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[apcolaguy]

I've always wondered what preferences were for incall or outcall for providers or hobbyists...I realize it's a convenience and safety thing for some. But given an option, what do most prefer and why? And if outcall, at a location other than your residence?

[Calista_Syn]

I've noticed that most girls seem to prefer incall more. Strictly speaking from rate differences, they're usually lower for incall than out. I think, from what I've gathered, that it's mainly a safety thing, they feel better if they are on her turf, I'm sure convenience plays a huge part as well. Personally, I prefer out, because it affords me the chance to escape my gilded cage, domestic duties, and every day mundane routine at home for a while.. I know enough about my caller to feel perfectly secure going to see him, so it's not a worry. I wouldn't use my home as an incall, this is where I come to get away from the abrasive nature of the outside, it's my sanctuary, not my office..I'm a little odd about energy and such though, and training your brain to react, excrete chemicals, and settle a certain way in different environments. That means I'm the weird one who's incalls are higher lol I'm indifferent about a home or hotel when I'm coming to visit though, as long as it's sanitary of course.

[heidilynnla]

You can't please everyone all the time, but you sure can try! lol It seems no matter what area you are in, you can appeal to locals or tourists based on location. To each his or her own. I just hope I make the right decision the right time of year... Sometimes I will visit the beach then the burbs to get the best of both worlds.

[Prissy Patty]

I only stay in upscale hotels in the middle of the week in Nola. Better prices!

[DallasRain]

ditto with above

I prefer incall.....I feel safer....plus I travel fulltime,so i like to "set up house" when i check in.I bring sheets/fuzzy blankets/candles and decoartions that make me feel at home

[Cpalmson]

Dallas doesn't set up house-- she moves in

[DallasRain]

lol--true!

[Paven]

I'm the same way Dallas lol. There is no way I could fly with all of the stuff that I travel with.

I don't mind doing outcalls back home in Austin but I don't care for it when I tour. I always secure a nice clean safe place and I don't need to be out getting lost looking for a hotel in a city I most likely am not familiar with. I

[New Orleans Natalie]

Dallas, sounds like you travel the way I do!

[DallasRain]

lol Nat....I do! and i just bought a cool lighted lips lamps for my bedside table!!

[st_mike]

I tend to prefer outcall and it is mostly a safety and comfort thing for me.

I have had too many bad experiences with incalls - usually stemming from the ladies not knowing how to keep a low profile.

Most hotels do notice a steady stream of visitors coming and going for 3-4 days. This just attracts way too much attention for me to feel comfortable.

Plus those adjoining room doors freak me out.

[Miss Dreams]

I like both. I do not feel comfortable going to a gents hotel room as much as I feel with him coming to mine. I guess when I think about what I just said, I could say it backwards and feel the same way. If I have seen the gent after the first date I would either go to his place or let him come back to my Incall as well. While traveling, it changes... I don't typically like to do outcalls when I am traveling, but I will some of the time... Once we have met up I don't really mind doing either or but on that first date I would say most feel more comfortable if the gent comes to her. My opinion... I can see where you are coming from st mike... Sometimes hotels can not be such a great thing if you are in a home and you feel more comfortable if the lady came to your home. I myself would feel comfortable in a home knowing someone probably won't do anything too crazy or out the normal there at their place as to if they are in a hotel with anyone's name on it. Who knows, could be the same with the house! Depends on the people and the place from my experiences, Plus I do both so it's hard to really just narrow it down. Incall is nice and Outcall can be Fun as well.


Miss Dreams

[guest100913]

Originally Posted by Miss Dreams

I like both. I do not feel comfortable going to a gents hotel room as much as I feel with him coming to mine. I guess when I think about what I just said, I could say it backwards and feel the same way.

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Whew! Not quite a palindrome.