providers : How do you feel ....

[pickupkid]

How do you feel....about external activities.....dinner . travel companion expenses paid. club activities, How do you charge?Bcd extra ?

[London Rayne]

Since we are paid for "time" I don't really get the question. I mean if I could afford to travel the world for free and NOT get paid, I would already be doing that.

Some ladies offer discounted rates for extended travel to their regulars...I am one, but now I can't really afford to do that. Every day I travel is a day I have to use to make money while I am away, so that would never work for me. My free time is for family, friends, school....and of course Eccie!

Some women don't have children, are not in school, and don't work. I would imagine this might appeal a bit more to them, but I normally get paid for dinner dates being it is an option on my rates page.

It sounds as if you're suggesting that just because you pay for dinner or vacations that the lady should do you for free? Did I get that correct? I doubt many women can't get that for free already just by going to the local watering hole.

[pickupkid]

Maybe not free ..but at what rate...say a weekend in las vegas

[Carrie Hillcrest]

I am highly enthusiastic and you can see my website for details. LOL.

Personally, I find it's easiest -- and least boundary-confusing -- to bundle public time and private time into "packages". We go out some, we stay in some, and he compensates me for my time plain and simple. Spending time "off the clock" too frequently leads to someone's feelings getting hurt or misunderstood expectations for me to risk engaging in it.

FYI this is kind of a touchy topic for some people, so proceed with caution. I admit I used to be one of those sensitive sorts, but I've mellowed out in my old age.

[AshleyAshton]

Originally Posted by pickupkid

How do you feel....about external activities.....dinner . travel companion expenses paid. club activities, How do you charge?Bcd extra ?

I embrace things that break the monotony of everyday "bcd" activities. Dont get me wrong, I love the naughty side of meetings..who doesn't but to actually have a "date" outside of bcd just makes it that much better. You get build to rapports that you may sometimes miss staying in a four wall environment.

I offer golf dates and I love them! I play golf, am in great company and after we enjoy post game (or sometimes pre-game) "skins games"
. So, these outside bcd activities are a ++++++ in my book!

As far as the gifting behind them, it varies on the request of activity


xoxox


Ash

[shorty]

I would be tempted to do a date that included dinner after some play. Never have done one but have been thinking about it. Normally my dates have been 2 or 3hrs just because I like to get to know the provider. Sounds like I need to take London and Ash up on dinner option, if I ever get to see them sometime.

[London Rayne]

I would imagine you would have to ask the individual. I hate Vegas lol. Now Italy for a week when I have no pending issues, hell yea! I would not just go off with some guy I have never met though...would have to be someone I would not push out the plane.

[samantha thom]

London,
You and I have something in common. I don't care for Vegas.
And I have a professional job too, so if I'm not providing, I'm working my other job, prospecting, spending time with family, .... and I have many many hobbies that take up so much of my time, but make me happy!!! :-))))))

[AshleyAshton]

Originally Posted by shorty

Normally my dates have been 2 or 3hrs just because I like to get to know the provider. Sounds like I need to take London and Ash up on dinner option, if I ever get to see them sometime.

+1 ... she is one sexy girl (London) so Im in if the stars align and we can all meet

[shorty]

I would definitly be seeing stars if all three of us could meet up.

[Valerie]

I love doing dinner dates, nights out on the town, weekend getaways...but as London stated...guys are paying for our time...So price wise, yes I do discounts for overnights and weekend trips, but not by too much...

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by AshleyAshton

+1 ... she is one sexy girl (London) so Im in if the stars align and we can all meet

Count me in babe! Oh crap you live in Texas...we will meet in New Orleans lol.

Shorty you taking all the good ones! What did you do with Mia...have not heard from her lately...hmm.

[shorty]

Talked to her Sunday and still in Memphis. She's heading to Nola sometime soon. That would be one steamy party with you two together.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by Issabellafox

Troll banned, CC

OMG!!

[shorty]

The provider has to make it clear that dinner rate is the actual money that is expected. I would think the gent would just pick-up the dinner tab anyways. That would be what I would do.