A long time client I Dropped for scheduling reasons (he would reschedule each Appt 3x at least) He Posted me On Internet as Busted escort Helping Cops!

[Bridget Bombshell]

I have all abusive and threats this client who lives in an upper east side penthouse,texted and left on my voicemail, threating, myself,sister and autistic nephew. I sent him a bill he agrees he owed bc he couldn't keep one appointment for Months, he would eventually see me, but not bf rescheduling numerous times.... He went on line put me on busted escorts and said I'm helping LE,. Couldn't be further than the truth, how do I remove this, it could destroy my business, plus I have a massage license and work legitimately in a massage center... Can someone make any suggestions? He's old and a liar, but how do I get busted escorts down!!??? Thanks everyone

[JRLawrence]

Don't worry about it.

He is playing a psychological game with you by "messing with your mind". There is nothing he can do if you refuse to see him. If he shows up at your work, get a restraining order to protect yourself.

Same old stuff, this guy get's his satisfaction - not from sex, or building a relationship with women and friends, but from power and control.

Been there, seen that with some of the executive types. Their motivation is power and control. Don't fall for it.

Walk away, or do you enjoy being controlled and serving someone else? Be honest with yourself, are you getting some sick kind of joy out of this arraignment?

Some people love to fight and makeup. Is that the trap you are in?

JR

[alaine]

HE probably DID NOT do this. This is a well known SCAM site. They harvest your info from ads you have posted, such as Back Page. Then they ask for $500 to take it down. There is a ton of info here about ways to deal with them if you just search. What fixed my problem was changing the GV number that I use for advertising. So far they haven't picked it up again. The issue really is if a guy searches your phone number it pops up. Other ladies have sent them legal notice to take it down and some have had success.

[ck1942]

Too many so called "cop" sites out there.

Perhaps you can change up some of your legit data and photos so the cop sites data doesn't track to the RW.

imo, you can always tell the licensing board you have a stalker and maybe they'll buy that.

Meanwhile, at the very least you should let the ladies know in InfoShare ladies forums of the client issue, but remember you cannot out anything more than his handle or a disguised phone number or e-mail contact as that is against the rules here.

[Bigjohnson1]

I'll admit I have fallen for this "busted escorts" site before by googling the number. Simply seeing the first few lines of working with the police, etc was enough to scare me off. If you read further down the page it tries to get you to sign up for a safe escort site which is obviously a scam for the guys and hurts providers at the same time.

A couple years ago there was something similar to extort money from guys called exposingjohns.com. They would post fake ads on BP and if you tried to call or text they would take your phone number and use it to find out personal information, take your pictures from Facebook and post you on their site telling you if anyone googled or Yahoo!'d your name it would come up on their exposing Johns website showing your pictures, pictures of your family, etc. They made you pay $500 or something like that for an "investigation" fee and they would take your stuff off their site.

They run sites like this out of Nigeria, India, and places like that so it's pretty hard to report them for extortion.

[CashmereLove]

They pull my ads from backpage and put me on there all the time. Unfortunately it may cause me to loose some $ but i refuse to negotiate with terrorist...lol Plus if I did they would simply pull it off bp again. Im pretty sure its not your previous client. If gents are concerned simply ask them to read the entire post & thy will see its a scam & refer them to the reputable sites such as this one tht you hv reviews on. Goodluck