Screening..references...import ant info and miscellaneous

[DallasRain]

I not sure if I should have started this....but what the hell lol!!

I want everybody to chime I and share your thoughts and perspectives you've gained in the hobby world...tips and trips..pertinent info about yourself...etc.

My info:

I travel ALOT so when I'm home in Springfield my time is precious..and I have a special grandson And two kids who I like spending time with so my hobby time is limited.

I live in my private incall in Springfield so therefore I am Picky about my clientele.
I have one neighbor who knows what I do and he helps me take care of my property when I'm away from home...he is a great guy/friend and doesn't care what I do for a living.
I have no neighbors living on the other Side of me or in front of me. So I have a very discrete and safe locale.... I travel a lot so the short times I'm home,i only see a few guys during that time span..so am low volume. And most are longtime clients.
I am only semi-newbie friendly.... I will ask for work info if you don't have a recent or reliable provider reference.. so if you know me and who I am then you can be assured your info is safe with me.
I try to be a sweet helpful person on this board and will gladly gives reference checks..and if a gent needs a referral on a reliable reputable gal to see,I will gladly refer one!

I do NOT have a pimp..I DO have a hubby who I've been with over 30 years...we have a unique and open relationship....he loves what I do,is proud of my accomplishments and even plays with me if I need that type partner for playtimes..... he is NEVER around when you visit and he will NEVER interfere in my business! He does know some of my doubles gals and he does know some of my clients,but it's a cool and accepting situation.

This hobby world we live in is wicked and uncertain at times,so best advice I can give is... be kind,helpful,drama free and loving on this board!!!!


Now.... your turn to share!!!!

[Cherokeechief]

Don't you know that all the girls that use STG's have Pimps ? Having fun Dallas. You're a Sweetheart and everybody knows it. LOL

[DallasRain]

Oh yeah
I post on stg and have gotten a few great guys from there lol

[xyzwibeancounter]

Dallas..you are one of the best. And yes, girls on STG are not all have pimps. Over 2 years in the Springfield area all but one were not, and some of them very nice people.

[looking4justtonight]

I have had friends who have had their lives turned upside down because they shared personal information with the wrong provider.

Having someone's real name and phone number can grant you a great deal of access and insight into their lives.

People put their real name and number of things like Facebook and LinkedIn. Then they open their whole world up to craziness.

I spoke of my friends...a provider showed up at my friends house and caused a big scene with his wife and kids.

Another friend of mine had the provider show up at his work and cause a big scene, he ended up losing his job because of it.

This world is filled with crazy people, so just as providers have to deal with crazy, controlling, and stalker guys (yes, I agree guys are just as crazy), everyone needs to protect themselves and be careful.

[looking4justtonight]

Things were much easier in Europe...lol

Nobody cared and life was just easier (at least in regards to spending time with a provider).

[looking4justtonight]

One day maybe the U.S. will catchup with the rest of the world.

[Mrust]

Well, now I'm not sure if this is for providers or us so here goes. 100% agree there should be some kind of screening on both sides, guys and girls that don't I perceive as reckless or uncaring or possibly have little to no standards. I do a lot more research than I do visiting because I am am a semi noobie. Saying that I have had SB's for years and have always been fortunate enough to find a UTR local girl because I don't like visiting multiple providers and prefer finding the one for long term. My last regular has moved away so I'm always looking for the next one to take care of me. My preference is younger and petite but I'll go outside that for someone that really hits on the fun and personality notes. TBH I'm actually a little intimidated by some of the wild ones because as much as it should be about me, I don't want to under preform lol. As far as the crazy stalker types, I've had a few and some close calls in the past but that's all part of the risk and it's only happened with unverified and unresearched providers from long ago before I started digging in before contacting. Imo Just randomly seeing just anyone outside a brothel is begging for some kind of heartburn.

[Mrust]

Originally Posted by Cherokeechief

Don't you know that all the girls that use STG's have Pimps ? Having fun Dallas. You're a Sweetheart and everybody knows it. LOL

Stirring the pot much lol.. This is funny!

[DallasRain]

When it comes to giving personal one of my guys say "if you can't trust Dallas then the whole world is going to hell in a handbasket"..lol

I have some clients that let me send stuff to their house when I'm traveling but expecting a delivery... cause I'll be seeing them sometime in near future and can pick up my package from them when I do
And I have some guys know my real world name and a few have met my kids and hubby.

But I don't have " as much to loose" as others here do

[CatMan4u]

This will sound as venting but I work on a very demanding job and am only allowed a half hour lunch and by the way I enjoy my job plus I am good at it. What pisses me off I have contacted a few providers and I get past rates and their menu just to find out their availability doesn't work but the issue is they get pissed off when I tell them I can't change my work hours without changing oucpations
Why can't they just except it they are so self centered people. So I keep my money and tell them to go find someone else
I really would like to tell them to go f themselves but l am to polite to do that

[CatMan4u]

That's all the info I will share

[DallasRain]

thanks guys...very insightful!

ladies your turn...