I am quickly coming up on my one year anniversary in the hobby . It has been for the most part a great year with a lot of fun times. I have met some very nice ,beautiful and wonderful ladies along the way.
In the beginning like most guys I joined P411 and I frequent a couple sites to get my info on who I will see next. Eccie being the main site because I did like the conversations that took place in the forums and have even been using the chat room as of late.
I do the hobby for fun , because I enjoy it and I love sex. I come here to meet different folks and to have fun.
In the past about four months or so I started noticing a trend on this site a trend that quite frankly rankled me.
That trend is for certain users to call anyone who posts a positive comment about a lady on a negative or no review a White Knight.
Then this trend leached its way out of the review section into most of the forums on Eccie today. It seems the term White Knight is spouted by some folks at a drop of a hat.
It is used as a way to try to belittle the person posting and to shame them away from speaking their mind.
Many times this "White Knight" is accused of flaming the original reviewer even if the only comment he made in response to the review was that he had seen the lady and liked her.
It seems that many of the Black Knights are very thin skinned and do not like their motives or intentions questioned in any way.
The first comments they like to make are that the White Knights are the ones who keep honest reviews from being written. What a load of hogwash. the only thing that keeps reviews from being written is the guys who are spineless and haven't the balls to speak up.
They certainly don't need the Black Knights to defend them.
If a negative review is honestly written without embellishments it will stand up to scrutiny.If the reviewer goes beyond the facts he will be called out on it "as he should be"
To the guys who complain about folks posting positive comments on the reviews .
Do you honestly believe that just because the reviewer is a man his word is golden and should or cannot be questioned ?
There are a fair amount of unscrupulous guys around that can and will sue the negative review as a means to an end.
On the flip side negative reviews do serve a good purpose when they are done truthfully. We gain valuable info that can protect the hobbiest.
It is up to us to use both the negative and positive comments in all the reviews to help us make our decisions.
In my opinion every time I see someone cry the words White Knight I see that person as a whiny little bitch. The best that they can come up with is White Knight for the things they think are ruining the site.
To that I say look in the mirror its folks like them that make this site less fun.
I'm sure I was considered by many to be a White Knight before I even posted this thread.
To that I say "good". I would rather be considered a White Knight than some bottom dwelling Black Knight.
I speak up when I see things that I don't like and people I don't trust. It's in my nature. I post against the negativity and the assholes that try to bring this site and the rest of us to their level.
I have defended ladies I have never met because when I see someone being torn apart for no better reason than a review done by someone with a less than favorable reputation and the pack of wild dogs that jump on it to pat him on the back and to tear at her even more it makes me sick and ashamed that they are called men.
I have posted on negative reviews about ladies that I have met to say that I enjoyed their company. To the Black Knights this seems wrong. Apparently they want a review like that to have nothing but negative comments and insults to wards the lady.
So I say to all that can hear:
If being for fair play and honesty then I am a White Knight.
If believing the ladies should be able to to have an equal say on a bad review done on them then call me a White Knight.
If believing a person should stand up and speak for someone or themselves when they have been wronged then call me a White Knight.
If believing in calling out the assholes who would stomp out the joy and fun we get from the hobby then call me a White Knight.
If thinking you should treat the ladies as ladies , then call me a White Knight.
Don't get me wrong I am not trying to be holier than thou and not trying to preach. I am just speaking my mind about a subject that has been pestering me for some time now.
So I say call me a White Knight all you like.You won't stop me from posting in what I believe is right. You definitely will never stop me from having FUN.