for the first time, stick to reputable sites like Tryst, eros or slixa.
If you go trawling on skip the games, escort alligator or whatever else, you're asking for a bad (first) time.
Find a chick on (tryst), text/email for appointment like you want your car repaired.
- I am ___ (are you legit? This is where preferred411 saves so much grief). If you don't have p411, you'll need to supply something (linkedin, ID, etc)
- I would like to book 90 minutes on 12/01 at BoomBoom Hotel.
Get right to the point and don't dick around with "hi?" "are you available?" Her time is valuable
If YOU host the outcall there is absolutely zero reason to provide a deposit, so never pay one.
When I host, I always supply some refreshments (wine,alcohol, cocktails, juice) because you may find it easier to not jump their bones right away. Let you both relax and ease into it. As you progress, your confidence will allow you both to forgo this. If it takes you 30 minutes to bust, don't schedule 30 minutes schedule an hour. Don't be shy about WHAT you want and communicate clearly.
Sounds silly, but remember these girls aren't going to reject you, so there's no need to play games or be coy. If they don't fulfill everything you want, always move on. There are lines of women competing to sell you some ass.