I am finding this difficult!!!

[miss_leah]

I come over to NWA from time to time and I always find this difficult. It is so hard to check references in this area! The ladies never get back to me, not sure why this is. If they do, I have to spend a ton of time researching the lady to make sure she is legit because she doesn't have a website. She may have a few review's here, but if the fella that reviewed her has only reviewed her I can't trust that.....
I am not very active on this board, but I have a website with reviews on various sites. I am a member on P411 and datecheck, I wish more of you would join. It is so much easier to verify and saves a ton of time!

I am just not sure how you all operate safely and efficiently???

Any suggestions, I would love them!!! I don't see a ton of people and would rather stay safe than see anybody at all....

Thanks in advance for any help in figuring out your area!!!

[Miss Dreams]

hmmmm, they normally get back to me pretty quickly... if not, the worst case is setting the appt back maybe to the next day, it sucks, but most of the time we can agree to do so unless either is leaving town, or other reasons.... i guess what you need to to is try emailing them, calling, texing, pm or maybe some of the time yahoo im if they have it, those are ways every area should be able to get ahold of one another... or not taking ref's from the ones that are not reviewed-- y take their word if someone didn't take the time to review them? Maybe just don't take ref's from another ladies unless they are providers reviewed here on ECCIE or other review sites such as escorts, ter, eraps,p411, ect...

OR...

Play your cards right!

[miss_leah]

See that's the thing... I have called, emailed, texted, and pm'd.... I am not coming for another week so I started with plenty of time....
I was thinking because I was unknown in the area??? Not really sure...
Thanks for the reply!!

[Lily Blair]

No, it's not you hun. NWA is just difficult, in more ways than one. And I've spoken to several others who feel the same.

[miss_leah]

Great to know!! I was starting to think it was personal.....

[Megan Love]

Find other ways of screening. Like employment...... I don't trust too many references anyway.....

[miss_leah]

Thanks Megan!!

[guest071811-3]

Originally Posted by miss_leah

I come over to NWA from time to time and I always find this difficult. It is so hard to check references in this area! The ladies never get back to me, not sure why this is. If they do, I have to spend a ton of time researching the lady to make sure she is legit because she doesn't have a website.

Understand not every girl does business the same way..many don't want or need a website.. and consider this.. while you are having to check them for being legit perhaps the girls are having to check you for being legit before they go and put a client that is using them as a vouch at risk

She may have a few review's here, but if the fella that reviewed her has only reviewed her I can't trust that.....

you want to utilize the sight but want to second guess the info you are finding? i.e the only thing you have to ensure she is "legit" is reviews from a site like this that you may trust.. is this the girls problem? the guys problem? our your problem that you can't trust that?

I am not very active on this board, but I have a website with reviews on various sites.

so.. your not very active, but want girls to trust you enough to give you a reference but don't wanna trust them because they may only be reviewed here with no website or whatever? really?

I am a member on P411 and datecheck, I wish more of you would join. It is so much easier to verify and saves a ton of time!

p411 in case you haven't noticed is about useless for this area and perhaps should be considered one of the least trusted methods for screening.. few years back..people were busted..most recently people were busted using p411.. perhaps not the safest place..

also consider that once again.just because some girls wanna trust screening sites like that.. that doesn't make the guy safe, means he is currently safe (as evident when a guy with multiple ok's was used to bust people)...and for every reason you have to distrust or second guess the info you find here about a lady..they may feel the same way

I am just not sure how you all operate safely and efficiently???

the same way you do.. screening is screening, their is no hidden unknown magic to it.. names, phones, employer, handles, p411, etc etc etc.. its pretty much all standard for any area

Any suggestions, I would love them!!! I don't see a ton of people and would rather stay safe than see anybody at all....

Thanks in advance for any help in figuring out your area

if you really feel that way perhaps this business or atleast this area is not for you.. i would really hate to think that i feel like i gotta "work" but worry about my own safety and be second guessing all the time..no wonder some are so stressed..this job is suppose to be fun..so if you are truly that worried...perhaps a tour to another area better suites you and would relax you..

Bottom line..girls have lives.. and while many claim to be quite reference friendly they may not be in a place to provide them..hell i have spent a week..2 weeks , 3 weeks or longer on cruises and traveling where I do not have cell phone service, where I do not care to check the internet since i am trying to "get away"..

perhaps girls are trying to be territorial about it.. money is tight and if you can't get guys vouched perhaps you won't come and they will get the money..dirty yes.. unthinkable..no

either way.. while we all keep each other safe.. i don't think questioning the area's screening practices etc endears you.. but girls do have lives..and their is not "rules" of this world..just generally accepted practices..sucks..but true

[urhuckleberry]

I think I can count on half a hand how many NWA providers have a website, participate in any forums, and/or have a P411 account. It's a tough area for touring ladies... you almost have to depend on other touring ladies, or the few providers who care about the community...

Huck

[miss_leah]

Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

Understand not every girl does business the same way..many don't want or need a website.. and consider this.. while you are having to check them for being legit perhaps the girls are having to check you for being legit before they go and put a client that is using them as a vouch at risk

It is not hard to check and see that I am legit, that was my point in saying I have a website with review's on many sites... They are all linked there.....



you want to utilize the sight but want to second guess the info you are finding? i.e the only thing you have to ensure she is "legit" is reviews from a site like this that you may trust.. is this the girls problem? the guys problem? our your problem that you can't trust that?

Would you not 2nd guess a provider who was only reviewed by one guy and the guy had only reviewed her...?? It is nobody's problem, just a fact that the risk is higher in a case like that...




so.. your not very active, but want girls to trust you enough to give you a reference but don't wanna trust them because they may only be reviewed here with no website or whatever? really?

I have no problem if a gal is only reviewed here.... The problem is back to the only one review by an unknown hobbyist or no reviews...



p411 in case you haven't noticed is about useless for this area and perhaps should be considered one of the least trusted methods for screening.. few years back..people were busted..most recently people were busted using p411.. perhaps not the safest place..

It is simple on P411 to see who has seen who, and the email and number is one there for each and every lady along with her website link. It is easy to contact a lady from there...

also consider that once again.just because some girls wanna trust screening sites like that.. that doesn't make the guy safe, means he is currently safe (as evident when a guy with multiple ok's was used to bust people)...and for every reason you have to distrust or second guess the info you find here about a lady..they may feel the same way

You can't just trust any site, you still have to call and do your research...


the same way you do.. screening is screening, their is no hidden unknown magic to it.. names, phones, employer, handles, p411, etc etc etc.. its pretty much all standard for any area



if you really feel that way perhaps this business or atleast this area is not for you.. i would really hate to think that i feel like i gotta "work" but worry about my own safety and be second guessing all the time..no wonder some are so stressed..this job is suppose to be fun..so if you are truly that worried...perhaps a tour to another area better suites you and would relax you..

Actually I am not "touring," I am in school and have to come there for things at school.. I just happen to like to play a little while I am out!!

Bottom line..girls have lives.. and while many claim to be quite reference friendly they may not be in a place to provide them..hell i have spent a week..2 weeks , 3 weeks or longer on cruises and traveling where I do not have cell phone service, where I do not care to check the internet since i am trying to "get away"..

I have a life too so I understand that. I have kids and go to school.. It would be different if it was just one person not getting back to me, but 99% of the people I contact? They have all been busy for a week and a half? Doubt it..

perhaps girls are trying to be territorial about it.. money is tight and if you can't get guys vouched perhaps you won't come and they will get the money..dirty yes.. unthinkable..no

either way.. while we all keep each other safe.. i don't think questioning the area's screening practices etc endears you.. but girls do have lives..and their is not "rules" of this world..just generally accepted practices..sucks..but true

FYI I am not questioning screening practices, just trying to figure out why things seems so different there?????? That way I could try different method's to get people to actually call me back, email me, PM me, text me, or something....

It seems as if you were being hateful and all I was/am doing was trying to get a little help and understanding...

[shorty]

Don't let her get to you Babe! I always scan past her comments.

[miss_leah]

I just wanted to straighten out the story, seemed like someone was reading between the lines instead of on the line.....

[MrGiz]

Yeah.... while I have been finding myself in agreement with many, if not most of DeAnna's posts, lately..... there is a considerable amount of hypocrisy in DeAnna's post! Has she not been a leading voice in encouraging the girls to screen to the best of their abilities?
Leah was simply trying to educate herself on safe methods of playing in the area!! Yeah.... yeah.... I know..... DeAnna will say there is no such thing as "safe playing " in Arkansas these days.... but it's ridiculous to think there's not a whole lotta sucksessful p4p going on every single day!!

Leah.... I can't speak for NWA.... but I know there are several Central Arkansas girls who are reference friendly!! I also know I'd luv to meet you sometime!!

Thanks for wanting to play safe!!

Giz

[Lily Blair]

Deanna is just a big ole meanie. Don't mind her.

And Giz is right. Central AR providers are much more reference friendly/reliable.

[miss_leah]

Thanks Giz and Lilly!!!

And now lets not gang up on Deanna, maybe she is just having a bad day or something... Maybe she didn't understand the point of my post... She seems to be a lovely lady and we'll give her the benefit of the doubt on this one...