Generally, only established hobbyists and providers are invited to socials.
So what happens if you run into someone you know? It's a pact of mutual destruction. Kinda like nuclear weapons. You wouldn't dare say anything because they would do the same to you. Additionally, discretion is the cornerstone of this hobby.
About 16 months ago, I ran into two guys I grew up with in school at a social. One guy recognized me and although I didn't recognize him at first, it didn't take long to figure out who he was. While we were talking, we recognized another school chum and approached him. The reaction was hilarious. It was like a mini reunion. A little weird at first. But, it resulted in some good info exchanges over a few lunches.
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