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MarieLynn of DFW · 05-27-2010, 05:10 AM

Do the gentlemen get turned off when the provider says in their ad what services they are willing to provide (e.g. BBBJ, GREEK) or do you all not mind at all?

Forgive me if this topic has been addressed before.

Guest062512 · 05-27-2010, 05:18 AM

There ARE certain things that will cross you off my list.

Randall Creed · 05-27-2010, 05:25 AM

Turned off?? Hell nooo!!

I get turned ON when I read things like the two mentioned.

That's good stuff to know ahead of time. I saw a provider and didn't know she did Greek until after the fact. That was a bummer.

cubsoxbull · 05-27-2010, 05:44 AM

I really like to know upfront what is on the menu. I use the P411 search function quite a bit which helps me determine what services the lady provides and what she is comfortable with. I had a situation the other day where I was going to schedule an appointment with a very nice lady and I asked a question about a particular item that was on her menu. I found out from her it was really something she didn't provide. We decided we really didn't click and she apologized for the error. I noticed she went back in to P411 and updated her menu to remove that. I respect her for being honest and she was very nice to me even though we didn't end up seeing each other. So in summing this up, I think it helps both the guys and the gals to know what to expect and what not to expect.

MarieLynn of DFW · 05-27-2010, 05:47 AM

I ask because I know some gentlemen are not aware of the ladies' reputation and their reviews, but yet their REVIEWS clearly state what services they will provide (but the gentlemen do not know right off bat because they do not see it right away on their ad). Now granted some ladies are YMMV and some are consistent, which is totally up to the provider's discretion (which I respect).

YET, I also know some gentlemen do not want to actually SEE that in the lady's ad.

It is a fine line. I understand.

Most importantly, I ask because I believe the 'customer is always right' (obviously I am talking under normal circumstances and you being a respectful individual to the lady).

Looking forward to all your responses!

Jasser · 05-27-2010, 06:28 AM

I like it. I want to know exactly what I can do before the session starts. To me, it's a mood killer when you try something and the lady isn't into it or "doesn't go there". I respect a lady's boundaries, but I like knowing them beforehand so there isn't an awkward moment.

If I see a bubble booty and the menu consists of GFE, BBBJ, and GREEK I think "we've got a winner".

Donnie Brasco · 05-27-2010, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Jasser

If I see a bubble booty and the menu consists of GFE, BBBJ, and GREEK I think "we've got a winner".

+ 1,000,000 on that.
Don't forget to add CIM and swallow. When I read in a review that a lady drinks my swimmers, IT'S ON!

Bobster36 · 05-27-2010, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Donnie Brasco

+ 1,000,000 on that.
Don't forget to add CIM and swallow. When I read in a review that a lady drinks my swimmers, IT'S ON!

Can't agree more. I don't hobby as much anymore. But CIMNQNS pushes me into action!

LuckJack · 05-27-2010, 11:53 AM

Better to know what is on the menu, that is why the hobby world is better (and cheaper) than the civilian world.

Randy4Candy · 05-27-2010, 01:48 PM

MLDFW, sometimes it's easier to list what's NOT on the menu...LOL! As you can see from the answers, the answer to your question is YES and no...hee hee.

deuceswilld83 · 05-27-2010, 02:10 PM

The menu doesnt turn me off as much as the cost and some times the tone of an add.

Say a provider offers bbbj, greek and the whole nine for a discount of 100/hr. That is a turn off for me b/c its a great price but it warrants a higher donation. Why so discounted is my thinking.

Also the ads where it says I'm broke and really need to see gentlemen callers is also a turn off. It kind of lowers the providers standards. Which make me uneasy and I avoid providers when I see things like that.

But listing your menu is great. That way you know what is acceptable and you dont have to ask whats on the menu.

RichYoungbuck4u · 05-27-2010, 02:13 PM

I find that the hobby and reviews... Services "available" or "listed" are generally "Expected" by some hobbyists. It isn't a turn on or a turn off to me whether or not a provider offers greek or bbbj or daty. To me service is just that "Service"... and customer satisfaction will always determine the market. I have had better CBJ's in comparison to some BBBJ's in the past. Not always but I can definitely say it has happend before and it didn't bother me one bit... actually I felt ripped off by the terrible BBBJ's. Heck some might even consider that some BBBJ's are in actuality a well disguised HJ.

When I think of Service... especially GFE... I consider the feeling or connection (chemistry if you will)

So to all ladies out there I don't care how amazing your menu is. You can list 8 items or 50 items... if you can't "COOK"... then I'm not ordering. I'll take my business to another "Chef".

"It's easy to keep a customer... it's darn near impossible to get one back!"

luckyjax · 05-27-2010, 02:37 PM

I like when the menu is spelled out or the provider is receptive to PM's with questions about the menu if it isn't posted. If you don't know what is available, it's kind of like buying a car without a test drive, you may get something you didn't want.

npita · 05-27-2010, 02:39 PM

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Do the gentlemen get turned off when the provider says in their ad what services they are willing to provide (e.g. BBBJ, GREEK) or do you all not mind at all?

I was always turned off by that. I only wanted to see GFE providers and I didn't really need to see that in an ad. If she provided additional services, I expected those to be part of the package, not a menu item. I preferred to be able to just go with the flow and take cues about extras as the session went along, just as I would if I were with a date. Listing services seems too much like offering a sex activities drive through rather than
offering a sensual experience.

LazurusLong · 05-27-2010, 02:48 PM

I'd rather have a girl post things in her ad than to show up and get an upsell surprise.

Oh, BBBJ? I never posted that anywhere.

There is a long time bait and switch provider who litters BP escorts with her fake photos and various names. incalls at either the Executive spa or the hotel just east of the N Dallas tollway and Alpha. (or Spring Valley)

Her favorite line is that the fee is just to show up and then upsell her little heart out while not delivering hardly anything.

So bottom line?

Tell me CBJ or BBBJ, is DATY on the menu? Multiple pops even if I'm not good for more than one? Even though I may not be in the mood to kiss, sometimes I am.