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caseytx · 06-22-2010, 02:54 PM

Have I missed something, or is there a trend more toward CBJ than BBBJ? Many men (including me) say that this is a deal breaker for them.

I would like to hear the pros and cons from the ladies and the gents.

If this has been discussed here before, just tell me where.

I understand this is a personal preference thing and I respect that.

Trey · 06-22-2010, 03:09 PM

To be safe, I think the trend is catching on, I don't mind either way but that's because I have never got off to a bj (cbj, or bbbj) so it's of not matter to me. A bbbj feels better of course, but so does bbfs but no one thinks about doing that anymore I was not in the hobby when you could even consider that.

Guest030911 · 06-22-2010, 03:13 PM

One tastes rubbery and offers little to no feeling to the recipient, the other does not.

Guest061514-1 · 06-22-2010, 03:16 PM

Im going to be TOTALLY honest so dont shoot me!!

When I first started working in Houston I was told by MANY board members that BBBJ was expected with GFE and that was the norm. Which, I honestly wasn't use to. BUT I did do a few times. LUCKILY nothing went wrong. I'm OVERLY anal about my health and catching anything and nothing went wrong in that dept. BUT being on this hiatus I've really been thinking about the whole cbj bbbj thing and honestly my health and or my clients health.

I love love LOVE giving bj BUT Im thinking CBJ might be the best thing to do.

Does that mean I can't be GFE anymore

blowpop · 06-22-2010, 03:52 PM

As long as I've been hobbying, BBBJ has been the norm. Of course, I've always felt that it's important to be clean and disease-free. If you show up at her incall smelling ripe, your mileage WILL vary.

Some providers prefer to perform only CBJ - I don't prefer to see them. Everyone is entitled to their preferences.

Guest030911 · 06-22-2010, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by AmayaMoore

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I love love LOVE giving bj BUT Im thinking CBJ might be the best thing to do.

Does that mean I can't be GFE anymore

yes.

But aren't you going into porn with a "big company"?

caseytx · 06-22-2010, 04:13 PM

I am all for "clean and disease free". but isn't kissing exposing you to almost the same risks as bbbj?

And "GFE" is a very ill defined term...means different things to different folks. I think you could claim to be GFE and do only cbj if both parties are agreeable. It's kinda awkward at times but i try to ask if "everything is covered" before i agree to a session.

Thanks for the feedback.

Combustion · 06-22-2010, 04:37 PM

Heres some cdc info, the risk difference between bj and cbj for aids is tiny. There are other diseases, but they are either curable/vaccine or just a nuisance from reading symptoms.

Cbj=I see someone else.

tbone2u · 06-22-2010, 04:48 PM

I pretty much will pass if it's a cbj. I will let one or two ladies I really like do it but other than that....nope.

Amaya......I've never seen any porn that featured a CBJ

Trey · 06-22-2010, 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AmayaMoore

Im going to be TOTALLY honest so dont shoot me!!

When I first started working in Houston I was told by MANY board members that BBBJ was expected with GFE and that was the norm. Which, I honestly wasn't use to. BUT I did do a few times. LUCKILY nothing went wrong. I'm OVERLY anal about my health and catching anything and nothing went wrong in that dept. BUT being on this hiatus I've really been thinking about the whole cbj bbbj thing and honestly my health and or my clients health.

I love love LOVE giving bj BUT Im thinking CBJ might be the best thing to do.

Does that mean I can't be GFE anymore

Yeah you are not gfe with cbj. As for not seeing cbj in porn well I would think most of the time both parties are tested as to the same fact most porn is bbfs as well. I say do you good luck

Guest030911 · 06-22-2010, 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by caseytx

...And "GFE" is a very ill defined term...means different things to different folks. ....

Not really. At least in the context of hobby discussion boards which are over a decade old now that I know of.

The activities that must be on the menu:
DFK
BBBJ
DATY
MPCFS

Most people throw in the element they call "the illusion of passion". That means you got to pretend to like us and that you are enjoying it.

The street hookers, the pimped out, and most studio gals do not fully understand this and often get it wrong. Often times street girls think it is BBFS.

When the Internet organized discussions about the hobby, the terminology evolved and neatly defined what many men wanted from an escort, but is mainly used on hobby discussion boards and not on the street.

It's okay not to be GFE despite how some women may feel pressured to because so many other gals here cater to the men who desire "the GFE experience."

Guest061514-1 · 06-22-2010, 05:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eccie3000

yes.

But aren't you going into porn with a "big company"?

What does me going back to do porn have to do with this topic?? Providing and porn are two VERY different World's. And, the "big company" ::sigh:: I won't even bother to comment on that lol

Quote:

Originally Posted by tbone2u

Amaya......I've never seen any porn that featured a CBJ

I never claimed they do CBJ in porn lol but you are also TESTED before every shoot. But while providing you dont get that luxury to have clients tested so there is a bit of a difference.

Quote:

Originally Posted by trey

Yeah you are not gfe with cbj. As for not seeing cbj in porn well I would think most of the time both parties are tested as to the same fact most porn is bbfs as well. I say do you good luck

GFE is supposed to be a way of catering to a man right? You treat him like you LIKE him, like hes a friend, and that you actually care. Now you have providers who give BBBJ but DONT even pretend to like you- to me that isnt GFE! Then you have girls whom kiss, and hug, and hold, and the passion is really there, which makes it GFE.

At the end of the day its your choice whether or not you decide to do cbj or bbbj.

Trey · 06-22-2010, 06:03 PM

No GFE is not fake GF I go by p 411 definition and it is bbbj and dfk. I don't do dfk but it still to me should be an option along with bbbj to get GFE status. It is sometimes a premium service you pay extra for to get GFE.

Guest061514-1 · 06-22-2010, 06:06 PM

lol so if you dont give me DFK then you are technically not giving me my GFE lol YOU CAN'T HOLD OUT ME TREY!!! Thats not fair!!! LOL hahah

Trey · 06-22-2010, 06:21 PM

Yeah babe you know I have to be difficult. I want this but not that. I make an ugly face if they go in for the kiss, sometimes when I was in the mood to kiss I would try, and then I would get the ugly face. So no dfk for me so far.