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Old 01-17-2010, 05:03 PM   #1
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Default Is a guide like this helpful for you (ladies) prior to a session?

[ame="http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=32298&postcount =38"]ECCIE - Your source for escort reviews - View Single Post - What really turns you on? this question is for men and women[/ame]

I saw the above link on ANONONE's sig line with a title something like "Please read before BCD time with ANONONE"

Basically it is a very detailed description on of likes/dislikes/preferences/dealbreakers etc. I'd encourage you to click on the link and read in his own words, not mine. [& for the record, you sickos, I was not looking to set up BCD time with ANON, just curious about the link...let's nip those jokes in the bud]

So I guess the questions for discussion are, "Is this helpful? Would you read it? Would the amount of detail ruin things for you? Etc.???"
[please try not to focus on his specific likes/dislikes, but in general the concept of expectation setting like this]

And for ANON, has this tactic proved successful for you?
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Old 01-17-2010, 05:36 PM   #2
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Perhaps the history would be helpful?

After I first posted that, I received about a dozen PMs from providers telling me how "refreshing it was for a guy to lay his cards on the table" and I also was given several suggestions I put some of it in my bio.

I thought it sounded like a good idea for an experiment, only when I went to do that I found my bio had a strict character limit that could not possibly accommodate such information.

Then I thought, hmmm. . .what about a link in my sig line?

Since then, I have had many PMs with offers. . .only to our mutual disappointment that I live in Ohio, and for the time being, most of the ladies are down in Texas. I am not deluded, and I know that many of those PMs were marketing disguised as pillow talk.

As to the measurable impact. . .well. . .I have had two sessions since doing that. The one session was with a lady I see quite often and she knows most of my quirks, but she confided in me that she did read the post and paid attention to my perspective and decided to see how much of it was accurate. It was an awesome session! I didn't review it, because I see that lady 2-3 times per month and as a rule don't think you should review a lady too often unless something radical has changed for the good or bad that would benefit gents doing research.

The second lady was a direct result of the post. It was incredible. She used it like a script and rocked my world.

I also had an epiphany when ATLCOMEDY asked me about it, that since ladies can't read the entire review that we gents write, they may not have a clue as to what you like or dislike. Or am I mistaken in thinking a lady might do research beyond safety and security screening to find out what her client likes?
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Old 01-17-2010, 06:00 PM   #3
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Whatever floats one's boat.
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Old 01-17-2010, 06:00 PM   #4
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So I guess the questions for discussion are, "Is this helpful? Would you read it? Would the amount of detail ruin things for you? Etc.???"
[please try not to focus on his specific likes/dislikes, but in general the concept of expectation setting like this]
I found this fascinating. I have preference for letting a date develop organically. By that, I mean I like for it to feel like we are on a civilian date where the physical part flows naturally from conversation to intimacy. When I first started, I met a few "hobbyists" who got completely naked within minutes of my entering the room. I guess this is normal for the 1 hour time frame, but it seemed unsexy to me. I love to make-out with clothes on, and let each item be slipped off bit by bit.

So, when I saw ANONONE's link, I was not expecting to enjoy it because the last thing I want is for an encounter to feel scripted. That said, his writing is delicious, while remaining respectful. I would definitely find it helpful to have this sort of detailed information before meeting someone. I do find it awkward, in the heat of the moment, to have to ask, "Do you like this?"
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I found this fascinating. I have preference for letting a date develop organically. ?"
I guess I fall into that camp myself. As long as I know it is going to be good, I enjoy it unfolding organically as well. The human element of YMMV is fun.

That said I asked the question because I was interested in the response. And, ANON does do a very nice job of describing what he wants in a respectful, although bold, way. Maybe I'm missing something & I'm willing to learn if that is the case.
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I guess I fall into that camp myself. As long as I know it is going to be good, I enjoy it unfolding organically as well. The human element of YMMV is fun.

That said I asked the question because I was interested in the response. And, ANON does do a very nice job of describing what he wants in a respectful, although bold, way. Maybe I'm missing something & I'm willing to learn if that is the case.
Exactly. I think his description works for him because he has specific desires that are somewhat out of the ordinary. Most guys who gravitate towards me are like me: plain vanilla! For that, you don't need an instruction manual, just an affinity for kissing.
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It is still very much an experiment.

I too prefer an "organic" session, but I am going to keep an open mind and see what unfolds.

It is very helpful to see what providers think of this approach. Feel free to comment your honest perspective. . .like I said this is just an experiment for me anyway. What would be interesting is a tastefully done before and after report from both perspectives.

Now if I could just get one of the providers from the Windy City to answer my queries since I have no experience in that town, and was thinking of two or three session while there, it would be good data to examine. Sadly, two weeks have past, five different providers--no response!

PS: I love kissing, Alice!
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PS: I love kissing, Alice!
Let me fix that for you...

PS: "I love kissing Alice!"
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I haven't read it yet, but in general I read anything and everything I can get my hands on to try to KNOW my new client. I hate going in blind.
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OK, I read it. Now, excuse me while I book a flight to Ohio.
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OK, I read it. Now, excuse me while I book a flight to Ohio.
are you thinking what I'm thinking?
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You know, this has a lot of potential.

Lots of things could give a lady an opportunity to make a better session.

Tons of perfume or no perfume to not arouse suspicions?
Slow and sensual or attack him at the door?
Sexy lingerie or just be naked?
Let him unwrap you or just be ready?
Talking or STFU?
Take the lead, or let him control the pace.
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Let me fix that for you...

PS: "I love kissing Alice!"
I think I like the way you diagram sentences! I bet you could teach teenage boys what a direct object is with that approach!
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OK, I read it. Now, excuse me while I book a flight to Ohio.
Please don't tease me like that!
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WOW! Thank you! MMMMM . . . what a hot post!!! I am wet already just reading it!!! Good boy
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