Would your opinion or position change IF?

[Milehigh65]

Reading the thread regarding the media's negative slant regarding sex/escorting.
Without a doubt society conditions us to think believe that sex is bad when it is outside the standard boundries i.e. prostitutes are looked down on as well as their clients. Reading through the thread sparked a question as most whom participated in the thread unconditionally excepted and supported this underground world many stated they love what the do and would not change a thing.

Here is my question would your opinion or position changed with regards to prostitution if your daughter or son came to you and stated this is the profession they have choosen, would you encourage/support them. would your out look be the same?

[charlestudor2005]

No, on the one single condition that she is happy.

I want nothing more for her than to be happy in her life. If this were her profession, I wouldn't worry about her income. I might worry about how long she can stay in the profession, but I would hope that she has a good honest investment adviser to help her plan for a time when she might be no longer in the profession. I've had some time to think about this since it has been in my thoughts since I started hobbying.

[Milehigh65]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

No, on the one single condition that she is happy.

I want nothing more for her than to be happy in her life. If this were her profession, I wouldn't worry about her income. I might worry about how long she can stay in the profession, but I would hope that she has a good honest investment adviser to help her plan for a time when she might be no longer in the profession. I've had some time to think about this since it has been in my thoughts since I started hobbying.

Interesting response! actually surprises me I don't know that I would be okay with it.

[Ms. Athena]

My goal for my children is that they are Healthy and Happy and can look back at the end of each day and say "What did I do to better myself or this world today"........I do feel providers make this crazy world a saner place to live..........What would it be like with ALL these horny men running around.................lol

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

What would it be like with ALL these horny men running around.................lol

More wars????

Practice peace...and piece.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Milehigh65

Reading the thread regarding the media's negative slant regarding sex/escorting.
Without a doubt society conditions us to think believe that sex is bad when it is outside the standard boundries i.e. prostitutes are looked down on as well as their clients. Reading through the thread sparked a question as most whom participated in the thread unconditionally excepted and supported this underground world many stated they love what the do and would not change a thing.

Here is my question would your opinion or position changed with regards to prostitution if your daughter or son came to you and stated this is the profession they have choosen, would you encourage/support them. would your out look be the same?

My parents both know what I do and they have for a long time. I simply could not hide it from them, especially my mother, who knows me better than I may even know myself. I had started posing in magazines and such, and they knew about that. At first, I was terrified of what they would think and told them I was a stripper, but my mom knew. She said, well I don't see any stripper clothes in your house. So I sat them both down and explained to them. My father, being my dad, was not happy. He just sort of shook his head and he said " What did I send you to college for to do this??" But more or less they were deeply concerned for my safety. There was no way that I could lie to them. What if something did happen to me, and the police went to them and said " Mr and Mrs_____, your daughter was raped/killed and she's an escort." I would never want them to find out that way.

I've been blessed with a remarkably close relationship with both of them, and after a while, they accepted what I did as long as I was happy and safe about it.

[pyramider]

Luckily for all . . . I do not have any children. These genes are out of the gene cesspool.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Luckily for all . . . I do not have any children. These genes are out of the gene cesspool.

It's why I never wanted kids. I was afraid they'd turn out to be too much like me...a rebel and a really bratty kid LOLOL

[Milehigh65]

Originally Posted by alluringava

My parents both know what I do and they have for a long time. I simply could not hide it from them, especially my mother, who knows me better than I may even know myself. I had started posing in magazines and such, and they knew about that. At first, I was terrified of what they would think and told them I was a stripper, but my mom knew. She said, well I don't see any stripper clothes in your house. So I sat them both down and explained to them. My father, being my dad, was not happy. He just sort of shook his head and he said " What did I send you to college for to do this??" But more or less they were deeply concerned for my safety. There was no way that I could lie to them. What if something did happen to me, and the police went to them and said " Mr and Mrs_____, your daughter was raped/killed and she's an escort." I would never want them to find out that way.

I've been blessed with a remarkably close relationship with both of them, and after a while, they accepted what I did as long as I was happy and safe about it.

It is great to have such a open relationship with your parents, But I think your situation would be rare.

[AdventureAdams]

If my future children ended up in the same profession, I would just want them to know they have my support and I love them unconditionally. Because if they are already doing it, they will continue with or without your approval, but hopefully knowing they have a support system behind them will help them make less reckless decisions. But besides that my view on the hobby wouldn't change, we are all someones child, knowing my child is in the field wouldn't change what I love about the hobby.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by alluringava

It's why I never wanted kids. I was afraid they'd turn out to be too much like me...a rebel and a really bratty kid LOLOL

Brattiness had nothing to do with it. Too many bad items on both sides of the family so I decided early on not to pass on those genetic traits.

[oglfp12]

For several years my daughter was an escort. (She has now moved on to be Mrs. Mom to twin boys and loving wife to a great husband.) I knew at the time, and it didn't change my opinion of her one bit. My only concern was that she be safe, and fortunately she was. I think the overriding factor was, and is, that I do not think she was doing anything wrong. To Hell with what others think; I just don't see anything wrong with this activity.

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by oglfp12

For several years my daughter was an escort. (She has now moved on to be Mrs. Mom to twin boys and loving wife to a great husband.) I knew at the time, and it didn't change my opinion of her one bit. My only concern was that she be safe, and fortunately she was. I think the overriding factor was, and is, that I do not think she was doing anything wrong. To Hell with what others think; I just don't see anything wrong with this activity.

My mom interviewed for the documentary I participated in and she shared the same sentiments.

[sixxbach]

I would be embarrased and wonder how I failed them as a parent

sixx

[shorty]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

No, on the one single condition that she is happy.

I want nothing more for her than to be happy in her life. If this were her profession, I wouldn't worry about her income. I might worry about how long she can stay in the profession, but I would hope that she has a good honest investment adviser to help her plan for a time when she might be no longer in the profession. I've had some time to think about this since it has been in my thoughts since I started hobbying.

Yea there are lots of good honest investment adviser's out there for ladies in the profession. They just so happen to drive cars with 30's and has a No AA policy!