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Guest012220 · 03-28-2012, 08:41 AM

I have noticed lately a lot of reviews of girls that have NCNS and then it says they are from BP. Im just curious why guys choose girls on BP over girls from Eccie/P411 or any other established board? Most guys who have been on this board for a bit do KNOW that not all but some girls from BP do not end up well. Whether they NCNS or you get your money stolen or worse.

Guest082216-1 · 03-28-2012, 08:43 AM

Because if a girl looks hot enough, all the blood flows from the big brain to the little brain and and it starts crying " I want some of that! Give me!!" and won't shut up till it gets what it wants

bigdog0311 · 03-28-2012, 09:05 AM

Its about the "unknown" or "strange" to alot of hobbyists, that is why they choose to go with the girls that are in the WW on this site. There are also hobbyists who cannot pass the screening of p411 or even established ECCIE verified providers.

TXGENT · 03-28-2012, 09:41 AM

It seems the BP issue always comes up about the ladies on there. Just my 2 cents but girls on BP , eccie or anywhere there is the good and bad. Alot of our eccie ladies are on BP and even a mod from here advertises on there alot. I think it just depends on the lady on anysite here or there.

guest061212 · 03-28-2012, 12:03 PM

I have seen one BP provider when I first moved here prior to knowing about eccie. I don't look at BP anymore. Frankly, I consider advertising on BP as a negative. No disrespect at all intended for those that do. The longer I am in the hobby, I find the more established women provide the best experience. P411 is my friend!

BBW Katrina · 03-28-2012, 12:08 PM

Bp gets a bad rep. Yes, you have to sift through the freaks at times (as well as eccie or anywhere else), but I have used BP in addition to other sites for about 3 yrs and have met an incredible amount of respectful, mature clients have been regulars for years. Also, I have never caused drama, bait and switched, used fakes pics, etc so even though I use BP you cannot caterorgize providers and or clients into one general lump.

guest043013-2 · 03-28-2012, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by bigdog0311

Its about the "unknown" or "strange" to alot of hobbyists, that is why they choose to go with the girls that are in the WW on this site. There are also hobbyists who cannot pass the screening of p411 or even established ECCIE verified providers.

I hate to agree with bigdog, but this is a good portion of the reasons.

Other reasons:

- Guy gets NCNS or cancelled by a provider from ECCIE/P411, too late to arrange another quality date, so he falls back on BP.
- Unexpected opportunity, not enough time or perhaps no access to eccie/P411 to schedule. (I have used print versions of FW Observer & Dallas Weekly in both of these cases)
- Guy wants something less than FS, and is unable to search to find that on ECCIE/P411

bigdog0311 · 03-28-2012, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by tigercat

I hate to agree with bigdog, but this is a good portion of the reasons.

Why would you hate to agree on something I said?

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Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Bp gets a bad rep. Yes, you have to sift through the freaks at times (as well as eccie or anywhere else), but I have used BP in addition to other sites for about 3 yrs and have met an incredible amount of respectful, mature clients have been regulars for years. Also, I have never caused drama, bait and switched, used fakes pics, etc so even though I use BP you cannot caterorgize providers and or clients into one general lump.

You are right, but if you want to talk in ratios/percentages, of the guys that call your strickly off your BP ad and do not know of you on ECCIE or anywhere else, and you obviously cannot do any screening before you see him in person, compared to the ECCIE member who has reviews and has been a member for a while, what would be the likelihood of you getting NCNSed on or worse? I would say 10:1. Which is precisely the the OP is talking about

Guest012220 · 03-28-2012, 12:32 PM

I get what you are all saying about the last min. schedule and all. Im mostly talking about clients that do have the time to schedule and have all the right references and/or verification but still choose to go to a girl that advertises on BP. And Im referring to girls that are only on BP and not a verified provider on any other site. Its like you know your running a risk rather than picking a girl that is established. I do see the point of where some just dont want to jump through hoops of girls' verification process.

guest043013-2 · 03-28-2012, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by bigdog0311

Why would you hate to agree on something I said?...

I am not an agreeable sort of guy.

guest061212 · 03-28-2012, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Bp gets a bad rep. Yes, you have to sift through the freaks at times (as well as eccie or anywhere else), but I have used BP in addition to other sites for about 3 yrs and have met an incredible amount of respectful, mature clients have been regulars for years. Also, I have never caused drama, bait and switched, used fakes pics, etc so even though I use BP you cannot caterorgize providers and or clients into one general lump.

Although I don't have a lot of first hand knowledge, I think you may be the exception to BP providers.

bigdog0311 · 03-28-2012, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by maria goddess

..... And Im referring to girls that are only on BP and not a verified provider on any other site. Its like you know your running a risk rather than picking a girl that is established...

Lots of guys think with the wrong head and just look at BP and see a pretty pic and call it, hoping he will find a "diamond in the rough". I do it alot for body rubs/massages and I want to say that 4 out of 5 are fantastic sessions. I personally will not use BP for FS girls.

ItalianaPrincess · 03-28-2012, 01:26 PM

Mariagoddess - Its like why do you stop at a garage sale when you are on the way to the Mall? ha ha ha Then you get there and have to sift thru a bunch of CRAP to end up with something you didn't even want!

There's like an 8% chance they might find a diamond in the rough....

92% chance they might get robbed , slapped by a pimp , Bait N' Switched , or NCNS'd...

Gotta love backpage!

JadeNow · 03-28-2012, 02:17 PM

I guess, like most everything else, it varies because everyone is different. I am not sure why a guy (who had time and access) wouldn't choose to screen. If SHE screens, HE'S probably safer, too. That's a good rule of thumb, but like everything else, there are also no guarantees. When I am the one "shopping", I search P411, ECCIE, AHC, TER, TOB, & BD. CL & BP don't even enter into my equation when thinking of looking. It's to avoid "drama", which seems to be higher in those places. Yes, I could be missing that "diamond in the rough", but I believe for the amount of time potentially spent there, I'd have a better chance of success at sites that screen, and/or provide stats on profiles (number of reviews, ok's, posts, etc.).
I also put a lot of faith in the Universe to help me cross paths with the right people. It's working! Life is wonderful!

Guest062512 · 03-28-2012, 02:20 PM

I see BP bodyrub and massage providers often. I find there are more options there and they are more easily searched than in eccie. In my experience, there is a comparatively low level of drama in these BP sections.

Now if you want to talk about NCNS or bait and switch or cancellations or misrepresentative pics, I have had a full share of those here on eccie.

I do use primarily eccie and P411 for scheduling with escorts so they can screen more easily.

Just use caution and patience, whatever medium you use for selection and screening.