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stilettokitty · 10-03-2009, 04:09 PM

Anyways I was curious, for the guys and gals...
Who here prefers GFE ... or PSE? Then I would like to know why... Or if you like to partake in both... If I was a guy, I'd probably want both- depending upon my mood.

I am primarily GFE and it seems most guys want that BUT I think if they could do all the kinky stuff they would lol. Who wouldn't, especially when you don't have to live with them!

There is much that I have tried, there is some I haven't that maybe one day I will.

Papacorn · 10-03-2009, 07:08 PM

You are right Kitty, it depends on mood. Most time I personally prefer the GFE - lots of kissing, and no sense of "business" involved. There are many providers who create this illusion so well, that you just appreciate that you discovered them!

Then, there are those times when PSE is the item I need - often the same providers, but after getting to know them in GFE, you know who really enjoys a different flavor of fun. There are also some ladies that are purely PSE, but I generally find myself preferring the blend. I still need some of the GFE style attention at the beginning or end!

What makes you purr for PSE?

guest040711-1 · 10-03-2009, 08:05 PM

90% a Hunter of GFE 10% for PSE, with exclusion of degrading acts like COF.

stilettokitty · 10-03-2009, 09:49 PM

I usually prefer to see someone at least once before I let ALL my inhibitions and naughty side come out......but sometimes yes there are days that I tend to think more on the PSE side and daydream about new things I want to try....

Things that make me purr well those are my secrets for now...

but

The very best sessions and the very best "relationships" I've had in this sport were primarily predicated on the two of us being a good "fit" regardless of the specifics of "services".

I want the gentleman to walk out of my sessions feeling the best about his time spent with me and the fact that I totally rocked "his" world. YEAH

TexRich · 10-04-2009, 09:13 AM

I prefer either one, it depends on my mood and if the provider is comfortable with doing em. I usually have a proclivity of GFE though.

yardape · 10-04-2009, 10:24 AM

FBE = FuckBuddyExperience = GFE w/ a kinky twist but w/o the drama & politics.

Guest100513-2 · 10-04-2009, 01:30 PM

I like both. The actual activity is not as important to me as the illusion that she wants to be there as much as I do.

climbon2 · 10-05-2009, 01:28 PM

For me it all begins with GFE as the starting point. I need to feel we click and enjoy each others company first.

In a couple of cases, we have moved beyond the usual GFE activities on the first "date", but usually it's the second or third visit that gets a little more exiting and unpredictable.

Yeah, I love the little surprises that weren't on the original menu!

5150 · 10-06-2009, 12:29 AM

I like both depends on my mood and are we both comfortable with each other.

Guest012510-4 · 10-06-2009, 09:56 AM

How about both! I do however want to comment on Monk's "the illusion" statement.

Has anyone ever wondered that is some cases the provider might actually like it MORE than you do? I am just saying.....

Slow&Easy · 10-07-2009, 12:37 PM

The actual definitions of GFE and PSE have been deliberated ad naseum

, and while the OP asked for preference of one or the other, I'd like to submit a third:

SETC, or Stripper Experience To Completion.

Here's the difference for me - I'm not so much into a traditional view of GFE, such as a lot of kissing and cuddling. I certainly appreciate those things, but it's not so much for me. Also, I'm not as young as I used to be, and my view of PSE (taken directly from sources unnamed

) is that I just don't have the energy for all those actions.

I suppose one could argue my SETC is simply a combination of both, and I would admit that is likely true. A couple key elements for me, however:

Like in a strip club, once the deal is struck, let's get it on. I don't want to appear rude, but I really don't want to talk for 15 or 20 minutes. Which leads me to...

Short time is okay with me. The nature of my work keeps me moving constantly - I haven't had a session in over a year when I didn't get at least one phone call. I am essentially on call 24/7. If it's serious enough, I have to leave right then. So planning a two hour session is practically impossible - and asking for a partial refund would be rude and unethical.

Seduce me. Physically. Right when I walk in the door. Sure, I may need to freshen up, but let me know "the instant you get done, I am all over you!" Anyone had a dancer eye you from across the room, walk towards you dripping sexuality, sit on your lap, lock her hands behind your head, and breathe heavy in your ear? Run her hands down your shirt to your crotch, feel the bulge, and coyly imply what she could do to you? That's the seduction...

Which leads to the completion. In the club, it can and has happened - no one will pretend otherwise. But what about the "one that got away"? What about the one who whispered in your ear "you really want to fuck me, don't you?" - and you spent how much on dances, hoping that it might actually happen?

So, make your incall your own private strip club (no pole needed, but always an option), seduce me with everything you have, and finish it like you mean it [reference post #10], and I am all yours...

Guest012510-4 · 10-07-2009, 01:17 PM

that was sort of hot S&E...

Slow&Easy · 10-07-2009, 06:20 PM

I do what I can, but I'm only one man... *he grins* Let me know if you want some original "literotica"...

gameloading · 10-08-2009, 11:23 AM

I just want the PSE. You can skip all the rest and just get down to business with me. Down and out in 30.

guest010712 · 10-08-2009, 12:12 PM

I like 'em both, but it also depends on how well you click with the one another.

In re to your question, Jolie, yes, but I thought she was just strokin' my ego.