I do not consider a review to be a reference. Anyone can post a review, it certainly does not mean a session even took place. Fake reviews do get posted. And a review doesn't mean everything went well for the lady (i.e. you didn't smell like ass, gift was taken care of, you were on time, etc...)
With references, if I haven't seen someone in over a year, I usually won't provide a reference. I may say I have seen him, but because it was a year ( 2 years or whatever) I can't possibly offer information. For some ladies it might be 6 mo, while others don't care.
Bottom line, every lady is different when it comes to her screening. Best thing to do is to do your research on her by reading her ads/showcase/website and when all else fails, just ask.
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