Newbies Guilt...........

[Ms. Athena]

Ok I need some advice, as I am a newbie myself. I just saw a newbie client whom I actually referred to P411. He did everything as instructed, the session was great he popped twice in our hour, and then he got the biggest guilt trip on how he was cheating and hope he didnt make the wrong choice. Now after me trying to explain that men have needs and these needs must be met, one way or another, and that the hobby was a much safer avenue then just picking up a girl for a booty call. He still was feeling guilty.......How can I as a provider help relieve this guilt, or is there a way? Any right thing to say, or just go and let him deal?? Thanks for the help in this matter, I left feeling very uncomfortable myself.................

[Sarunga]

I don't think there's anything you can do about this. He has to deal with it himself.

[Trey]

He has a issue he needs to deal with himself, best you can do is what you did. I have had a provider run this stuff on me too. She was mad I was doing what I did. I don't know if she thought most dudes would be single or what.

[enderwiggin]

Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

How can I as a provider help relieve this guilt, or is there a way? Any right thing to say, or just go and let him deal??

He's no hobbyist. He's confused and a little unbalanced. I say run away, far - far away. There's nothing you can do except expose yourself to some of the blowback.

[Out_of_Bounds]

You did your part. If he doesn't want to listen then that's his problem. Either way I wouldn't recommend seeing this guy again. Refer him elsewhere.

[UTRLVR]

There is nothing that you can do. Guilt is a very personal and internal emotion that must be dealt with by the person who is feeling the guilt.

[datyking]

We are weird creatures. Just after a good nut, these thoughts always enter our heads. Particularly newbies. I'm sure all of us have experienced this.

[dearhunter]

Did you ask him how he felt when his dick was in your mouth?

[Jack Flash]

Your job is to fuck and suck (to the best of your abilities) and get paid. Not worry about some guys feelings

[darkshades]

I look at it like this. I'm Paying for a service. Not having relation ship. Yes I'm not faithful, but I can deal with it since I don't have a emotional conection with the provider. She is there to fill the gaps in my sex life. In some cases hobbieing makes my sex life better with my so. I can go home and try different things with her or I have filled a void that needed to be filled.

[dearhunter]

I'm just a fucking asshole.

[The G.O.A.T]

Was he curled up in the fetal position. If so you shoulda taken pictures, and posted em online. That'll kill guilt real fast. Might cause some other emotional reactions though.

[cumalot]

I would have pulled out your paddle and paddled his ass, pinned a note to his shirt and told him to go see his mama...

[johnniewalkerblack]

You should have told him that if he feels guilty, he needs stop messing around with providers and go home to his wife and kids. This kind of guilt may be a sign that he is unstable. Because of that, I definitely would not see him again. You should not have to deal with this kind of drama.

[Rosiedaie]

I have only had a few Newbies that had a guilt feeling. If they seem that they are feeling guilty or say so, I tell them that they are only trying to fulfill their needs and that I am doing that for them, too. I try to talk a llittle with them, get them a drink of water or other, and try to get them feeling that they are in comfortable situation with me.

After a few months, most have returned to see me and they seem fine with the hobby now. Most are now also Regular Clients.

xoxoxo,

Rosiedaie

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