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Originally Posted by bender1717
Since she didn't offer L3, and she initially wouldn't let me go there, I think there's a good chance it's a YMMV situation.
It would be sooo helpful if I could just ask her.
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Again, what do you want to hear from her that puts your mind at ease? If she admits to even one other guy, are you going to believe her (you shouldn’t)? And if she says “not many”, are you going to ask follow ups until you get a number (sure way to piss her off)? What number is too many for you?
If you want certainty, stop seeing her and get tested. If you want to feel better about the situation while still engaging in bare sex with her, take solace in the fact she waited awhile before she did it with you, and unless you research and find other examples of guys reporting bbfs with her she probably isn’t doing it with everyone.
That doesn’t make it safe, but at least the odds of you catching something are a little less. I just hope you are fixed so you aren’t on the short list if she comes up pregnant.