My cancelations are out of control... :(

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

I'm starting to believe its standard here or maybe it's my luck.

I have had so many cancelations and or inquiries with no follow thru.
I know this time of year can be hectic for all and being in new cities is a weeding process of being contacted by all the creeps & guys on the alerts list.

I am just honestly surprised at how many verified members of p411 and eccie have wasted my time or straight up NCNS.

I'm starting to think the worst.

Some have been kind and actually made it up to me but most just act like it's an ok thing to do, as if since they messed up they don't want to right their wrong and reschedule.

Maybe I'm too understanding. Maybe I should just alert the other ladies in other forums and keep quiet but I'm literally at a breaking point of frustration. Is it just me or does this happen to a lot of ladies & gents?
I feel like it's the norm in NOLA.

How do you guys and gals handle repeated cancelations? How often does this happen to you?

[Guest123018]

Sorry that happened doll. Can u pm all of the timewasters.
Thank you

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Thanks and yes I will. I really just want to write the long list here and put them on blast.

I will be using our usual method of letting the other ladies know once I compile my list.
I haven't done it yet because I wanted to give some the benefit of the doubt.

I know guys deal with it on their end too but I'm a lady who keeps her obligations and it's rare that I cancle on people and I deserve the same consideration.

[myren1900]

The extreme weather and flooding this weekend northwest of NOLA may have something to do with it and it is nothing personal.

But I can understand it must be frustrating with unexplained cancellations

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Absolutely right myren. That would be an acceptable excuse for sure but all my issues are a compilation of mishaps over the last month.

I was gone for the floods and just got back last night.

I had 2 cancelations. For example. One just NCNS and the other asked for an appointment in 30 minute. So i dropped the menu at the restaurant I was going to order from, went to my hotel freshened up and got a text at our appointment time to him saying "oh I need to go to the casino real quick and I will text you on the way back." WHAT? It was 12:30am. I'm trying to laugh it off but there are no more oh wells left in me, just WTFs and OMGs.

It's bad.

Thanks for your replies.

Hopefully people will be more considerate with each others schedules around here.

[Spontaneouscb28]

I would think it's because of the weather conditions. At one point I think the whole at&t network was down too. Sorry that u had to experience that though

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Honestly folks, thanks for easing my mind at this here pity party.
You don't know how much it helps to vent.

Happy hunting & you know what else...

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

On another note I did have 2 out of 15 or so cancelations reschedule and compensate me for the trouble. I can't leave out the good with the bad.

Thanks to the gents who do make it right.

I think if more (ladies & gents) posted here how they made it right after a cancelation it would reset the standard on how to hobby respectfully. So feel free to share those stories & praise those who have do done right after a scheduling mishap.

Thanks again you all.

[KatiforYou]

Your gorgeous, I don't think they know what they're missing.

But, I think it's the weather. I've had cancellations as well because they just can't get to me, or work was canceled or ya know...

Best of luck, hope it turns around.

[Guest123018]

Even if it is inclement weather
its a simple courtesy to text or call and
say something. NCNS's are not nice.
Kudos to the guys who had enough respect to
contact her and cancel/reschedule.

Its only a 10 digit number....geez!

[radio109]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Thanks and yes I will. I really just want to write the long list here and put them on blast.

I will be using our usual method of letting the other ladies know once I compile my list.
I haven't done it yet because I wanted to give some the benefit of the doubt.

I know guys deal with it on their end too but I'm a lady who keeps her obligations and it's rare that I cancle on people and I deserve the same consideration.

Finally gonna be some entertainment.

I'm just wondering, if you expect to be compensated somehow for a cancellation, do you give free services if you had to cancel? I know you never cancel and I'm sure you're never late either but lets just say you did. Would you say give a free blowjob? I mean if that's the only reason he came to see you was because you canceled, no other services, nothing, just coming to get a free bj. Would you do that?

I ask because I just dealt with this, with another provider. I explained a million times though calls and texts, I will not give her money for nothing and will cancel when I feel like it. She calls me every name in the book, so I explain I have always treated her with respect and expect the same. I tell her I can come over there and see if she wishes to be disrespectful in person, she declined my offer. Shes going on and on, shes gonna put alerts on my phone, get me beat up all the crazy ho shit. However the next morning she was right back begging for a date.

[albundy]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Even if it is inclement weather
its a simple courtesy to text or call and
say something. NCNS's are not nice.
Kudos to the guys who had enough respect to
contact her and cancel/reschedule.

Its only a 10 digit number....geez!

^^^
Agreed. Unless the phone systems were down. But, in general, I agree.

I never understand that shit. Just call. Obviously, this applies to both the guys and to the gals.

[Marshpirate]

I still can't leave. Flooded on all sides. Thankfully, no appointments to cancel. Prayers out to all those seriously affected. I'm sorry to see our ECCIE sweethearts hurting too. Trust me when I say this: We need you ladies more now than ever! Please don't forget us.

[albundy]

You got any water in the house, Pirate? Hope not, man. I hope you and your family are OK.

[OldGent]

If any were from north Baton Rouge maybe cut them some slack phone service was down there for awhile. But agreed lack of courtesy is always slimey.