Things you learned to do or not to do in the hobby!

[Iron Butterfly]

Well one thing I learned in the hobby was if you plan on going at it after you cum, don’t shoot all over the ladies face, she has to go clean up while you sit there with a hard on. So next time I want to keep gong after I cum I,m blowing in her mouth, no cleanup and I can keep going or ask for the cover, geez.


IB

[rrabbit6926]

Might not work if she has to go to the sink to spit. Not all girls are NSNQ only the good ones

[Iron Butterfly]

Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

Might not work if she has to go to the sink to spit. Not all girls are NSNQ only the good ones

Your right but a quick run to the sink doesn't take long, getting cum out of your eye, ear and hair does.

IB

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

Well one thing I learned in the hobby was if you plan on going at it after you cum, don’t shoot all over the ladies face, she has to go clean up while you sit there with a hard on. So next time I want to keep gong after I cum I,m blowing in her mouth, no cleanup and I can keep going or ask for the cover, geez.IB

This is gold. I never thought about this. Now I know.

[Richard Fitzwell]

I learned not to assume anything. Gfe and pse have a different meanings to different providers, so if you want something just ask. What's the worse thing she can say....no.....or worse than no is "that's extra."

[Cpalmson]

This is a very good topic. I hope we hear a lot of inputs from the girls. I bet we all learn some new tips.

If I'm going to do DATY, do it early. First, it warms her up. If you get her off, it is a great ego boost. If you only bring her to the edge, she just wants it more and makes the main event an even better experience. Second, going down on her before you slide your lubed up latex covered cock into her is a much better tasting experience. You get to enjoy her feminine juices without the skunkiness of what was just inside her.

[Iron Butterfly]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

This is a very good topic. I hope we hear a lot of inputs from the girls. I bet we all learn some new tips.

If I'm going to do DATY, do it early. First, it warms her up. If you get her off, it is a great ego boost. If you only bring her to the edge, she just wants it more and makes the main event an even better experience. Second, going down on her before you slide your lubed up latex covered cock into her is a much better tasting experience. You get to enjoy her feminine juices without the skunkiness of what was just inside her.

One of my favorite things to do is to go back and forth from Daty to Miss or Daty to K9 so I have learned to get the lady all hot and bothered (wet) so she doesn't need lube, I don't mind the tast of her pussy while I'm fucking her, I'm all hot and bothered myself.

IB

[Alyssa XOXO]

Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

One of my favorite things to do is to go back and forth from Daty to Miss or Daty to K9 so I have learned to get the lady all hot and bothered (wet) so she doesn't need lube, I don't mind the tast of her pussy while I'm fucking her, I'm all hot and bothered myself.

IB

You are such a nasty boy! aaaaand I love it nasty boys like you always make the best lovers...

[Fast Gunn]

I have learned that the amount of satisfaction that you can get from a provider does not really depend that much on her beauty.

. . . Nevertheless, there is a definite gravitational pull there that can often make a strong man weak!

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

You are such a nasty boy! aaaaand I love it nasty boys like you always make the best lovers...

Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

I have learned that the amount of satisfaction that you can get from a provider does not really depend that much on her beauty.

. . . Nevertheless, there is a definite gravitational pull there that can often make a strong man weak!

and then you have

[Mary Ann]

I have learned a lot about people, and what makes them tick. Not just sexually, but pertaining to life in general. I love getting to know each individual gentleman and lady.... love to hear their back stories and understand them.

Grooming wise, I have learned to get the closest shave, you have to exfoliate first (I use exfoliating gloves), and use a moisturizing bar in the bath instead of lotion will give better results without the oil feel. Also, It always helps to use some body scrub on the pubes to help soften them first.

Sexually what have I learned? The bigger the male member, the more prep time is needed for Greek....and if a girl douches just prior to a date, she is tasteless, and I prefer my ladies to have at least a little bit of a taste to them.

[Nicolet]

I can't think of anything I learned NOT to do. With any encounter, I just go with the flow. Mine or my lovers! Each person is different, so if I'm exploring my partner, I'm going to explore everything. If I get the sense that what I am doing is uncomfortable, I stop.
@ Mary Ann's comment, I understand how the scent of a woman can be a major turn on. In my opinion, I would rather not have a scent at all and have it brought out from activities than go into an encounter 'au naturale". One man's, or woman's, rose is anothers stinkweed. I want to start out to be an unscented rose with the fragrance brought about by passion! The scent of passion spent can be intoxicating!

[cumalot]

I tell them upfront I want the cum back!!
I don't tug on Superwoman's cape or Thong
I don't Cum into the wind
I don't pull the mask off that old Lone Ranger or the Mistress
And I don't mess around with Jim or Strippers [only Hookers].....

[pyramider]

I have learned:

Always chew the kitty, licking does nothing for the ladies.

Porn is the best sex instructor.

Use duct tape to manscape.

Always take a dump at the incall.

Never do multiple girl shows. The laughter when I get naked can be deafening .

Always nap afterwards .

Listen to the voices.

If you find a lady then truly enjoys BBCR , marry her

Create multiple handles..

Taint is the key yo the universe.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by cumalot

I tell them upfront I want the cum back!!
I don't tug on Superwoman's cape or Thong
I don't Cum into the wind
I don't pull the mask off that old Lone Ranger or the Mistress
And I don't mess around with Jim or Strippers [only Hookers].....

lol!

I have learned to bring extra sheets/towels and pillowcases!

and also that although I have a few "start of the session rituals",there is no need to "plan" a session beyond that....just let it "flow" naturally