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Guest0812112 · 03-23-2010, 04:58 PM

being in this line of work as a provider i have had some request for a quickie ,what are my rates?? I just want an in and out , should be less .isnt it? Every time I get this request my mind goes off in multiple directions, first Im mad, then I think how rude next comes WTF then I suck it up and send a nice reply saying on occasion I do 1/2 hr sessions , but for the $ saved their not getting their moneys worth. this request makes me feel kinda bad, am I being overly sensitive or overlooking something? How do you get a GFE in a 10 min quickie? Dose it take less time to prepare for quickie than a two hr session? Let me know if Im off base xoxo chelsea

dentonseek · 03-23-2010, 05:12 PM

I'd imagine that anyone who's looking for a 10-15 minute quickie isn't really looking for the full GFE experience although a few would like to try.

Its usually a short notice appointment due to an opening in our schedules. I sometimes do quickies when there is a new girl offering them. Lets me get in, get off, get out...and gauge if she is someone i'd like to schedule a longer appointment with. Some ladies don't mind them and some ladies hate them. I think its all up to how you structure your days.

UTR4Passion · 03-23-2010, 06:03 PM

That is the question.
I agree with DS on his observations. I usually don't get involved with Quickies because there is no time for GFE or to connect and feel any chemistry. That is not to say that I haven't because in certain circumstances, like a Plan A that failed to materialize, the schedule becomes compressed and the anticipation was already in full gallop. So, Plan B might be a Quickie.
Ms. Simms, you are also correct, it takes almost as much time to prepare and recover for a regular session as it does for a quickie. So, guys should expect to provide a gift consistent with the set-up and convenience. That being said, if your gift level is the same for 30 minutes as it is for 15, then the guest may feel like they were not treated fairly.
I is my belief that most mature providers do not offer quickies because they are well established and are not looking to increase their booking volume.
Finally, if you decide to offer short sessions, then you should keep the short sessions at a set price, even if you are offering occasional specials for longer sessions.

hotlips_houlihan · 03-23-2010, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by dentonseek

I'd imagine that anyone who's looking for a 10-15 minute quickie isn't really looking for the full GFE experience although a few would like to try.

You would be surprised. It seems every guy who sees me for a 30 minute quickie is trying to get the GFE treatment. I just politely pull away and try to get the ball rolling.

Humpback_Dorman · 03-23-2010, 08:04 PM

I have to agree, it's not usually anything but a timing thing. Short on time, need to nut - wanna do it with a cute girl. No harm meant.

HH, I'm sure DS was referring to a 10-15 min session some girls offer, but Half Hour sessions are probably a little more interaction expected. I mean most guys can knock off a nut in less than 5 minutes if they are needy. So, in a half hour session, it's nice to get some luvin'

Now I have known guys who could easily nut 2x in 30 min, so each guy is different. Is it time, or simply nutting they are paying for?

Dorman

OldGrump · 03-23-2010, 08:10 PM

I don't do FS, but I think of quickies as something you and your SO do when time is short but passion high. If someone takes the time so see one of you lovely ladies, I would think the longer the better. Relax & enjoy the company. If all they want is to ejaculate, self service is fast and cheap - that would satisfy the need for a "low price" and "short time".

I guess a quickie could serve as a sample, but I've never seen rates reduced enough (and they shouldn't be) to justify not scheduling more time for a few dollars more.

gregory_m2003 · 03-23-2010, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

You would be surprised. It seems every guy who sees me for a 30 minute quickie is trying to get the GFE treatment. I just politely pull away and try to get the ball rolling.

I didn't know 30min session counts as a quickie.

Torito · 03-23-2010, 10:24 PM

i personally am not interested in quickies. I like more time to enjoy a woman, not just quick use of a few parts.

That said, I see nothing wrong with someone asking if what he is looking for is available. Coersion is not OK, asking is. I also see nothing wrong with a provider declining to offer, or to provide, what she is not comfortable with. That is all just clear communication and part of business.

Torito

Donnie Brasco · 03-23-2010, 10:59 PM

At my age, it takes almost thirty minutes to get my pants off. Guess that means that my 1 hr. sessions are really thirty minute quickies. Whodda thunka? I can't imagine (unless you have already gone BCD with the lady before) getting a lot going on with a lady in a 30 minute session. Oh well, different strokes for different folks.

LazurusLong · 03-23-2010, 11:22 PM

Remember.

You are NOT paying for sex, you are paying for their time.

Repeat that over and over and then it will make sense.

I had someone ask me to bring her some food recently. I offered to bring enough for two and she told me I'd have to PAY to stay and eat because, after all, I have to pay for her time. WTF?

Don't get me wrong, I didn't want a session, a quickie, or anything else, I just didn't want to be treated like the pizza delivery guy minus a tip.

I just figured that I hate to eat alone and it would be more fun to eat together but that "paying for her time" thing was burned into her brain by someone.

I guess my time to drive it over and GIVE her the food doesn't enter the equation to sort of balance that out enough to just sit and eat?

Guest030911 · 03-23-2010, 11:39 PM

It is up to you, babe. If you don't mind doing quickies, then do them.
If it bothers you, then don't.
It is what you can tolerate and whether it is worth the money.

I hate to "dis" some of my fellow hobbyists, but you will have to watch out for the ones that will stretch it to damn near an hour and only want to leave the donation for the half hour. Guys, have courtesy to bring enough to cover "overtime" or get in, get off, and get out in the allotted time.

Chelsea, you will find out what works for you and what does not. Don't be afraid to to try new business ideas.

And it is possible to round the bases in 30 minutes or less. Speaking just for myself, the excitement of seeing someone I have never seen before makes that more possible for me than with someone whose company I enjoyed many times before.

boo-boo bear · 03-23-2010, 11:39 PM

I would not be offended by the asking, as that is the way of the world. As we said in the canoe club:

"All you can do is ask, and they can say no, but if you never ask, then you never know"

However, you clearly have the right to politely decline and say no, and no one should ever attempt to coerce anything.

Guest0812112 · 03-23-2010, 11:44 PM

donnie if it takes 30mins to get you pants off i cant imagin anything that can be much more fun than that anything after that is just icing on the cake, at any rate rest asure you sent me to bed with a smile on my face.XOXO chelsea

am-a-pleaser · 03-23-2010, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by chelsea simms

being in this line of work as a provider i have had some request for a quickie ,what are my rates?? I just want an in and out , should be less .isnt it? Every time I get this request my mind goes off in multiple directions, first Im mad, then I think how rude next comes WTF then I suck it up and send a nice reply saying on occasion I do 1/2 hr sessions , but for the $ saved their not getting their moneys worth. this request makes me feel kinda bad, am I being overly sensitive or overlooking something? How do you get a GFE in a 10 min quickie? Dose it take less time to prepare for quickie than a two hr session? Let me know if Im off base xoxo chelsea

I get irritated if a provider rushes me. I enjoy the gfe experience. Ever consider referring the "quickie seeker" to see a SW? If I don't have 2 hours, I don't schedule.

Now, if the lady called me and offered a quickie, I'd probably take it if I knew her. I'd just figure she wanted a quickie($) herself, and wouldn't expect her to get all dolled up.

Just my opinion.

curiousbill101 · 03-24-2010, 12:09 AM

That's terrible! She asked u to bring food, then wants compensation for dining with her/watch her eat...wow!

Quote:

Originally Posted by LazurusLong

Remember.

You are NOT paying for sex, you are paying for their time.

Repeat that over and over and then it will make sense.

I had someone ask me to bring her some food recently. I offered to bring enough for two and she told me I'd have to PAY to stay and eat because, after all, I have to pay for her time. WTF?

Don't get me wrong, I didn't want a session, a quickie, or anything else, I just didn't want to be treated like the pizza delivery guy minus a tip.

I just figured that I hate to eat alone and it would be more fun to eat together but that "paying for her time" thing was burned into her brain by someone.

I guess my time to drive it over and GIVE her the food doesn't enter the equation to sort of balance that out enough to just sit and eat?