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Guest011914-1 · 07-21-2011, 10:12 AM

After reading the thread what sets your alarms off in an ad...only fair to ask the ladies what sets your warning system off when you are contacted for a date
rudeness and being crude in the first email
sending me a picture of their private parts..(seriously how childish)
after exchanging emails refusing to call or speak to me on the phone
refusing to give references, (actually had on guy tell me he didn't want to violate their privacy but giving names..lol..)
ladies what about you...

Sweet N Little · 07-21-2011, 10:31 AM

what are your rates & services. ----delete

also the "what would you do to me if I saw you? ---delete ----looking for sex talk/chat only

i reserve that for the ones I actually see lol

hobbyprojb · 07-21-2011, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

what are your rates & services. ----delete

also the "what would you do to me if I saw you? ---delete ----looking for sex talk/chat only

i reserve that for the ones I actually see lol

I always feel that it's a good idea for provider to either link their reviews on their ad or website. That way no questions are ever asked about services.

I also feel that it's a good a idea for every provider to have a personal website with a page showing what is on the menu. (Easy for a provider to get a personal website for free)

Sweet N Little · 07-21-2011, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by hobbyprojb

I always feel that it's a good idea for provider to either link their reviews on their ad or website. That way no questions are ever asked about services.

I also feel that it's a good a idea for every provider to have a personal website with a page showing what is on the menu. (Easy for a provider to get a personal website for free)

I agree Hobbyprojb, I have one in the works for that very reason. The ones "alarm" me are the ones that pm me here when all my info on here is clear.
Some start out with "I saw your reviews" ..well then you should know!! lol

KlassyKelliAnn · 07-21-2011, 12:38 PM

Getting a PM, email, whatever from a man who has 0 posts, just created email/account that same day, has no or ONE reference (when I state everywhere I require a minimum of 2 or more), reference is a year or more old and the reference is either not able to be found, retired, seemingly none existent, or an unknown with no credibility. I got all these in ONE pretty much just yesterday. NEXT!

KKA

lilred_robin · 07-21-2011, 03:31 PM

"Let me know when you're available"
Um, my availability is in my ads. Let me know when you want to see me.

An email that asks
"Can we meet tonight" with nothing else. No "hi my name is" or "here's my reference" or "so I saw your ad on.. " nothing.

half assed screening : "Yeah, I'm on date-check" with no ID/handle or anything.

and even after screening, some times I've called things off because...

he wants to meet in a bad area
he texts me, then calls because I didn't reply in 30 seconds, then calls again because I didn't answer, then texts again because I'm not answering..
Um, yeah. I can't always talk or text at work. Sorry, I'm at work from 6am - 5pm. If this describes you, please don't contact me. Persistent callers/texters are the biggest thing to get under my skin. I'll answer the phone just to tell you to "Go fuck yourself"

AmericanGeisha · 07-21-2011, 04:58 PM

My favorite are these What Hotel are you staying at ? Can I come over now?? Is it extra to do .....+..... no info no refs , no nothing .Although you also have to love .I am a virgin ,can you help me emails . I get alot of those .Guys who email their names , handles, ref info all at once are well appreciated and extra taken care of since most of the day we get so much bs ! ! !

hobbyprojb · 07-21-2011, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by AmericanGeisha

My favorite are these What Hotel are you staying at ? Can I come over now?? Is it extra to do .....+..... no info no refs , no nothing .Although you also have to love .I am a virgin ,can you help me emails . I get alot of those .Guys who email their names , handles, ref info all at once are well appreciated and extra taken care of since most of the day we get so much bs ! ! !

What hotel your staying at is a reasonable question. The last thing I would want to do is visit a provider in a rough part of town. Knowing my luck, I would be the one getting robbed or my car stolen.

Eccie Addict · 07-21-2011, 06:18 PM

I just ask what area rather than what hotel...

Guest011914-1 · 07-21-2011, 06:25 PM

thats one the gets me is when they email me at midnight and say can i come now...seriously I am sleeping and not on my computer 24/7

Sensia · 07-21-2011, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I just ask what area rather than what hotel...

That is the best thing to do. Ladies don't want to tell anyone exactly where they are prior to a screening approval.

Honestly the alarm bells go off when they immediately start emailing, pm'ing rude and crude messages. Or they want my phone number before I have had a chance to screen them. They give a handle that does not exist on any escort board. They use references of ladies who are UTR or no longer exist in this line of work. They use references of ladies who no one knows at all, yet these references have websites and no one knows them.

The list goes on..lol

SelenaAries · 07-21-2011, 07:13 PM

Oh god, lemme see.... asking if I can verify you via personal info when that is clearly not an option as listed on site...DELETE!

Pink Floyd · 07-21-2011, 07:20 PM

I am probably the opposite of the last minute guy. My next date has been scheduled about 2 weeks and I already have one for Aug 15. There is one girl that I have seen the most and I have better luck texting her out of the blue.

shorty · 07-21-2011, 07:32 PM

Well if a provider thinks she has to talk to me on the phone before we can make a date, then I guess I'm out of luck. I talk enough on the phone with business that I don't prefer to talk, to just to socialize. There are just a handful of people that I will talk to, to just shoot the shit.

Guest052912 · 07-21-2011, 07:42 PM

When a Guy pm's me and gives references but then says they know him by a different screen name or handle. When a Guy has no references and they want to send me a picture of themselves so I can see their ok. When screening is not going so good and they forward me a msg of another provider that has scheduled an appt with. (Sorry but not everyone does effective screening) When a Guy offers you way over your rate to as if I'm going to slack on screening just because you want to throw a lot of money at me. All of these are big red flags to me.