Drama and My 2 Cents

[MrHappy4u]

There is a group of providers, who like Pig Pen in the Snoopy cartoon have a cloud of dust following behind them, only that cloud is DRAMA.

Frankly, I'm tired of the drama - traveling girls don't want to visit, trusted non-drama providers and hobbyist don't want to post and it hurts the hobby community in AR.

Take a look around at the number of posts in the past couple of weeks that do not involve drama - -0-, or very few, at the least.

Ladies . . .

1. Leave the personal issues at home, where they belong - in your personal lives
2. Screen hobbyist with trusted personal references. If you don't trust 'em, don't take 'em. It's you're business. Run it like you need to and be safe doing it.
3. It's been proven we're like a dysfunctional family. We don't play nice together in public. If you think its going to involve drama. Stay away.
4. Post positive threads. Be your playful selves, like I know each of you are. Let your personality shine through. IT'S GOOD FOR BUSINESS WHEN HOBBYIST KNOW ABOUT YOU. It sucks for business when all they see is bitching. This is supposed to be about FUN!
5. Fuck. Fuck and Suck Good. And make all of believe you're enjoying yourself

Guys when you have a session. . .

1. Take only your money + a bit more in the event you wish to tip
2. Trust no one
3. Remember its all about the money.
4. Go have a fucking good time or a good time fucking, whatever the case may be.

NOW, I realize that I may have cut the chances of getting laid in the near future to zero, but I'm tired of it and my tolerance level has evaporated. Maybe Huck's is higher than mine right now.

Just my 2 cents.

[Adrianna xo]

I'd still "lay" with you

[urhuckleberry]

All this makes sense to me.

Huck

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by MrHappy4u

NOW, I realize that I may have cut the chances of getting laid in the near future to zero, but I'm tired of it and my tolerance level has evaporated. Maybe Huck's is higher than mine right now.

Just my 2 cents.

Thought you might need some help since you are going to celibate for the near future.

[maximus]

Well stated Mr Happy. I have grown tired of the drama and have removed myself form posting, and reviewing I know this may sound uniminagible to some, but they do sell this thing called a safe, it's a hellva a invention, you can place items of value in them and lock it to prevent anyone from, oh say, stealing your valuables. Hell if you splurge and spend a whopping $150 you can get a fireproof one that fits in your closet. Just a thought. Stupid is as stupid does! Or just put it in a bag of sugar and hide it in your trunk

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by maximus

... Stupid is as stupid does! Or just put it in a bag of sugar and hide it in your trunk

Fyi, Maximus – calling someone "stupid" IS being dramatic... and hypocritical, considering it's "drama" that you profess you are tired of.

But being you brought the issues of the closed thread back to life, I'll address your condescension.

Typically my money is in the bank. I had it out because I was getting ready to buy a hot tub. I think I've already stated that several times. But thanks for the unnecessary rudeness.

Is there a difference between being stupid and trusting? I think so. The fault doesn't lie with me because I trusted a supposed "friend," anyway...it lies with her because she's a thief.

It's ok...it's just money. I'll make it back in no time. Even faster if I take Adriana's lead and have my clients start 'prepaying' me for dates that I never intend to keep.

Only kidding, of course. I could never go that route, because I'm actually honest.

[Ark Monroe]

That's why I've been flying UTR.... I refuse to participate in the drama! It has definitely become ridiculous!!

[MrHappy4u]

Originally Posted by maximus

. . . Stupid is as stupid does! Or just put it in a bag of sugar and hide it in your trunk

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Fyi, Maximus – calling someone "stupid" IS being dramatic... and hypocritical, considering it's "drama" that you profess you are tired of.. . .

Enough on the subject. Ginger, I'll moderate this. If I hear any more about it points will be assessed.

[Mr.Chan]

I respectfully submit that granted there has been some strife, but over what? The most discussed subject was pimps attaching themselves to the Arkansas board,Surely this was a matter worthy of discussion. It informed, perhaps too stridently, many like myself who had no idea where my money was going.Would it have been better not to know to decrease drama?
Must every post be sweetness and light with no mention of danger or fraud so we can keep our state attractive to traveling ladies who from my limited experience do not stop here because gentlemen do not book appointments. Promise any lady in surrounding states a good showing and she will say, "What drama?" faster then a presidential candidate can interrupt a moderator.
As you say, it is all about the money. Hopefully it is also about service, or else the mercenary escort shares a boat with the hobbyist just looking for a warm moist hole. Surely adults can disagree agreeably, state a case and move on. The ostrich may hide his head in the sand, but he is not safe. He might make a pretty good board member though.

[horserider]

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

I respectfully submit that granted there has been some strife, but over what? The most discussed subject was pimps attaching themselves to the Arkansas board,Surely this was a matter worthy of discussion. It informed, perhaps too stridently, many like myself who had no idea where my money was going.Would it have been better not to know to decrease drama?
Must every post be sweetness and light with no mention of danger or fraud so we can keep our state attractive to traveling ladies who from my limited experience do not stop here because gentlemen do not book appointments. Promise any lady in surrounding states a good showing and she will say, "What drama?" faster then a presidential candidate can interrupt a moderator.
As you say, it is all about the money. Hopefully it is also about service, or else the mercenary escort shares a boat with the hobbyist just looking for a warm moist hole. Surely adults can disagree agreeably, state a case and move on. The ostrich may hide his head in the sand, but he is not safe. He might make a pretty good board member though.

+1..........Well said Mr. Chan

[cgrman]

+1 Mr Happy.. now go have some with that incredibly good Pinot Grigio that your wine expert put you on.. just not the popcorn that causes the lung problems..

[Guest010421]

I too, have been avoiding the board due to all the recent drama.......both reading and posting!! I come to the board to have fun, and it hasn't been very fun recently...

[ncc72032]

I think if all men here made a vow not to see ANY provider who has been involved in any drama, all drama would end pretty fast, or providers would starve

[#SarahLynn]

I agree with Mrhappy I keep to myself ! The drama in central Arkansas has kept me away ! NOW that this is said it may slow down.BUT i feel like its heading to NWA !!! I HOPE NOT !

[#SarahLynn]

I would be eating like a queen !!!