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CantStopyet · 10-15-2021, 07:05 AM

I am finding it hard to connect with ladies these days. The few who I find attractive often do not respond to my inquiries. I would find this a much better way to connect with available women:

Create a site similar to Seeking Arrangements, except men advertise their desires and availability. The site would be outwardly a "dating site" to discourage law enforcement from shutting it down(remember Backpage?).

So I envision it working like this - I post an ad expressing desire to meet with an agreeable woman as follows:

-looking for a date this Friday, AM preferred if possible
-I prefer slender, to medium build women(big bust and natural grooming a plus)
-I am 62 years old, 5'9", 165 lbs, grey hair, blue eyes
-Please call or text 585-999-xxxx if interested

Now women who want the experience can reply, saving them the hassle of being called and texted to death("blow up her phone syndrome"). This also protects the woman's privacy by not making her post compromising public photos online. The consenting couple can exchange photos, expectations around activities, compensation, etc via text, facetime etc.

A review section could still exist for the men and the ladies to share their experiences.

Comments?

hardlikker12 · 10-15-2021, 07:46 AM

I've thought of that too. Kind of like Priceline. You put out your info along with what you're willing to pay and see who responds.Probably a lot of high priced ladies have off days when they need fast cash and will accept your offer. Either way it would be easier than contacting endless girls who don't respond.

valkyra · 10-15-2021, 07:50 AM

I get where you're coming from, but I don't think it is a good idea for a couple of different reasons.

Women do not deal with being let down as easily as men. Especially in this line of work, where we are the minority and in high demand.

I see a lot of women (and later on, tons of potential bots... putting your personal info out there, and advertising that you're paying for it, is asking to get scammed) flooding the site and getting discouraged when they aren't "picked". It's easier to put up an advertisement and let potential clients come to you. After the 4th or 5th time of being messaged back "Not quite what I'm looking for in a provider, good luck!" and I'd give up. No reason to chase business when plenty comes to me.

Not only that, but - discretion. If someone's spouse saw that advertisement, they could probably pick him out based on his description - god forbid he uses photos -
Also, it is more natural for men to pursue women, although the alternate is nice it is not as common.

Not only that, but they'd have to include somewhere in the ad what price they are willing to pay. LE isn't stupid. How would you determine outcall/incall, activites, rates, photos?

Tryst has a feature where you can look up providers who advertise themselves as "Available now!" with a little button we can switch every 4 hours. You can look through those as "responses" to your potential ad, if you so desire.

valkyra · 10-15-2021, 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by hardlikker12

I've thought of that too. Kind of like Priceline. You put out your info along with what you're willing to pay and see who responds.Probably a lot of high priced ladies have off days when they need fast cash and will accept your offer. Either way it would be easier than contacting endless girls who don't respond.

I agree with this as well, though. Especially if I had a last minute cancellation. My rate is listed as "firm" on my Tryst, but I'm human just like you.

I know this varies provider to provider, so I am by not ANY means speaking for every provider out there, but SOME providers are willing to negotiate on rates depending on what sort of activities you are looking to participate in

CantStopyet · 10-15-2021, 08:13 AM

What I am willing to pay depends on the lady who responds. I will pay much more for someone who I find really attractive. If you have a hard budget limit(say $250) it would be a good idea to post that so the ladies looking for more $ don't waste their time and yours.

CantStopyet · 10-15-2021, 08:18 AM

Men would be advised to use "hobby phones". Height, weight,approximate age, are really not specific enough to single out hubby. Plus what is wifey doing on this site anyways?

The women could reply - "I fit the profile you are seeking - my dating time is $400/hr - if you are interested let me know."

rooster · 10-15-2021, 09:08 AM

This is a fantasy. Most of your "replies" will be from scammers. The rest will be the same old tired flakes who you will either not be interested in or they will jerk you around.

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valkyra · 10-15-2021, 09:20 AM

I agree with Rooster... you'd probably attract a certain crowd, which might be fine (or it could be very, very bad)

And reputable providers probably would continue to wait for their clients to come to them

Restaurants don't knock on people's homes around dinner time asking if you'd like them to cook your family dinner.

valkyra · 10-15-2021, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by CantStopyet

Men would be advised to use "hobby phones". Height, weight,approximate age, are really not specific enough to single out hubby. Plus what is wifey doing on this site anyways?

The women could reply - "I fit the profile you are seeking - my dating time is $400/hr - if you are interested let me know."

Wifey might be on the site because she's seen her husband acting differently and one time, he forgot to delete his browser history. And even if wifey might not be, but I'm sure you have family members, co-workers and friends who might alert her if they saw you. if you keep it vague enough... but I stand by what rooster said. This site would be overrun by fake providers scamming guys. "Hey, I meet your quota, look at this picture that is 100% me, I take xxx deposit, I'll be there soon, promise!!"

CantStopyet · 10-15-2021, 09:30 AM

IMO the scene is not too great now. I miss the old days when you could go to an establishment and see the women and they could see you!

Withnail · 10-15-2021, 09:37 AM

I think this is a great idea, and would be willing to put up seed money to get it started. The advertisers would be no-brainers: Cialis...

The scene here is disastrous. Too many clients chasing too few providers. Starting an agency is another option. Call it "Dial-a-Ho".

valkyra · 10-15-2021, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by CantStopyet

IMO the scene is not too great now. I miss the old days when you could go to an establishment and see the women and they could see you!

I don't know of them personally, but I know there are strip clubs and massage establishments who offer extra release. Perhaps ask the men's lounge (on Eccie)? They'd probably be able to direct you the best, I'm not even going to pretend to know what I'm talking about here, but that might be the closest thing to what you're looking for.

offshoredrilling · 10-15-2021, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by CantStopyet

IMO the scene is not too great now. I miss the old days when you could go to an establishment and see the women and they could see you!

can you still find at bars... yes
will there be hooker bars again ... IMO no

tbear4u77 · 10-15-2021, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by hardlikker12

I've thought of that too. Kind of like Priceline. You put out your info along with what you're willing to pay and see who responds.Probably a lot of high priced ladies have off days when they need fast cash and will accept your offer. Either way it would be easier than contacting endless girls who don't respond.

Yeah so on one of those occasional days off when they may need some cash rather than reach out to a regular and get more of that high priced cash they might want to reach out to the bottom feeders and see what they can give! Yup that will work.

Rainbird4668 · 10-15-2021, 11:37 AM

They sort of have this with SA.

My best regulars through there have ALL emailed me first.