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Alyssa Marie · 03-25-2017, 07:52 AM

since we arent allowed to post on our reviews...

i am not 160lbs and i am not 42.

while i have gained some weight since october of last year when i witnessed my dog be fatally attacked while on a walk, i am not 160lbs. and i am 100% honest about my age, i am 38. and i have never had anyone in my entire life (civilian or hobby world) think i am older than 38, but thats ok. im actually over people thinking i am a baby.

i actually told him about this and we had plenty of other pleasant conversation. at any given time he was able to say that he wasnt interested, but he didnt. and he went along with the date in 100% full cooperation, even cracking jokes about restaurant names across the street.

my fault for this date was that i mixed up the hilton grand vacation with the elara. i dont live here anymore, so i confused the vacation club part. when i put in the address in my phone it took my to planet hollywood, so since i could only text with the person (he only uses text) it took me an extra 30 minutes to figure out where he was. if i showed up "looking 42" its because of the 30 minute walk in 90 degree heat trying to find him.

you will always have the one that doesnt like you, and thats fine. i just wanted to share my side.

you all have a nice day!
xo

Billythebear · 03-25-2017, 07:05 PM

I will say it has been a little over a year since I saw you Alyssa - but I was very surprised by that review. My time with you back then was one of my ATF. And I doubt you look that age, even if you have gained a few.

Alyssa Marie · 03-25-2017, 10:28 PM

thanks.... cant please them all. i always ask new friends in a silly way if they prefer one or two "rounds".. just to make sure that we dont rush to an end. when someone proclaims TWO! then cant come through, well.. who am i to judge? i guess he can claim its for whatever reason.. in previous reviews he states that he has left dates because they didnt look like they claimed. my photos arent 10 years old, maybe 4... (i hate photos and prefer to sell myself with my "hey, im chill," but .. if someone wants to complain about a tattoo.. im pretty open about them. i have plenty!

and to clarify, my eccie profile said that i weigh 120lbs, i have since changed it to 135, my weight. not 160. it also said that i am 37, im 38. eccie isnt widely used where i live. where i live that website has the men adjust our profiles, so i never thought to change the fifteen (NOT FORTY) lbs and the one (not two) years.

i will never understand how someone can laugh, be silly, have fun, try and go for two... then all of a sudden turn to devils advocate. just decline the date. (especially when you have before).

anywhoooo.... you cant please them all..

i will still live my happy go lucky life. always have, always will.
xx

Alyssa Marie · 03-25-2017, 10:34 PM

and just to throw it out there, i joined eccie in december of 2013.

i had an awesome provider take my photos. it wasnt the first year that i joined.

we are now in 2017.

so, if he wants to exaggerate "ten years" please know that the rest was pretty exaggerated too.
xx

Boltfan · 03-26-2017, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Billythebear

I will say it has been a little over a year since I saw you Alyssa - but I was very surprised by that review. My time with you back then was one of my ATF. And I doubt you look that age, even if you have gained a few.

So it has been a year since you saw her, you weren't there, but the reviewer must be wrong.

If her reviews speak for themselves, then let them speak for themselves. But for someone who has now admitted to not having anything close to recent pics, perhaps the truth lies somewhere in the middle.

Billythebear · 03-26-2017, 07:50 AM

Perhaps. I never said "the reviewer must be wrong" I was relating my own experience, and said I found it hard to believe she looked that old. As to the review standing on its own, I never made any comment on the review, just here on the thread she started. So, I went and looked at reviews elsewhere that were more recent and found nothing but positive. No one but these two individuals know what happened during that time, and obviously they each have their own perspective. But from my past experience and other recent reviews I would not hesitate to see this lady again if the opportunity presented. And I think it's ok to express that opinion too.

Goodguy_69 · 03-26-2017, 10:06 AM

I think it's important to update your pictures and info. 4 year old pictures and alyssa admitted that her weight has changed is a big deal to some. Some ladies don't understand how important looks can be to some of us. The same thing happened to me about 5 years ago with a highly reviewed Vegas lady not alyssa as I've never seen her. She gained significant weight and she even admitted to me that she needed to update her pictures and she eventually did. Even though I had a nice time with her I was highly disappointed with her looks. She looked like a totally different person and if I had known that I wouldn't of booked with her. As a business you need to be upfront with how you look, menu etc. because it can be very deceiving if you don't. We can only go by what you put on your showcase and hope it's accurate. Even a selfie picture would work it doesn't have to be professionally done pictures. Some guys don't really care about looks as long as your menu is to their liking and others like me looks is the fantasy of the visit. That's too bad it didn't work between Alyssa and the reviewer but hopefully she will learn from this experience.

verizon75 · 03-26-2017, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

please know that the rest was pretty exaggerated too.
xx

How do you know the ROS, that is off limits to you?
False and misleading on your pics
False and misleading on your age
False and lies on your weight

The amount and scale has no relevance nor the reason. Only pure and simple accuracy and honesty.....

Here you go, go prove me wrong. Take a full naked body shot front and back, compare todays pics to the 'old' ones and see what members say.

verizon75 · 03-26-2017, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

in previous reviews he states that he has left dates because they didnt look like they claimed. my photos arent 10 years old, maybe 4... (i hate photos and prefer to sell myself with my "hey, im chill,"

Again how do you see the ROS in any review?

We all know why you really hate photos and try to sell "hey, I'm chill" because that is what we are here for, yeah right to funny..... I scheduled you so I can chill with you.....

Boltfan · 03-26-2017, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Billythebear

Perhaps. I never said "the reviewer must be wrong" I was relating my own experience, and said I found it hard to believe she looked that old. As to the review standing on its own, I never made any comment on the review, just here on the thread she started. So, I went and looked at reviews elsewhere that were more recent and found nothing but positive. No one but these two individuals know what happened during that time, and obviously they each have their own perspective. But from my past experience and other recent reviews I would not hesitate to see this lady again if the opportunity presented. And I think it's ok to express that opinion too.

"I doubt you look that age" directly translates via the white knight playbook to "discredit the reviewer's experience" using an irrelevant comment.

Have you reviewed her? Then anyone who wants to look at her reviews will see his and yours and can make their judgment.

What they will also see now is Alyssa admitting she has 4 year old pics, has gained weight and has no qualms about using pics that are not accurate.

verizon75 · 03-26-2017, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Billythebear

I will say it has been a little over a year since I saw you Alyssa - but I was very surprised by that review. My time with you back then was one of my ATF. And I doubt you look that age, even if you have gained a few.

Why did you not review her yourself back when you saw her 1+ years ago?

Boltfan · 03-26-2017, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by verizon75

Why did you not review her yourself back when you saw her 1+ years ago?

Code of the white knights

Alyssa Marie · 03-26-2017, 04:41 PM

Oh, dear lord.......

I have a jet tub in my room and I have taken a bubble bath daily with Dr Teals relax and relief. So to say that my rear smells.. Whatever.

And I didn't go to two wrong hotels, I went to one. I was waiting at the flamingo for your text that you have arrived, like you said you would. Unless you are counting planet Hollywood and the elara as two hotels. I went to one wrong hotel. I put it in my phone, I went to where it took me.

I'm so over this guy.

As for new photos, no. I'm not the only one. If I ever do something and want to leave this in the past, I'll like for it to be easy to erase.

verizon75 · 03-26-2017, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

and just to throw it out there, i joined eccie in december of 2013.

i had an awesome provider take my photos. it wasnt the first year that i joined.

we are now in 2017.

so, if he wants to exaggerate "ten years" please know that the rest was pretty exaggerated too.
xx

BTW, I know a typo right??? But you joined Dec 2012 so that would be 5+ years on the photos not the 4 you mislead with again

verizon75 · 03-26-2017, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

As for new photos, no. I'm not the only one. If I ever do something and want to leave this in the past. I'll like for it to be easy to erase.

Just proving my point and references are spot on from my review to your looks and weight and age. No pics = I am right..... just prove me wrong with current pics. You already have pics up, cheap excuse with the easy to erase.