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Guest072624 · 03-20-2012, 11:42 AM

I have been reading all the posts in here...and i have to say. The clients are VERY VOCAL in voicing there discern for certain things that have "happened" to them. But i noticed when a provider speaks up for herself in here. She either gets dissed, talked to like she isnt shit, or ignored. Me as a provider i must say i will ALWAYS voice my opinion no matter what. Even though obviously this is a male dominated site. Without providers there wouldnt be a site. So with that being said ladies: its okay to be vocal....

Let the comments begin.....

*spinners do it better*

boardman · 03-20-2012, 11:57 AM

Yeah...Go with that.

AllisonofHouston · 03-20-2012, 12:03 PM

...ijs

Guest072624 · 03-20-2012, 12:06 PM

all day ima go with it lol....yall some funny lil characters on here

cumalot · 03-20-2012, 12:46 PM

I think it depends on the topic and the forum the topic is in as to the respect that others give and recieve.

boardman · 03-20-2012, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by AllisonofHouston

...ijs

LOL @ Allison

AllisonofHouston · 03-20-2012, 01:04 PM

ZedX79 · 03-20-2012, 01:29 PM

I thought this was going to be about being too quiet in bed when knocking it.

Trey · 03-20-2012, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by ZedX79

I thought this was going to be about being too quiet in bed when knocking it.

Me too, that would've made a better thread. Say what you will ladies, I don't give a shit. But if you put bullshit out there and it gets thrown in your face that's how it is. Now some of the guys are bros before hoes all the way so whatever the chick says is wrong. Then you got the guys that if they think the girl is hot any dumb ass story she tells is the word of god. A few will call it straight up and go either way.

AllisonofHouston · 03-20-2012, 01:45 PM

Oh I cant be accused of that.....

Fancyinheels · 03-20-2012, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Kammye

*spinners do it better*

BBWs= More to love, less that'll break.

Redheads= So much fiery passion, it oozes through our hair.

I though this thread was going to be about moaning in bed? Pout.

Seriously, every industry gets criticized, opponents on both sides get defensive and offensive, and tact often gets blown off completely. It is what it is, and since we ladies are the meals and the gentlemen our consumers with a vast array of menus and blue plate specials to choose from, we have to bear that in mind and bite out tongues, sometimes. (Hmmm, how does every allegory I seem to make end up with oral connotations?)

boardman · 03-20-2012, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

often gets blown (Hmmm, how does every allegory I seem to make end up with oral connotations?)

It's funny, I was thincking the same thing...
...then I got aroused.

Guest072614-1 · 03-20-2012, 02:25 PM

Kammye, please feel free to always voice your opinion. The vast majority of people here (client and escort) will respect what you have to say and respond in a civil manner. You have to understand that this, like any internet forum, will always have "characters" who take shots at people. Most of the time it's all in fun.

The problem I have with this thread is that you seem to be alerting everyone to an issue that really isn't there. Yes, there are people that make seemingly disrespectful comments to the ladies, but those same posters call the guys out on their shit as well. Also, this is an open forum, and EVERYONE has a voice. And everyone has ALWAYS had a voice. The ladies have no reason not to be vocal about their concerns, and for the most part, they do speak out when they need to.

Homedepot's recent alert thread was a good example of this. Notice how the people who responded were very balanced in how they handled the situation, for the most part. When Gia responded with her side of the story, many posters were very understanding. She even acknowledges this at one point.

The people who actually post on the forum frequently are usually some of the most well-mannered people you will encounter in this business (I've actually met a few of them), even those that seem like they don't give a shit.

I also get a "if you want this pussy, you better behave" vibe from your post, and I just think that this is the wrong approach. Most (I emphasize "most") guys aren't trying to throw their weight around on the site and degrade the ladies. It's important to have a sense of humor about these things.

The real reason you don't see women "being vocal" is because they know that they don't have to be. There are private forums that only providers have access to where they can voice their concerns about certain individuals, and many ladies only use this site for business purposes. Most ladies hardly ever post in these forums at all because it's just not their thing.

And I'm another person who thought this threAD was gonna be about guys voicing their pleasure in bed. I would love some suggestions to help me come out of my shell a little more.

Fancyinheels · 03-20-2012, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Justin_Scott

Kammye, please feel free to always voice your opinion. The vast majority of people here (client and escort) will respect what you have to say and respond in a civil manner. You have to understand that this, like any internet forum, will always have "characters" who take shots at people. Most of the time it's all in fun.

The problem I have with this thread is that you seem to be alerting everyone to an issue that really isn't there. Yes, there are people that make seemingly disrespectful comments to the ladies, but those same posters call the guys out on their shit as well. Also, this is an open forum, and EVERYONE has a voice. And everyone has ALWAYS had a voice. The ladies have no reason not to be vocal about their concerns, and for the most part, they do speak out when they need to.

Homedepot's recent alert thread was a good example of this. Notice how the people who responded were very balanced in how they handled the situation, for the most part. When Gia responded with her side of the story, many posters were very understanding. She even acknowledges this at one point.

The people who actually post on the forum frequently are usually some of the most well-mannered people you will encounter in this business, even those that seem like they don't give a shit.

I also get a "if you want this pussy, you better behave" vibe from your post, and I just think that this is the wrong approach. Most (I emphasize "most") guys aren't trying to throw their weight around on the site and degrade the ladies. It's important to have a sense of humor about these things.

The real reason you don't see women "being vocal" is because they know that they don't have to be. There are private forums that only providers have access to where they can voice their concerns about certain individuals, and many ladies only use this site for business purposes. Most ladies hardly ever post in these forums at all because it's just not their thing.

And I'm another person who thought this threAD was gonna be about guys voicing their pleasure in bed as well. I would love some suggestions to help me come out of my shell a little more.

Well said, but I wouldn't expect any less from you, Justin.

Btw, Jameson or Guinness Stout might help loosen your vocal cords.

Sometimes it is best that we ladies talk amongst ourselves. I also believe that the posts a lady makes here tells so much more about her than any Showcase. From that you get PR, but from her own comments you get her actual personality. Might give some of us pause, and cause for polite self censorship.

Guest072624 · 03-20-2012, 03:14 PM

Well said!!! I was just putting it out there. I havent been disrespected ever on here. I was just noticing in some threads that it was happening. But i suppose it goes both ways. Either way u NEVER have to worry about me being quiet in the bedroom lol...*screams*