For the ladies..How do you decide who to see?

[Guest011914-1]

With all the threads going on about how the guys decide who they see I figured I would put it out there how do you decide? I don't go just by references if it is someone here and someone who posts alot I go by that and how we click via PM or email...For example I had a request by someone I think very highly of but based on his posts I knew I wasn't the right one for him and very nicely told him that and we are still friends and email. My thoughts are if I don't think I can give him what he really wants and deserves than I am not going just to see him to see him..There has to be a connection of some sorts...I still hold him in high regard but I know I am not want he is looking for...so ladies how do you decide who you are going to see?

[pyramider]

I should be a lady's first choice.

I am polite.

I am punctual.

I am clean, or I quickly shower.

I am small.

I finish within nanoseconds.

An hour appointment over in less than five minutes . . .

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I should be a lady's first choice.

I am polite.

I am punctual.

I am clean, or I quickly shower.

I am small.

I finish within nanoseconds.

An hour appointment over in less than five minutes . . .

Get over here to my incall right now.

[DallasRain]

Good solid references and safety are priority # 1!

If I feel a guy who wants to see me is not going to enjoy what I offer,then I just go with the flow and do what i can to ensure he DOES!.

Guys have read my reviews and know what I offer.........so evidently he knows what he is in for!
{if he doesn't,then he has been hiding under a rock....lol}

[deanna_bell69]

well first of all his initial pm
..also how he responds in threads..
if he is a reviewer just to brag--can go either way really..they do deserve @ least a look at the full provider ..
i am aware that with any "Forum" there are those that lead /// follow //those that can x one out???
it is a business .... ok i didnt say that shit to piss anyone off and not directed towards anyone..
i just try to stay aware ..cause i am my own business...

so then i look at the other ladies he has seen..has he been respectful..shit im a slut im a dirty little hooktard shove that down my thr...spank me ..im a freak.but bcd unleast until u know me better (numbers, therapy, nrg, axiom, emos, rehab, ..then austin music scene, california..believe me i am no prude and love to play...but when i walk out a door im the female raised in private schools for the gifted (iq test to enter).too much ramble
recently found a new love for tfor boys
JUST OUTSIDE IM A LADY ...when i can make myself be

oh u ask me anything about rates ,bye? i dont want a picture of ur cok thanks
and newbies i have special requirements but i will cu
if a guy is texting forever i say drop it==full of getting off on ur pics and texts --cheapos

mostly be careful follow ur first mind

gawd

[charlestudor2005]

Interesting topic. I know ladies decline to see guys (or at least say they do). I have been NCNSd before, but I don't know if that is a "refusal" specifically since she set up the appointment in the first place.

Now, I did have an experience this last year where the lady seemed never to refuse to meet me, but at the same time never agreed to see me.

I would much prefer a lady say bluntly, "I don't think we'll click," than to NCNS, put me off, or agree to see me knowing we'll both have terrible sessions.

[shorty]

What a big fat wallet and a big fat dick that takes 5 minutes to get in, isn't the first priority?

[AdventureAdams]

Contacting me with a brief intro of yourself along with already having the required screening info already in hand- get triple points for me.

I decided who I would like to see through my screening and correspondence with the person I like a respectful ad light hearted lad who can see the humor in life. I love to flirt while corresponding prior to our meeting so if they guy can flirt back and titillate me as well, I know that we will get on splendidly.

If I get contacted from someone who seems abrasive or may be more demanding I gently tell them we probably won't work together well because we are clearly interested in a different scenarios.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I should be a lady's first choice.

I am polite.

I am punctual.

I am clean, or I quickly shower.

I am small.

I finish within nanoseconds.

An hour appointment over in less than five minutes . . .

Are you bragging or complaining?

[Indefinable Ms. M]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Good solid references and safety are priority # 1!

If I feel a guy who wants to see me is not going to enjoy what I offer,then I just go with the flow and do what i can to ensure he DOES!.

Guys have read my reviews and know what I offer.........so evidently he knows what he is in for!
{if he doesn't,then he has been hiding under a rock....lol}

+1

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Are you bragging or complaining?

Just stating the facts! I thought I better jump on it and get my resume out there.

[CummingsLane]

Most important to me is safety so your references must be in order. Second is your limits and correspondence with me. As long as you are a gentleman who can respect a woman. I don't see no problem in finding out more about you.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Are you bragging or complaining?

You would thinck with my impressive resume may pm box would be overflowing.

[Shayla]

The only time I say no is when they're trying to haggle or they're acting like a douche bag.
Otherwise I'll give everyone a chance.

[Iaintliein]

Some of us are lucky you can't see us till we arrive.