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CD3 · 02-20-2018, 10:21 PM

So I am only going to speak this rant and then dip the fuck out off this threAD but I’ve got something to say. I am very aware that you guys who hide behind your avatars expect to be told everything about every hovider on here whether it compromises their identity or personal lives or not, but I love how none of you ask if it’s okay to do so or care for that matter if one of you does. So since privacy is not an option for hoviders on here at least get your facts and information correct so you don’t look stupid. It’s been said that I am a lot bigger or out of shape lately and you’re right, I am. This is due to the fact that my bf and I found out I was pregnant and 4 months into it I had a miscarriage. So no I wasn’t fucking people while on the rag like my review speaks of. I was pregnant at that time so that’s impossible. And yes you can bleed sometimes during first stage of being pregnant and it’s not a big deal. But that’s why I was out for like a month and didn’t see anyone. And you’re right. I should do something about my fat stomach. I am so grateful that I have you guys remind me why I am out of shape and thanks for the motivation. I’m not ganna look at this thread or comment on it bc honestly nothing anyone has to say, if anything, matters to me right now.

Analeese · 02-20-2018, 10:51 PM

Fuck what they think ....be yourself...and do it on fucking purpose...

I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage.....and that you weren't allowed privacy to go through that how you wanted to.

Take some time for you....you deserve it...

Easy Rider · 02-20-2018, 11:07 PM

CD3....you are a beautiful woman and you should never forget that. You look awesome and have a solid mindset to overcome the challenges of life. Stay strong mi lady and reach out to me when you need anything. Remember....F the haters and love yourself.

BLM69 · 02-20-2018, 11:23 PM

Nothing wrong with bigger women, A lot of men like them in here including myself. Sorry for your loss

~Ze~ · 02-20-2018, 11:27 PM

It sucks that "they've" won.

You should never feel you have to explain yourself, especially your very PERSONAL tragedy, to the asshats of this place.

Those that are close to you are all you should be concerned with.

If "they" have a problem with you, they need to kick rocks and stay the fuck out of your path.

You are stronger than they are. Remember that.

*hugs*

AmericanHardwood · 02-21-2018, 06:45 AM

I was pregnant

So no I wasn’t fucking people while on the rag like my review speaks of.

I was pregnant at that time so that’s impossible.

And yes you can bleed sometimes during first stage of being pregnant and it’s not a big deal.

Blood is blood no matter why

Perception is 99% reality.

Keep this in mind.

Sorry for your loss
I know it’s physically and mentally challenging.
Take time to heal.
And don’t worry about the hate. Everyone get it from someone.

Admiral Giggle · 02-21-2018, 08:18 AM

Sorry for your loss.

But

You are correct. Privacy is not an option for you or hundreds of other providers.

A large percentage of women on here are not private. They put themselves out there by placing their pictures, videos, stats, and allow themselves to be reviewed for the things they do to make a living.

For the women there is no privacy except for what they will and will not allow to be placed here by their pimp, manager, or their own hand and those who review them.

I give Ze credit. She has been here for many years and has been very smart when it comes to keeping her RW to herself. She is an enigma here and Kudos for her privacy savy.

As for those who post their pics, face pics, incall from their own apartment or home, allow graphic pics or videos in their reviews and post them on the multitude of amateur porn sites. You forfeited your private life to the modern age of the internet, social media, and google searches.

Part of the information exchange is guys exchaninging information on all of the ladies.

I am constantly contacting newbies who use a real world number in their welcome threads informing them they're exposing their real world by a google or facebook search.

Agian. Sorry for your loss. The loss of life is never easy.

Willow Breeze · 02-21-2018, 09:19 AM

Sweet lady stay strong and keep ypur head up. You are beautiful. Sorry for your loss.

ScrewDriver01 · 02-21-2018, 10:49 AM

Sorry Lovely lady to hear that...
And AG - well said - every word of it !!!
And Yes - I second that about Ze !!! She's a mystery, an Enigma !!! Lol..

Quote:

Originally Posted by Admiral Giggle

For the women there is no privacy except for what they will and will not allow to be placed here by their pimp, manager, or their own hand and those who review them.

I give Ze credit. She has been here for many years and has been very smart when it comes to keeping her RW to herself. She is an enigma here and Kudos for her privacy savy.

As for those who post their pics, face pics, incall from their own apartment or home, allow graphic pics or videos in their reviews and post them on the multitude of amateur porn sites. You forfeited your private life to the modern age of the internet, social media, and google searches.

I am constantly contacting newbies who use a real world number in their welcome threads informing them they're exposing their real world by a google or facebook search.

CD3 · 02-21-2018, 11:32 AM

Like I said privacy is not an option I got that when they posted my real name in. A revieee abc when they basically posted my neighborhood on a review. And when they posted my fucking birthday on here. So I get it. You should be used to people putting your REAL INFO on here bc Noone got in trouble or it never got erased or deleted. What I said was get your facts straight.

Crock · 02-21-2018, 11:43 AM

Sorry for your loss, and sorry that you had to tell us about it.

WalkerTx · 02-21-2018, 12:58 PM

I'm sorry for your loss. As for the No review, just chalk it up to some folks being assholes.

justjackie · 02-21-2018, 01:19 PM

98% if the time we forfeit our privacy in this business and damn it’s hard to keep it. Don’t let this get you down. Keep your head up ... deactivate your account for a min. Take a break and a breather and regroup yourself. This hobby is very demanding and harsh at times.

novacain · 02-21-2018, 01:28 PM

It's sort of funny, guys here will bitch and rant if a lady wants more than a handle for screening............ yet they will dig into a providers life like she's running for president and put it out there for all to see.

Tedd02 · 02-21-2018, 01:42 PM

Sorry for the loss been there. Take some time and decompress if you haven't.