A friend thinks she wants to be a provider.

[RetiredSubmariner]

I have a Real-World friend who is 20yo and she says that she is interested in becoming a provider. For the purpose of this thread I will call her 'M'.

I have known M since she was 18. The first time I met her, she was working on a drawing, I complimented her artwork and I gave her some fine-tipped oil-paint pens that I had in my toolbox.

M and I have been friends on Facebook ever since.

M works minimum-wage jobs, where she becomes dis-enfranchised after about 6 months, quits and finds a new job somewhere else, where she repeats the cycle.

I have always tried to encourage M.

M was recently venting to me about her job situation, and I asked if she had ever thought about being an escort. She told me that she has often fantasized about doing that. [I did not tell her that I have fantasized about being her customer] I told M about ECCIE and I suggested that she might want to logon here and follow some of the discussions here before she tries it on her own.

My question is really to providers here on ECCIE if a young lady was thinking about starting as a provider, what does she need to know first and where would be the best place for her to learn?

[texassapper]

offer her 300 to fuck and see if it works. She says hell no then she doesn't have it in her. She says yes... then she'll have you in her.

[RetiredSubmariner]

Originally Posted by texassapper

offer her 300 to fuck and see if it works. She says hell no then she doesn't have it in her. She says yes... then she'll have you in her.

I did that.

Previously in talking to M we both used the phrase 'escort'.

When I asked M if she is willing to have sex with me for cash. She freaked out and said that is 'prostitution'! That is illegal!

So I am not sure what she thinks as escort does.

[Daddio]

LOL.

Escort = Handy work
Prostitute = 3 Hole Golf Course

[MrThom]

If you are really her friend, you would talk her out of this.

[Gotyour6]

Tell her you will help her out, keep her money for her and give her a little bit for food and stuff.

[Fizley]

Round up some of your escort friends and put her in contact with each other.

[RetiredSubmariner]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Tell her you will help her out, keep her money for her and give her a little bit for food and stuff.

I have done all that, and I will continue.

Originally Posted by Fizley

Round up some of your escort friends and put her in contact with each other.

I have done this as well. They got along great too.

My escort friend 'C' told me later that M will never be an escort.

[rexdutchman]

If she will not do "friends with benefits " then just not her

[Yoyoma]

If she doesn't have her shit together and is considering providing, it is a recipe for disaster. See the relationship for what it may be - you are an anchor to her.



Keep it platonic. Take the high road, be a true friend and let her figure it out. Btw, someone complaining about a financial situation but not directly asking for loot is called "dry begging".



Best of luck.

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Tell her you will help her out, keep her money for her and give her a little bit for food and stuff.

I think they call that pimping....LOL

[cylon]

She is not ready for it. She may think 'escort' means 'arm candy'. If she can make loot hanging on someone's arm at a social event (and some can and do) then more power to her.



But we all know that isn't what escort really means! She might consider being a 'platonic social companion' or 'snuggle buddy' but not an escort.

[RetiredSubmariner]

M contacted me last night. She has decided to dump her boyfriend, and she wants to start escorting.

I tried to talk her out of it, but she insists that this is her decision and this is what she wants to do.

[rexdutchman]

Yea - not gonna end well

[Fizley]

I would be her first customer.