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lovesthescent · 07-20-2010, 08:11 PM

:woot_ju mp:

a group of my friends and I were discussing the hobby sunday. We are all down here on business for a few months. We were all raised to be nice catholic boys (trust me, none of us became priests). We are project managers for a manufacturing company.

anyhow, we (knowing cleanliness is next to godliness, and all providers have boundaries, what type of a gent earns your ATF rating? Is it looks, oral skills, etc........how can we or better yet ME make your list. Btw, you can pm me if you are available saturday afternoon in fort worth, I am going solo to the stockyards and then six flags in arlington that night, massages or fs....

PoppyToyota · 07-20-2010, 08:18 PM

Try being ON TIME, not early or late. Be clean or take a shower at her incall if needed. Leave when you're supposed to and not make her bring up time. Then last leave the proper donation for the amount of time stayed. Those are the easiest ones that will get you on a few list.

Tara Evans · 07-20-2010, 08:23 PM

Being and ATF of mine is a man that is very respectful. Being a true gentlemen that knows how to treat a lady. And if your a cowboy that shows up wearing wranglers and a cowboy hat you are in. Oh and don't forget that killer smile.

tiggold · 07-20-2010, 08:25 PM

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Guest071613-2 · 07-20-2010, 09:09 PM

For me, it does involve some sort of chemistry, either physical or mental...it's really great when you get both.

My ATF's are very smart, REALLY funny, they are the kind of people I would want to hang out with (and often do!) in real life. They are reliable and respectful, and make me feel like I'm the best thing since sliced bread, even if it is only for an hour or two...I'll take it! They are sexually uninhibited, adventurous, and open-minded. They don't harbor an ounce of jealousy, we talk openly and have a great time with the hobby and the people in it. They like to take showers a lot, they have a genuine love for DATY, and they love my f*ck faces, which are ridiculous!

I'm a very lucky lady to know such amazing guys. They make all this worth it.

Sawyer · 07-20-2010, 10:29 PM

Dude you have your acronyms mixed up. If you want to be a providers favorite all you need do is be their ATM.

daty/o · 07-20-2010, 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Sawyer

Dude you have your acronyms mixed up. If you want to be a providers favorite all you need do is be their ATM.

Lana Warren · 07-20-2010, 11:08 PM

If you have a sense of humor and can make me laugh, you're my ATF!

TheGiftedOne · 07-20-2010, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Being and ATF of mine is a man that is very respectful. Being a true gentlemen that knows how to treat a lady. And if your a cowboy that shows up wearing wranglers and a cowboy hat you are in. Oh and don't forget that killer smile.

Tara, I'm slipping on my full quill ostrich boots and jeans as we speak. Now, where did I put my damn Stetson?

Dharma · 07-21-2010, 12:22 AM

When it comes down to it, money won't make you an ATF. There are some hobbyists that could never pay me enough to spend time with them.

Being on time, cleanliness, correct donation etc. Yes, those things are super important but to stand out, to rise above the rest it takes chemistry and a mutual respect. A client who knows my favourite flowers and brings them. Maybe he notices that I'm not moving like I usually do and gives me a little massage. He isn't there because he can't be someplace else, he's there because that's exactly where he wants to be. I guess in short, a man who treats me like a woman and not a provider. We like the fantasy too

Guest062912 · 07-21-2010, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Dharma

When it comes down to it, money won't make you an ATF. There are some hobbyists that could never pay me enough to spend time with them.

Being on time, cleanliness, correct donation etc. Yes, those things are super important but to stand out, to rise above the rest it takes chemistry and a mutual respect. A client who knows my favourite flowers and brings them. Maybe he notices that I'm not moving like I usually do and gives me a little massage. He isn't there because he can't be someplace else, he's there because that's exactly where he wants to be. I guess in short, a man who treats me like a woman and not a provider. We like the fantasy too

+1

OnceUponAnEscort · 07-21-2010, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Dannie

For me, it does involve some sort of chemistry, either physical or mental...it's really great when you get both.

My ATF's are very smart, REALLY funny, they are the kind of people I would want to hang out with (and often do!) in real life. They are reliable and respectful, and make me feel like I'm the best thing since sliced bread, even if it is only for an hour or two...I'll take it! They are sexually uninhibited, adventurous, and open-minded. They don't harbor an ounce of jealousy, we talk openly and have a great time with the hobby and the people in it. They like to take showers a lot, they have a genuine love for DATY, and they love my f*ck faces, which are ridiculous!

I'm a very lucky lady to know such amazing guys. They make all this worth it.

Smart young lady here.
I couldn't have said this any better.

I did have guys that I would drop everything for...middle of the night if possible. Because they were fun, and we had chemistry...clean and always treated me like a lady, not a hooker. (i'm a bit blunt...fyi)

They didn't try to pump every minute out of me that they could, unless we both wanted that. (both of us wanting it was very important, and a guy that can pick up on that - well, you tend to respect him more than others immediately to begin with.
I'm not a blow up doll/ real doll that can take it and take it and take it...nor am I a porn star...nor did I ever claim to be one, and it's not my fault if some dumb ass reviewer decided to call me one by chance, I don't know if they did or not.)

If you live in a town that a lady tends to travel to, you'll know you are one of her ATF's if she checks with you before she travels, or when she's headed down there - and doesn't just let you read the ad she posted. She likes ya....really.

GL

Imreadynow31 · 07-21-2010, 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Being and ATF of mine is a man that is very respectful. Being a true gentlemen that knows how to treat a lady. And if your a cowboy that shows up wearing wranglers and a cowboy hat you are in. Oh and don't forget that killer smile.

Note to self, next time wranglers and a cowboy hat..... got it covered.

rex4998 · 07-21-2010, 06:41 AM

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providers: how do us hobbyist become your ATFs?

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Originally Posted by PoppyToyota

Try being ON TIME, not early or late. Be clean or take a shower at her incall if needed. Leave when you're supposed to and not make her bring up time. Then last leave the proper donation for the amount of time stayed. Those are the easiest ones that will get you on a few list.

poppy moonlights as a provider?

blackspanishteacher · 07-21-2010, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by rex4998

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poppy moonlights as a provider?

Rex stop it. You do all those things and you know you're on my list!

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In addition to what was listed by the ladies, It also helps to communicate with the provider. I love it when my limits are pushed, both GFE and PSE. I try to treat my ATF's like a real relationship when we are together minus the drama, so fantasizing together and coming up with different things to do together places one at the top of my list. I wish that more could understand that not only is it an 'experience' for you, but for me as well!

My ATF's and I communicate via email, phone and texts (not just hobby related), we have a genuine interest in each other, can hang out together(if this is an option in their private life), are comfortable with each other and both maintain a mutual respect and understanding for the time we share.