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CTYankee · 07-22-2014, 09:39 AM

My wife and I have attended several swingers' clubs all over the country - from the Green Door in Vegas to Trapeze in Fort Lauderdale and lots in between. Over the years my wife's interest has waned, mine has not.
With her permission, I've been trying to set up an evening with a provider at a good swingers club - as I travel often and we never swing close to home, I have several opportunities.
My question is - from anyone who's actually done this (and I see several ISO's on the subject but so far no reviews) - how's it go? Did you spend the evening watching your expensive provider pull a train for everyone else? Was a good time had by all? Did you establish ground rules - and what were they?
For providers - how do you feel about this - I would think that the presence of bouncers in all the non-scuzzy clubs would be a good thing - compared to the average outcall, but the expectation of "doing it" with lots of strangers may not.

Comments?

~Ze~ · 07-22-2014, 04:05 PM

You discuss and tailor the experience to your desires and limits before you get in the car headed that way. That goes both ways. Just because you pay her, don't expect her to perform outside of her comfort levels. As always "no" is a solid.

I am highly interested in GD. Never been.

Bijou Neko · 07-22-2014, 05:21 PM

I was very active in the swinger lifestyle before I started escorting. I find that I can't do both at the same time, the mindsets are too different. I would probably do a swinger party appointment, and I would probably enjoy myself, but I would definitely look at it as business and not the no-holds-barred fun time I used to have at parties.

Cpalmson · 07-22-2014, 07:22 PM

I've always wanted to "experience" a swingers club, but as a solo male, it is impractical since most clubs don't want or cater to the solo male. I've thought of taking a provider, but it would have to be a girl who I know would be into it. Also, I live in an area that has no swinger clubs or at least any that I'm aware of. I think the nearest opportunity would be New Orleans. It would be a tad expensive to bring a provider on a road trip. As for locating a willing provider in the city I would travel to would also present a problem since there would be no familiarity between the 2 of us.

Does anyone know of clubs that do welcome solo males? If so, where? I wouldn't mind paying extra. I know some clubs entice solo women by waiving the cover charge/entry fee/membership dues.

Nicolet · 07-22-2014, 07:37 PM

I have accompanied a few gentlemen to Colette's here in New Orleans. Its a very nice club and I have always had a great time there.
When I first brought a gentleman to Colettes, I didn't anticipate another gentleman wanting to join in the fun. When it happened, I wasn't sure what to do, after all, my gentleman was paying for my time. So, after a few seconds, I blurted out as my gentleman had me from behind, "You have to ask my Daddy". We had a great time and I finally got my MFM cherry popped!
I've never been to other swingers clubs, I do know that Colette's does allow single men on Friday nights. It is not the most popular night, as Cpalmson thought. And they do welcome single women every night.
Here is a link to Colette's: http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/

Island · 07-22-2014, 10:02 PM

We have a green door here that I go to. The owners there used to own it and they sold it and went there.

ICU 812 · 07-23-2014, 12:21 PM

I have, at times, thought about this . . .a fantasy if you will. In exploring the variations in my mind a thought pops up: I am paying significant money for an extended multi-hour session with a top drawer provider . . .why would I take her somewhere and (perhaps) have intimate contact with a stranger while her SO fools around with my paid date?

Maybe the Swinger Scene is not for me . My wife is defiantly OUT.

CTYankee · 07-23-2014, 12:50 PM

Thanks for the input - clearly the best way to go to a swingers club is with your SO. Mine would still be up for it except that menopause has dampened her libido some (she used to like to be gang-banged and I loved to watch/join in) and she feels she's too old to "compete" with the younger crowd that you usually find at the clubs. I guess my motivation is to try to recapture the old times understanding that bringing a virtual stranger to a club would be an imperfect recreation of the experiences I had with her.

Cpalmson · 07-23-2014, 01:18 PM

I would get turned on if my paid date was into it and like the idea of multiple partners. Heck, the sole reason I'd be taking her is to have the chance to sample some of the other ladies at the club.

Guest030824 · 07-23-2014, 03:53 PM

I am open to trying new things and would like to attend a SC but I would like to take a woman with her free to do as she liked. Like all of the M&Gs I have attended with a lady we go our separate ways at the party but leave together. Just what would a provider expect from me money wise?

Cpalmson · 07-23-2014, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by tucson

I am open to trying new things and would like to attend a SC but I would like to take a woman with her free to do as she liked. Like all of the M&Gs I have attended with a lady we go our separate ways at the party but leave together. Just what would a provider expect from me money wise?

Good question! Ladies, if one of you clients asked you to accompany him to a swingers club, what type of donation would you expect? Take everything into consideration-- possibly not actually being with your client, multiple guys asking you to be with them, your client being with different women, you client asking you to join in a 3-some or something more, etc.

Nicolet · 07-23-2014, 10:40 PM

This is a review that a gentleman did of our New Orleans excursion. We spent a great deal of time together, but not all of it was BCD. He gave me a one hour donation and he paid for everything else, so I think it balanced out. We had dinner at one place, had drinks at another, went to a strip club, bought a private dance for us, went to Colette's, all kinds of things.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=961673

Guest030824 · 07-23-2014, 10:59 PM

Nic damn it when are we going to get together? That review sounds like a wet dream I have had more than once. You were to be my birthday present this year but shit happened and we still didn't get together.

Nicolet · 07-23-2014, 11:05 PM

I know darlin', I was disappointed too. But you still had a nice birthday!

Guest030824 · 07-23-2014, 11:09 PM

Let me see what we can come up with around Halloween. Air fare to San Antonio round trip $300. A night of debauchery with me and one hell of a Hollow Weeine party.
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