Agreed. When I'm tired, I go recharge. I don't ever want to put a guy I'm meeting up with through that. I had food poisoning once and was talking with a girlfriend about how I wanted to cancel, and she's like, "oh, just work through it, it's just an hour!" Since she's backpage and charges less, I kind of get that mentality because she's running through hanging out with maybe 3-5 guys a day, but damn-- I couldn't do it, politely cancelled, and told the guy I'd give him a free half hour of hang out time next time.
And there's certainly times when I just want to hole up in my hotel room and veg out, and when I need time off and I'm a few hours away from a friend's house I'll go do that for several days. When I'm travelling with my dog, that's the best because I can just curl up with him and watch cable and order out food or read some trashy romance
Now, if a woman has dependents, that gets a little bit harder because they have to work around their kids', what their kids or household needs.
As far as physically tired though, I either rearrange things to give me enough time to nap, or else try to reschedule (and offer a bonus if I positively cannot schedule.)
What's your opinion as a hobbyist? How many meetings have you gone to where the woman is decidedly lackluster? Do you think it's more prevalent than not, and can it be avoided by going higher up the donation scale? Or does that even matter?
Are You Tired?
