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Originally Posted by diveguy6
When dealing with SA girls they don't see themselves as providers. Don't trat them as such. Suggest a date, movie and dinner or something similar. Then see where things go from there. Never mention hooker or provider as they don't see themselves as such. They're more than likely looking for help not a profession. Tread lightly and let them take the lead on what they're looking for and you'll find it easier for you. Remember, they're looking for something casual, not professional. Good luck and happy hunting.
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Well, you're not wrong... But the thing is, when guys who frequent this forum are browsing on the sugar sites, the great majority of times they're not actually looking for potential sugar babies - they're looking for semi-UTR traditional providers who are using (abusing?) the sugar sites to try to find clients. They're looking for interactions that are strictly transactional and time-boxed, that they can be "one and done" with if they want to. Which can cause a lot of frustration on both sides because (IMHO) there's this narrative, especially on the traditional hobbying forums, that guys are approaching things thinking "a ho is a ho, no matter how they try to dress it up", and that any women on the sugar sites who think they're actually going to find a "traditional" sugar relationship are delusional...