutes from her place. She asked if could wait. I told he yes, but i never responded the texts she sent me later. Fuck off lady, ill spend my hard earned cash elsewhere i thought, LOL!

[notequiteatroll]

i don't even wanna here the why's.
whatever.
parties don't have the same rules.

[BabyDallass]

The other excuse that is out played is the "My wife called or showed up." or the "I got called into work"

[Ginger Doll]

I rarely cancel and have never stood someone up.

Lack of communication is so rude. If someone pulls a NCNS on me, I'm not giving them a second chance.

Life happens, so I try to be understanding of excuses to a certain extent. But if the person turns into a repeat offender, they're going on the DNS list too.

I do my best to respect everyone else's time. I expect the same courtesy.

Dumbest excuse ever: "I can't make it because my dog is throwing up."

[saddletramp]

I have never NCNS a lady and the only time I had to cancel I called 3 days ahead of time and sent her the money anyway. I had to make and emergency out of town trip because of a family death. I made the date and it's not her fault I had to cancel. I understand life happens but the "I over slept and didn't hear my phone " excuse has added more than one to my DNS list. I know things happen, I understand that, so if a lady will just answer the phone and shoot straight with me we're all good. We can reschedule for a later date or I'll catch her the next time if she visits again.

YAHOO!!!!!! I'm under Ginger again!!!

[BabyDallass]

I love how you handle things, I wish more men in the hobby were like you! I had a guy pull the " My wife called and said I had to be home now" excuse, when I was 15 minutes away and I lived an hour and half away from him! & He never made it right....I mean damn I know we are what we are and do what we do, but that is no excuse for bad business.

[TechOne]

I have cancelled twice at the very last minute. Once the police were nosing around the hotel. I left, but the next day I took her to lunch, paid for the room, and left her in it for the night to use it as she wanted. The other time was when she told me the room was cold cause the heater was not working. I walked in, knew it was too cold for me, gave her the money and left, saying we could make it up later...and WOW did she ever...best LBFM I have ever met.

All other cancellations have been a day or eight plus hours in advance, because a client called and insisted that I come see them for my usual emergency rate of $350 an hour. I will never pass up business, even for pussy.

I don't think I have a single provider that will not see me because of this, or any other reason, but who knows, there may be one or two that I have not tried to call again.

[BabyDallass]

If you make the date right, then I have no problem with a last minute cancellation. I understand things happen and we cant always go with whats planned. But If you don`t make it right, don`t expect me to go out of my way to see you ever again. Not worth the wasted time....

[tuckahoe]

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

I want to know what is the most common excuse that girls and guys use to cancel the date last minute?.? I`ll share mine...They always say their sick. I had a guy who said he was so sick he threw up at the ATM.....lol I guess he was having some sort of withdraws or something??

If the guy hasn't dated much, the anticipation can make him so nervous he can become nauseated. I know because it has happened to me, though I never actually threw up, or had to cancel a date. Just ask Ginger how nervous I was when I met her! I had to work up my courage for weeks before I contacted her. But am I ever glad we met!!!!!! Can't imagine anyone wanting to cancel after booking Baby D!!

I have only cancelled one date, and that was because of a family accident.

[Guest040816]

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

If you make the date right, then I have no problem with a last minute cancellation. I understand things happen and we cant always go with whats planned. But If you don`t make it right]<<<<, don`t expect me to go out of my way to see you ever again. Not worth the wasted time....

Sounds fair he paid for her time when he couldn't show ,,, but on the rare event a provider doesn't keep her word,,,how does she make it right?
The term "make it right" was used by OP,,,See red arrows above paragraph <<

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

If you make the date right, then I have no problem with a last minute cancellation. I understand things happen and we cant always go with whats planned. But If you don`t make it right, don`t expect me to go out of my way to see you ever again. Not worth the wasted time....

I know what you mean, Baby Dallas. And I totally agree! I've had gentleman cancel on me last minute, and usually they offer me a little bit of something for gas or the inconvenience. That is always a nice gesture and very appreciated.

And in turn, if I have to cancel last minute, I usually offer some sort of incentive for our next date to help make it up to them. Whether it's a discount or throwing in a bit of extra time, I offer something... Maintaining a good rapport is important to me.

[Danielle Reid]

Seems cars are pretty faulty. Had 3 different guys cancel a date within minutes of the meet time to say:
1. They were in a wreck
2. Flat tire
3. Pulled over for speeding

It may be true but sort of funny it happened right before we were to meet