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MagicMitch32 · 06-09-2019, 12:53 AM

so....here is thing.....

massage parlor has been my biggest fantasy for a long time, and I have always love reading people's reviews and experiences....

I have always wanted to try, but I always chickened out.

Today...I don't know what got into my head, but I finally decided to go to one. The experience didn't live up to my expectation, but it wasn't a nightmare, I think it was average. However, after the massage....I just started to feel completely paranoid and guilty.

I'm paranoid that a po po is gonna up outside of my door one day and my life and career would be over. I used my cell phone to make the appointment (like a damn idiot) and at the massage receptionist I see that there is a camera. So I just keep feel like if that place got busted, then I would be screwed.

I also feel paranoid because I think I'm gonna get disease somehow from the bed sheet and towel. (I only had HE, not FS)

I also feel tremendous guilt because I'm in a relationship, and I just don't know why I did it.

please someone tell me that I'm gonna be okay if even place is busted. I don't think there is a camera in the room, so there is no actual proof, right?

someone just comfort me....serious response only. Appreciated.

perfectdevil · 06-09-2019, 01:16 AM

You're fine dude, just chill. The only person that can out you for your experience is yourself. If the LE didn't raid the place during your visit then they aren't going to show up at your front door, and your SO will only find out if you tell her. As for disease? Get yourself tested if you're worried about it, maybe it will help set your mind at ease.

chillguy956 · 06-09-2019, 08:27 AM

I don't do to the massage parlor thing, just straight to business with providers for me. However, like with any police interaction always remember...shut the F up if you've think they got you on something. You can't be forced talk. My lawyer says you might take the ride & have your time wasted but shut up call him. Theres always a chance something was done wrong in the investigation or they really don't have anything on you & you can beat the case. If cops show up to your house without a warrant..shut the F up tell them to go away. If they want you for questioning, say you want your lawyer present & shut the F up. Don't incriminate yourself even if your caught red handed. I tend to scope out the provider location before I go in but I have a private security background so have an eye for things out of place. Don't risk it but sometimes the risks are worth the reward. Go with providers reviewed by the vets on here. Take it easy on yourself. Only time I've gotten an std that I got taken care of was with someone I was actually dating, never a provider or their beds. Don't be afraid to review either.

sand247 · 06-09-2019, 02:06 PM

Yeah you're fine man. Quite literally .00001% risk of an STD. Can't speak for the guilt part, but it's a hand job, no kissing, no sex, so really how bad is that? And like Chill said, read the reviews and follow the protocols on that. The best way to go is say you read a review, then there really won't be any discussion to worry about. No worries man.

MagicMitch32 · 06-09-2019, 02:10 PM

thanks guys, I have calmed down a little.

I think only time can completely get this paranoid feeling out of me.

valleyguy · 06-09-2019, 07:06 PM

nothing to fear if you go with a verified girl, as for the guilt thats on your end. get a burner phone tho or use an app

HarryFagina · 06-11-2019, 11:02 AM

Chill. Blowing your wad on some whores face always makes me feel better. Try that.

bigcountry956 · 06-12-2019, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by HarryFagina

Chill. Blowing your wad on some whores face always makes me feel better. Try that.

+1

MagicMitch32 · 06-12-2019, 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HarryFagina

Chill. Blowing your wad on some whores face always makes me feel better. Try that.

It felt good physically, it felt weird for me mentally.....

sand247 · 06-13-2019, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by dukedude24

It felt good physically, it felt weird for me mentally.....

You've got to put them "feelings" away my man. I've always said, if my girl takes care of me i won't stray.

silvester91999 · 06-13-2019, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by dukedude24

It felt good physically, it felt weird for me mentally.....

You picked the wrong hobby my friend.
Delete your account and walk away!