A friend...

[Guest103014]

I have a friend (female) who is.... well curious about the hobby.

She'd like to come watch a session - not participate.

Need some advice - thoughts.

1) Clearly, I need to bring this up before hand. Likely w/ a lady I've seen before. Probably will message her so she's not "on the spot" and can think about a reply.

2) Should I agree up front to pay more??? I usually tip, some. But this seems extra. But not double the rate??


My friend mostly is fascinated by the idea. She's "heard about it" and I've told her about it. I guess its just not real till she sees it.

[Pleasure Seeker]

What does she not believe... that someone can take money in exchange for sex? Well, it is the world's oldest profession, so at least your friend should believe in history. Or maybe I am misunderstanding... she may just want to see how the provider acts when having sex in exchange for money. Either way, get it going... it sounds very erotic.

[Guest123018]

[Melissa Madyson]

[coon-ass56]

Gregster, I have a session scheduled at 11:30am friday morning with a valued provider. I could check to see if she could watch and answer any of a friend (her) questions.

[pornodave69]

If she's hot give me her number. I'll pay her and record it to video and she can watch it later.

[Guest103014]

Originally Posted by pornodave69

If she's hot give me her number. I'll pay her and record it to video and she can watch it later.

lol had a few of those offers.

She's not to that point. She mostly learned that I do this - and was surprised.

"I'm not THAT type of guy..". So I said "what type is that?" Which led to a conversation.

So, then, later, I brought up "If you think that only THAT type of guy is in this, what do you think about the girls?" She thought mostly victims, with little choice, etc. Largely the image created in media. She just didn't know. Heck, I didn't know before I got involved.

I'm not exactly KEEN on sharing my friend w/ all you dogs - nothing personal - though if she goes that route - you all would be very happy. But mostly she wanted to see it - partly b/c its erotic, partly b/c she's curious.

I also thought about taking her to a meet and greet - to meet some of the ladies, but I thought everyone would be asking for her number. Plus, I've never been to one, not sure how everyone is there. I guess it depends on the crowd hosting and who's invited.

[coon-ass56]

Gregster, this is what we deal with when we bring a newbie into the fold. It is kinda cute how different kind of people deal with social/sex issues.

[Guest103014]

hehe I guess I'm just a newbie and newbies.

[coon-ass56]

Gregster, don't even talk about Collette's to "a friend". a whole nother issue in life to explore. Coon-ass

[Guest103014]

Actually, I took her there a good while ago. Not much happened w/ us at the club.

After was pretty good.

[coon-ass56]

you go boy.... 90 minute massage session near the zoo friday morning ,where the animals hang around. coonass

[Lena Duvall]

I'm confused as to why your friend would need to be in a session to learn about the hobby. Generally learning about the hobby and being present in a session are not the same thing. Even if she wouldn't be actively participating in any activities, this is still a couples session. Only one that's more about voyeurism for your friend.