I can't get action from providers! What am I doing wrong!?

[rooky]

Can anybody tell me what I am doing wrong! I called Iris from backpage about two weeks ago for an outcall I didn't argue over the donation, I wasn't rude, I speak proper english and texted my address like she requested. She told me she will be there within 35 minutes, LIE, one hour later she is not answering my calls. I asked for a courtesy call or message through text but she didn't reply and I gave up. The following week I called her and asked for her services again. She asked me to text her my address and again was a no call no show!! Well, I called Maria from backpage that same day and we came to an agreement on a donation. She told me she can be at my place in 45min. One hour came and went and no show. I called her and she told me her gps said 35 to arrival so I patiently waited. After another hour I called her back and she didn't answer. Yesterday I called Dani from backpage who also gave me the run around and was a no call no show as well!! Three providers have stood me so I am wondering what is going on. I follow everything they ask on their ads I am hispanic just like them, I don't argue on donation, live in a private secure complex, and don't get an attitude when they don't show when they said so what am I doing wrong?? Can anybody help me with this problem

[Guest021824]

You are a newbie, just joined the board

[Lincolnpark]

Try getting a P411 account.

[Toreador_one]

Sounds to me like you just happen to have called the wrong girls, I do not know Iris, Maria or Dani from BP that you are referring to, but picking up the phone and calling BP girls are always a gamble, sometimes you strike gold, sometimes mud and sometimes not even that.

What to do?. Have you consider calling the girls that advertise here or even the BP girls that have been reviewed here so at least you know what to expect? Also, sounds liike you been asking for outcall service, do know that many girls even though they advertise that they do outcall, may be reluctant to go depending on where the location is (distance) and the type of location (motel, hotel, residence.)

Best of luck to you, keep trying

[1Curiousguy]

I am not an expert but it sounds like you're fishing in the wrong pond. You should do some research on the indies on this board and find one of the many really wonderful ladies who have good TCB as well as BCD skills.

Check the reviews and PM the reviewers for more info if you remain unsure.

I have had NC/NS's, too, and from respected providers. But since I have started doing the research and am more particular about who I see I have not had any problems.

[boardman]

Just a thought. I don't do BP but it sounds like there are discussions of donations going on. That may be causing some suspicions.

It also sounds like you are new to this and that inexperience may be more pronounced in your phone conversations than you think.

Chill out, there is good information on this board about finding, selecting, negotiating, etc. PA(Premium Access) will also quickly pay for itself by allowing access to more details.
Read all you can. I lurked on ASPD for years before learning the ropes.

Oh, and when you do start having some success, learn how to write a credible review.

[bbkid]

rooky, just keep trying and, as others have suggested, try some "newbie friendly providers here off eccie. The BP girls and so hit-and-miss and it looks like you've had a run of bad luck.

[pyramider]

Just get a porno and a bottle of lube.

[dearhunter]

What he said......................I'm just saying.

You should not be in this hobby................before you get all bent out of shape, let me break it down for you.

1. You invite unproven BP girls to your home

2. You put this shit in writing to her from your phone

3. You went back for NC/NS seconds

4. You discussed pricing over the phone

5. You have been stood up by three hookers and are wondering what is going on

6. You sign up on this board with a handle like "rooky".................WT F?

[Jaynuts]

Everyone else had great input. I also thought I'd mention that your first & biggest mistake is trying to schedule a BP girl for an outcall to your place.
I'd only have trusted/reviewed providers come to my place. That's one of the things this board is used for. Do a little bit more research before acting on impulse.

[Mr Clever]

I think its that he discussed prices over the phone.....That's a huge No No....Rookie mistake.

Ad far as BP girls......You, just gotta know how to handle them.

[CaptainQ]

You best move was to come here and try and learn. Takes a while to get the hang of things.

[texaspapi]

maybe they just don't like your incall. Try moving to a new location

[bigbadbill969]

Dude you are just calling the wrong providers. My first 2 providers were Cristeel and Mandy's Candy (both top notch providers at the time). I only told them that I had seen their ad and that I was interested. They did not even requested any info./references from me. Just take the advice given on this board and your luck will change.....Bill

[Sweet Heather]

Aways keep in mind that hookers are born liars.