I love a great big hug! If he's a new guy, the "confirmation look" is nice. I like guys who are more assertive but gentle in that they take their sweet time exploring my body...especially the sensitive areas like nipples and clit.
Oh, and I LOVE great kissers! As for the viagra, I just want the guy to be happy so whatever helps with that is his decision...and it doesn't always take too long but okay if it does...especially for him.
As for cleanliness down south, that's a given...in fact, so is up north! I am always clean and wouldn't expect a guy who loves DATY to be subjected to some "tangy sweaty funk" because I sure don't.