Too Good To Be True?

[PapiChulo0713]

Some of these advertisers seem too good to be true. How do you spot a real deal? I'm new here, so I hope I'm posting on the right forum. For example:


https://adultsearch.com/texas/dallas/female-escorts/2645783


Very interested, but how do I go about it?

[Chung Tran]

There's no easy answer. This Website exists to make navigation easier.

I'll start by saying 40% of the ads on Adultsearch, Listrcawler, etc., are completely fabricated. The pics are fake, the promised services are fake. There is no Woman that exists behind the ad. The goal is to capture your phone number when you respond.

[bosskeeping]

1. Looks for reviews of the provider on this site/oh2/etc
2. If provider asks for money upfront, likely a scam
3. Chat with provider and see if the story matches up
4. This provider @400/hr sure seems rocking. Don't meet her at your home. Find a hotel or something at https://www.dayuse.com
5. Take one for the team and post a review of her if you luck out
6. Check if the pictures are stolen.. Reverse image search the provider. Many times, pictures don't match the provider - Either pics are too old, are of diff provider, stolen from internet etc.

As always, if your spidey sense tingles at any time, run. An hour of fun is not worth a lifetime of troubles.

[PapiChulo0713]

Thanks for the advice. Is it worth going through registration and screening through sites like P411? And yeah, I figure since this is a community driven forum that I would have to take one for the team and report. Just want to do it safely.

[Sir Lancehernot]

Others have said some of the same stuff, but here was my checklist ....


Some have disagreed, but I've always avoided out-of-area-code phone numbers.


Google the phone number. If the same number comes up multiple times associated with different names or

pictures, that's a red flag, although it's been known for some girls to use the same number.


Run the pictures through Tineye. If they turn out to be a Playboy model or a porn star ... Oh, and the cute Asian girls you see in the studio ads ... well, there might be some cute Asian girls there, but they won't be the ones in tbe pictures.



Professional-looking photos are always suspect, IMO, unless she's on P411 or maybe here.



Check for reviews.


If she's a regular poster on this site, she's probably legit, and her posts might help you decide whether you want to see her.

[hookem69horns]

Personally, I’d say join twitter and start following ladies. Fairly easy, some tag #datedallas (example) and then follow them, and you will get suggestions of other ladies so follow them. I have heard mixed things about P411 (from ladies and men) and chose not to renew my membership there, but there’s a ton of great advice in this thread - main thing, be patient, do your research, and if she sounds too good to be true, he probably is!

[PapiChulo0713]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Others have said some of the same stuff, but here was my checklist ....


Some have disagreed, but I've always avoided out-of-area-code phone numbers.


Google the phone number. If the same number comes up multiple times associated with different names or

pictures, that's a red flag, although it's been known for some girls to use the same number.


Run the pictures through Tineye. If they turn out to be a Playboy model or a porn star ... Oh, and the cute Asian girls you see in the studio ads ... well, there might be some cute Asian girls there, but they won't be the ones in tbe pictures.



Professional-looking photos are always suspect, IMO, unless she's on P411 or maybe here.



Check for reviews.


If she's a regular poster on this site, she's probably legit, and her posts might help you decide whether you want to see her.

I agree with the out of area phone numbers and the professional pictures. Somehow I don't trust it.

Now, does the "verified" label mean anything? I see it on sites like Eros.

[PapiChulo0713]

So, about checking reviews. Do I just do a search of their name or ID in here?

[Bugnutter]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Others have said some of the same stuff, but here was my checklist ....


Some have disagreed, but I've always avoided out-of-area-code phone numbers.


Google the phone number. If the same number comes up multiple times associated with different names or

pictures, that's a red flag, although it's been known for some girls to use the same number.


Run the pictures through Tineye. If they turn out to be a Playboy model or a porn star ... Oh, and the cute Asian girls you see in the studio ads ... well, there might be some cute Asian girls there, but they won't be the ones in tbe pictures.



Professional-looking photos are always suspect, IMO, unless she's on P411 or maybe here.



Check for reviews.


If she's a regular poster on this site, she's probably legit, and her posts might help you decide whether you want to see her.

All great advice. I will say that Tineye has dropped in quality over the years though. I consider the “big 3” reverse image search tools to be Google, Yandex, and Tineye. Out of the three, Tineye easily has the least matches. (Yandex surprisingly has the most..) I use this from my phone to do image lookups:

https://www.duplichecker.com/reverse-image-search.php

It uploads your image to 6-7 sites including those mentioned above and gives you links for each set of results. Pretty handy.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by PapiChulo0713

So, about checking reviews. Do I just do a search of their name or ID in here?

in the review forum (or in here), search for name, ph#, email addr (not the @mail.company part), website, etc.

depending on the provider, i do some to extensive due diligence. it's saved me time and money.
in all my yrs doing this, i've prolly only had less than a dozen "wtf did i go see that slut ?!?" encounters, mostly cos i didnt research enough or ignored what i found. sometimes, lil delites can be persuasive :^}

[BooneDog]

I've found googling Instagram handle (if given) to be more reliable than email addresses lately.

A couple other things I take into account are that if there are no results, all the results are from the last couple days, or possibly last couple weeks that's suspicious to me. Less so with phone number because those change pretty often, but also check photos in the ads that come up. A lot of times there will be other numbers you can Google

A couple of the ad sites allow you to look at previous ads for that same person. Check that if they're in more than one city it's possible/reasonable. Ads three days in a row in Austin then three days in a row in Dallas isn't too big a red flag. Ads on back to back days in NYC, Birmingham, Denver, Dallas, LA is pretty unlikely.

A lot of the ads are clearly written by non native English speakers or folks with poor grammer/word choices. That can often be completely okay but if all the pictures are in luxury apartments and the English is 4th grade level it's a bit of a red flag. Likewise if the Grammer mistakes are common for Spanish speakers but the girl in the photos isn't

[Pangolier]

Originally Posted by PapiChulo0713

Some of these advertisers seem too good to be true. How do you spot a real deal? I'm new here, so I hope I'm posting on the right forum. For example:


https://adultsearch.com/texas/dallas/female-escorts/2645783


Very interested, but how do I go about it?

At this point in time I am extremely reluctant to consider an appointment with any girl who is not willing to provide video chat verification. If she's not willing to, then I have to see something VERY convincing in her communication that leads me to believe I will be getting what I am expecting. It's incredibly difficult to authenticate reviews, and many girls have a policy that prohibits them. Generally speaking you will be a bit "safer" requesting an outcall as opposed to going to her. Most postings on sites like Adult Search and STG are either garbage or quite risky. Good luck.

[Gandalf4301]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Others have said some of the same stuff, but here was my checklist ....


Some have disagreed, but I've always avoided out-of-area-code phone numbers.


Google the phone number. If the same number comes up multiple times associated with different names or

pictures, that's a red flag, although it's been known for some girls to use the same number.


Run the pictures through Tineye. If they turn out to be a Playboy model or a porn star ... Oh, and the cute Asian girls you see in the studio ads ... well, there might be some cute Asian girls there, but they won't be the ones in tbe pictures.



Professional-looking photos are always suspect, IMO, unless she's on P411 or maybe here.



Check for reviews.


If she's a regular poster on this site, she's probably legit, and her posts might help you decide whether you want to see her.

Add this list along with what Boss provided and you will be about as covered as you can get.

Certainly do not bring a girl like this to your house/apartment!

If you engage with this girl, and in some instances when you do not, write a review. If you do not engage for a good reason, like Deposits, or service limitations, etc, be sure and tell the entire story of what happened and why you did not engage. Reviews where "NOTHING HAPPENED" can be quite useful to your fellow members here.

[Joddxxx]

Originally Posted by PapiChulo0713

So, about checking reviews. Do I just do a search of their name or ID in here?

Think of what you are looking for, so you might be into Asians that provide a Thai massage, role playing, or senior citizens. We have them all in here, but make sure you do your research, research, and research. Also, location, location, location because your time is valuable, too.

[regalbeagal43]

Originally Posted by Pangolier

At this point in time I am extremely reluctant to consider an appointment with any girl who is not willing to provide video chat verification. If she's not willing to, then I have to see something VERY convincing in her communication that leads me to believe I will be getting what I am expecting. It's incredibly difficult to authenticate reviews, and many girls have a policy that prohibits them. Generally speaking you will be a bit "safer" requesting an outcall as opposed to going to her. Most postings on sites like Adult Search and STG are either garbage or quite risky. Good luck.

This is such a great point - should be pinned. I'm new to hobbying time wise, but I've hobbied alot.

I'll say that besides my workflow for booking is pretty effective but sometimes I get the itch to go on Tryst/eros etc..... This tip would have saved me grief recently.