Follow up discussion to what really matters to clients as far as how much effort the girl puts into her appearance

[SweetSuzanna]

Follow up discussion to what really matters clients as far as how much effort the girl puts into her appearance

Let’s hear from the ladies what do you prefer your client be wearing or not wearing or other subtleties about how much effort he puts into his appearance for your session.

Of course cleanliness is always number one so I don’t think we even need to say that. For me personally, I love cologne and appreciate it when a guy wears enough of it that I can actually smell it. Sometimes if they put it on at 8 AM and I’m seeing them at 3 PM it has worn off. So maybe if you’re girl likes it to keep a spare bottle in your glove box. I also Love a guy in boxer briefs high end is even better LOL. Now I know beards are popular and I don’t mind a short well kept beard but these big long puffy shaggy ones that are never trimmed or not fun to kiss. And I think they make an attractive guy less attractive in most cases. I do like a nice 5 o’clock shadow however. I like the guy to have put a little thought into what they wear. I don’t expect a suit and tie or anything formal but wearing your oldest pair of shorts and a wrinkled ratty T-shirt is not very appealing. I like a little bit of jewelry sometimes maybe one earring or one bracelet or one necklace not too much jewelry. I don’t mind a few tattoos actually they’re kind of sexy. And toenails are important feet in general. I like it when I can tell the guy has trimmed his nails and cleaned his feet and maybe even use his moisturizer to keep them soft I do you like to give a foot rub or a little tickle tease torture LOL same with fingernails I mean just make them clean and trimmed.
One particular client I don’t know if I can name names so I won’t, but he is just a sharp dresser. He’s always really well put together and it’s a turn on to me. Almost like what was that term that was used for a guy that kind of prints a lot but isn’t gay I can’t remember. Anyway would love to hear what the ladies have to say and what the guys have to say in response

[dumars]

I like to think I catch on to moods and attitudes pretty good. I realized early on many ladies just were not comfortable wearing some clothing. So, I make it a point to mention that make up and whatever is not necessary!!! "Please don't dress up! Walmart shopping clothes is fine!" And, yes, some ladies have expressed appreciation for my attitude!

Besides, most women just look soooooooo much sexier in their natural state! Julie Andrews is a bit of a shock however!

[71Pseudonym]

I think the term you were trying to remember was metrosexual.

[seekinggradeAbj]

While I do my absolute best to show up well kept, spotlessly clean, and neat, I've never given much thought beyond those things and the ladies I've met were always just interested in how fat my wallet was and how much thinner it might be when I've left. Oh, and if I brought their drink of choice...

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Follow up discussion to what really matters clients as far as how much effort the girl puts into her appearance

Let’s hear from the ladies what do you prefer your client be wearing or not wearing or other subtleties about how much effort he puts into his appearance for your session.

Of course cleanliness is always number one so I don’t think we even need to say that. For me personally, I love cologne and appreciate it when a guy wears enough of it that I can actually smell it. Sometimes if they put it on at 8 AM and I’m seeing them at 3 PM it has worn off. So maybe if you’re girl likes it to keep a spare bottle in your glove box. I also Love a guy in boxer briefs high end is even better LOL. Now I know beards are popular and I don’t mind a short well kept beard but these big long puffy shaggy ones that are never trimmed or not fun to kiss. And I think they make an attractive guy less attractive in most cases. I do like a nice 5 o’clock shadow however. I like the guy to have put a little thought into what they wear. I don’t expect a suit and tie or anything formal but wearing your oldest pair of shorts and a wrinkled ratty T-shirt is not very appealing. I like a little bit of jewelry sometimes maybe one earring or one bracelet or one necklace not too much jewelry. I don’t mind a few tattoos actually they’re kind of sexy. And toenails are important feet in general. I like it when I can tell the guy has trimmed his nails and cleaned his feet and maybe even use his moisturizer to keep them soft I do you like to give a foot rub or a little tickle tease torture LOL same with fingernails I mean just make them clean and trimmed.
One particular client I don’t know if I can name names so I won’t, but he is just a sharp dresser. He’s always really well put together and it’s a turn on to me. Almost like what was that term that was used for a guy that kind of prints a lot but isn’t gay I can’t remember. Anyway would love to hear what the ladies have to say and what the guys have to say in response

Metrosexual

[yourdesire]

Wow seeking lol nothing more you poor guy. No love sad

[DallasRain]

unless a gent has a dress request,I wear what my mood strikes me tondress as
Usually if its a new client,I dress more conservatively...like daisy dukes & a tight wifebeater

Usually if its a regular,I dress a lil more slutty lol

true story...At home this week I was waiting on a gent to arrive...he had text me that he was around the corner from my house...I was wearing a silk kimono and nothing else..he was a really good regular,so I thought I would open the door for him and drop the robe....WELLLLL,I got a knock on the door,but luckily I peeped thru the peephole before I opened it..it was the amazon man!
that would have been an awkward moment! lol

[seekinggradeAbj]

Originally Posted by yourdesire

Wow seeking lol nothing more you poor guy. No love sad

I was simply addressing the question at hand.

I've always had fun, with very few exceptions. I had a terrific time with you, YD!

[SweetSuzanna]

Originally Posted by 71Pseudonym

I think the term you were trying to remember was metrosexual.

YES!! Thanks

[SweetSuzanna]

So guys don’t do anything special for an appointment as far as what they wear or what they trim or how they smell? Ladies does anybody have anything they especially enjoy on their client.? I know they’re all great and sweet and gentlemen, I just know that people prefer things and I think it’s OK to say it. If it’s OK for the guys to say it I think we should be able to express our likes and dislikes and I think our clients would appreciatethat

[71Pseudonym]

I try to dress nice, shave, trim whatever beard style I'm sporting at the time, I'll even use a scented mustache wax and put on a bit of cologne unless I see somewhere she doesn't like it. I don't do a full suit or sport jacket for a date where we're staying in and if it's super hot outside then I'm reaching for my shorts.

To be completely honest I haven't been dating at all right now because I'm not happy that I put on about 20lbs in the last year since I've been stuck at home for much of it so yeah I guess I care what they think of my appearance a bit too much even in the hobby world. I don't expect her to see me and think oh I'd do this guy for fun but I don't want her thinking oh I can't wait to get this over with as soon as she sees me.

[DallasRain]

i luv luv luv beards
omg i live the feel of lots of soft hair in my miss kitty while im riding your face!!!!!

[SweetSuzanna]

Originally Posted by 71Pseudonym

I try to dress nice, shave, trim whatever beard style I'm sporting at the time, I'll even use a scented mustache wax and put on a bit of cologne unless I see somewhere she doesn't like it. I don't do a full suit or sport jacket for a date where we're staying in and if it's super hot outside then I'm reaching for my shorts.

To be completely honest I haven't been dating at all right now because I'm not happy that I put on about 20lbs in the last year since I've been stuck at home for much of it so yeah I guess I care what they think of my appearance a bit too much even in the hobby world. I don't expect her to see me and think oh I'd do this guy for fun but I don't want her thinking oh I can't wait to get this over with as soon as she sees me.

I wouldn’t worry too much about 20 pounds sweetie. We all have weight fluctuations in Covid has not helped. As long as you present yourself well and have a great attitude that’s the important thing. Oh and cologne LOL