More then a bedroom experience

[DiamondDash]

I love getting inside of the bedroom and having some fun with my guest.


Have you ever asked an provider to escort you some where outside the bedroom. How was the experience and would you ever do it again.

If not would you like to and why?

[stimulatethemind]

Yes, I have. I met a lovely young woman (provider) and we just clicked immediately. Our first two appointments ran over time by quite a bit and neither of us cared. On our third date, I took her to dinner at a very nice restaurant, and then for a little shopping at Victoria's Secret, followed by going back to my place for some wonderful "dessert". Our dinner was outstanding as she is highly intelligent and a great conversationalist. As it turns out, we can talk for hours and it seems as though we never run out of conversation. Our relationship has progressed during the past few months and we are now in a SD/SB type arrangement. We are taking a vacation together at a fantastic, 5 star resort outside the country in a few weeks. I'm sure this situation is somewhat unique and rare, but that's just the way it developed.

[LaStang]

i prefer the couch myself :P

[TheAntichrist666]

I have had sex on the chair, on top of a table, on the floor, on the sofa, and in the shower. I been thinking about sex in the car, but I gotta have tinted windows for that and it's kind of illegal in some places...you know : )

[Seeker]

Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

Yes, I have. I met a lovely young woman (provider) and we just clicked immediately. Our first two appointments ran over time by quite a bit and neither of us cared. On our third date, I took her to dinner at a very nice restaurant, and then for a little shopping at Victoria's Secret, followed by going back to my place for some wonderful "dessert". Our dinner was outstanding as she is highly intelligent and a great conversationalist. As it turns out, we can talk for hours and it seems as though we never run out of conversation. Our relationship has progressed during the past few months and we are now in a SD/SB type arrangement. We are taking a vacation together at a fantastic, 5 star resort outside the country in a few weeks. I'm sure this situation is somewhat unique and rare, but that's just the way it developed.

How did the financial arrangement change when you went from provider to a SD/SB?
I was a regular with a girl and we clicked quite well, and I wanted to ask for extended dates with a guaranteed allowance. But did not know how to broach the subject. I eventually lost contact with her :-(

[stimulatethemind]

Originally Posted by Seeker

How did the financial arrangement change when you went from provider to a SD/SB?
I was a regular with a girl and we clicked quite well, and I wanted to ask for extended dates with a guaranteed allowance. But did not know how to broach the subject. I eventually lost contact with her :-(

We went from a per appointment donation to a monthly allowance. In addition to the ,monthly allowance, I provide some frequent, nice gifts (clothes, shoes, jewelry, etc.), which is my choice and not because she asks for anything (which she doesn't). She has actually asked me to slow down on the gifts because she was feeling a little guilty. As in any relationship, the critical factor was communication. We just clicked very quickly and I desired to see her more frequently, so I broached the subject during one of our conversations. She agreed quickly and we worked out the financial arrangement in about five minutes. In my opinion, in order for something like this to be successful, you must desire more than just BCD time with the lady, and truly enjoy her company outside the bedroom. We do all kind of things together, including dinners, shopping, theatre and the symphony. We are leaving in a few days for a trip to a 5 star resort outside the country to celebrate her birthday. I just enjoy being with an intelligent, caring woman who has a great sense of humor and is a wonderful conversationalist. Of course, her BCD skills are amazing, but probably only constitute perhaps 20% of our time together. You must truly desire to make her life better, and she yours. My lady has told me on multiple occasions that her life is so much better since we met, and I assure you that my life in incredibly richer with her in it. You must also be realistic about the arrangement, what it is and what it is not. In my situation, neither of us has any desire for any commitment of any sort.....living together, marriage or anything similar. We enjoy each other for now and we both know that it will most likely end someday. When that day comes, and I sincerely hope it's quite a bit down the road, we should both be able to look back on our time together fondly and with no regrets. Good luck to you.......hope you find what you are looking for!!!

[awl4knot]

A few years ago I booked a multi-hour date (at a very fair rate) with delightful woman who I had seen before. She is very smart, has great people skills, knows how to dress well and is age appropriate for me. We began the date by attending a large reception for an organization I belong to, followed by a sporting event and then we finished the evening at my nice hotel.

She had a great time socializing, enjoyed the game and was revved up for great sex afterwards. Some people later commented on how nice she was, so the benefits kept coming.

But no, we didn't have sex under the bleachers.

[am-a-pleaser]

Being with an escort outside the bedroom is really a nice experience. The ladies I've done this with have enjoyed themselves. I plan on doing it more. A movie, dinner, hanging out at Starbucks, trips together.

I've done several non-bcd things and events. I will do more. I find things to do that the lady & I will both enjoy together.

[awl4knot]

This is a follow up to my earlier post. I find that a fair number of providers because of their work, family obligations (single mothers) and other circumstances have little or no social life, so they enjoy doing fun things and socializing. The problem is that many mongers can't afford multi-hour rates and the costs of a "date". Gee, in my town, it's very easy to spend $150 for dinner and drinks, and if you get a good bottle of wine, the bill can top $200. So when you add up the costs of the donation, the outcall lodging, meals, travel around town, etc. it can easily cost you a G note for the evening.

The same thing applies to a post tryst dinner. I'm happy for the company and don't mind spending money for a fine meal, but I can't afford to have the lady OTC when we do this.

Of course, if that's a lady's business model, so be it, but she will be spending the time alone or with another monger.

I hope this isn't a hijack.

[Guest080913]

I most certainly have hobbied outside of the bedroom.
Restaurants, social functions as a date, et cetera before and after bedroom time. It has always been "on the clock" but has been at a reduced rate given the necessity of extension of time and anticipated enjoyment of the lady.

It takes a connection more than what would be just in the bedroom. It is never a first date and requires a huge degree of trust. Because of the degree of trust, I can count on one hand the ladies who I would so consider.

It is a good experience IF you enjoy each others company. And, I like the appearance of a much younger lady by my side and the head-turns that I receive. I've had one not-so-good experience when we didn't click socially as well as anticipated. Therefore, I've become cautious about entering "social" situations with a provider.

[Malcolm1357]

The couch is always fun, along with the kitchen.

[soldierboy44]

I have taken one provider to dinner many times, she was, as the others have said extremely smart and sexy and great BCD and we too did in on the couch and the living room floor, as well as the bedroom many times. She was my age maybe a year or two older and from NH, so her travels down to my area always required 2hrs and as my divorced near conculsion, her fees where too high for me and I was not able to see her again and then she stopped providing, or changed her email address and we lost contact...........Man I miss her, she was awesome!!

[Chloe Kensington]

Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

We went from a per appointment donation to a monthly allowance. In addition to the ,monthly allowance, I provide some frequent, nice gifts (clothes, shoes, jewelry, etc.), which is my choice and not because she asks for anything (which she doesn't). She has actually asked me to slow down on the gifts because she was feeling a little guilty. As in any relationship, the critical factor was communication. We just clicked very quickly and I desired to see her more frequently, so I broached the subject during one of our conversations. She agreed quickly and we worked out the financial arrangement in about five minutes. In my opinion, in order for something like this to be successful, you must desire more than just BCD time with the lady, and truly enjoy her company outside the bedroom. We do all kind of things together, including dinners, shopping, theatre and the symphony. We are leaving in a few days for a trip to a 5 star resort outside the country to celebrate her birthday. I just enjoy being with an intelligent, caring woman who has a great sense of humor and is a wonderful conversationalist. Of course, her BCD skills are amazing, but probably only constitute perhaps 20% of our time together. You must truly desire to make her life better, and she yours. My lady has told me on multiple occasions that her life is so much better since we met, and I assure you that my life in incredibly richer with her in it. You must also be realistic about the arrangement, what it is and what it is not. In my situation, neither of us has any desire for any commitment of any sort.....living together, marriage or anything similar. We enjoy each other for now and we both know that it will most likely end someday. When that day comes, and I sincerely hope it's quite a bit down the road, we should both be able to look back on our time together fondly and with no regrets. Good luck to you.......hope you find what you are looking for!!!

You sound so nice! We need more men like you.

[b2pop]

The reason I hobby is I do not want to have to do the "SD" thing. However, we are all human and there are some providers I would love to have a relationship with outside the bedroom. If I start feeling that way though; I move on. I am not in a position personally to do it. To each his own. Oh yeah, I love the kitchen.

[pyramider]

I saw a billboard for a comedian that is aging and timeless. I bought the tickets without thincking about who I would take. Not more than five minutes after I bought the tickets a lady I know PMed me. I replied to her PM and then asked did she like the comedian. She responded she liked him and asked why.

I informed her I had just bought tickets and did she want to go. The lady thought about the offer for about three seconds and said sure.

We had a nice evening, No muss no fuss. Holy Tebow she was dressed nice and looked beautiful. She was the perfect companion that evening.