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Old 05-19-2010, 05:51 PM   #1
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Default The Art of Fingering a Woman

I am sure many gentleman are very wise, and very experienced and probably don't feel they need to read any of this, as it does not apply to them. That is perfectly fine. This isn't meant to insult anyone by any means, but this post is actually meant to bring about discussion and educate at the same time! We might get some good laughs out of this as usual too!

I have had some past experience with some of my "former boyfriends" who just didn't get a clue as to how to properly finger a woman’s vagina or her clitoris properly. It made me wonder how many more men out there need someone to give them a little helpful instruction! I will cut and paste some links here too that are great reads on this subject as well.

First and foremost for those who might be interested in continuing to read this.. Long fingernails are a big No-No. You should always keep your fingernails very short and very clean. No dirt under the fingernails please. You always want to make sure that you have washed your hands, because you do not want to introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or the woman’s urethra. This can cause a whole host of problems for her, from bacterial vaginitis, to a bladder infection, to vulvovaginits, and believe me she won't be happy with you if she ends up with a big Doctor bill and on antibiotics for 10 days!

The Vaginal tissues are very delicate and very sensitive. A Woman’s Urethra is also very very sensitive. These tissues can tear or become inflamed very quickly without proper lubrication and from hard friction with a rough hand! So being gentle and delicate with your hand and fingers is key.

One thing that you have to remember is it doesn't matter how excited a woman gets, the natural lubrication is easily rubbed off by the hand, and fingers. So it is very important that you keep some lubrication handy, for constant usage during finger play. Human saliva is actually not a very good lubricant it dries up quickly and it actually has enzymes and other chemical components in it (that I won't go into here) that can be very irritating to a woman’s vagina, especially during finger play.

Never go directly onto the clitoris as it is very sensitive. It is best to work the woman up by starting off gently massaging around the outer lips (Labia Majora), maybe soothing her by gentle stroking her thighs, anything that might help to relax her then working your way toward the clitoris. Please remember that rubbing on the clitoris directly especially if you have rough hands can be painful or irritating, so be sure to use a substantial amount of lubrication when working your way there. Remember to use a very "light touch". The clitoris is not to be pressed hard on, or rubbed roughly. Use a very light fingertip, maybe going around the clitoral area lightly with very slow, even motion. There is no need to go super fast, or herky jerky. Remember to keep your pressure light and even, not hard... and at a steady pace. You do not have to stay exclusively on the clitoris, take your finger(s) and gently go down in between the lips, gently stroking. Remember to communicate with your partner and make sure she is not getting irritated. Some woman the more they get aroused the less direct stimulation to the clitoris they can take. Most women when they masturbate rotate in a circular motion around the clit others, up and down or side to side.

When it is time to enter your partner with your digits there are couple of techniques you can use. You can use your thumb on top to stimulate her clit, while inserting one or more fingers inside and trying to hit her g-spot. The g-spot can become easily bruised if you are rubbing or hitting it too hard, so again, communicate with your partner effectively to avoid injury or pain.

The other technique is with your partner on her knees or standing in a bent over position. This technique is used from behind where the thumb is inserted and gently stimulates the g-spot, and the fingers make a "V" around her clit.

So hopefully I have provided some good information... here are a couple of links for those who would like further reading on the topic!

After all this typing and thinking about all this fingering makes me want to pull out the lube now... and well.. go take care of myself! LOL

Happy fingering guys!
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http://www.askstudent.com/college-li...ering-a-woman/


http://www.articlesbase.com/sexualit...s-1322938.html
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Old 05-19-2010, 06:00 PM   #2
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My experience has been that every woman is different when it comes to fingering. The best thing I have found is just to ask her what she likes and let the lady guide me with what she enjoys.
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Old 05-19-2010, 06:14 PM   #3
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Most cases, you only have an hour to get it right...let's just say about 98% ever do.
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Old 05-19-2010, 06:50 PM   #4
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Yes all women are different and enjoy things differently - whether it is using fingers, tongue, toys, ding-a-ling, pulling hair-not pulling hair, dirty talk, no dirty talk, what ever.

I don't want to sound like a jerk, but in the hobby world, If I am the one paying for the session, it should be all about me and what I like. If a lady doesn't like what I am doing, she can educate me on her nickel or simply suggest we move on to something else. Assuming nothing painful is happening, If she doesn't get off after the session, she can ask the guy if he can STAY off the clock and she can get him to do what SHE wants.

In the civilian world it is entirely different; we aren't on a clock and usually have PLENTY of time to explore and find out how to please each other.

And Most guys want the lady to enjoy herself - but SHE has to help the guy with what SHE enjoys.

I know most guys tell their SO what they enjoy and virtually ALL SOs are happy to accommodate their man, have sex as often as he wants; give him BJ at the drop of a hat; offer 3-ways for special occasions; dress in sexy outfits to cook dinner......

Wait a second, only TMFT has it that good;

The rest of the guys on the planet EARTH have to pay to get a girl to do what HE wants.

But I digress....
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Old 05-19-2010, 07:30 PM   #5
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If my girl did all that civil i would not hobby. as far as finering goes I just poke around in there dont know if im doing shit dont care i'm just getting it ready for my dick
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Old 05-19-2010, 07:34 PM   #6
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If my girl did all that civil i would not hobby. as far as finering goes I just poke around in there dont know if im doing shit dont care i'm just getting it ready for my dick
MOST women use sex as a commodity to get what they want, and even after they get it, they are stingy about it to boot.

If ANY SO did what I posted up there, virtually NO GUY would hobby - other than the occasional IHAIAHTGSST.
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Old 05-19-2010, 08:05 PM   #7
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I know most guys tell their SO what they enjoy and virtually ALL SOs are happy to accommodate their man, have sex as often as he wants; give him BJ at the drop of a hat; offer 3-ways for special occasions; dress in sexy outfits to cook dinner......

Wait a second, only TMFT has it that good;

The rest of the guys on the planet EARTH have to pay to get a girl to do what HE wants.

But I digress....
What Civil Barrister failed to mention was ... that only works with women my own age...and women my age are all in a museum somewhere ...

Oh, yea they offer... but they know I'll fall asleep before I can get my walker over there to take them up on their offer...
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Old 05-19-2010, 08:07 PM   #8
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The art of making my partner have as good a time as I do is a form of endorphine to me. This is useful information for those less experienced, as well as some who just may not know but needed to.

Guys, the more enjoyable you make it for your partner, I can say from personal experience that in many instances it can make your experience more enjoyable.
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What Civil Barrister failed to mention was ... that only works with women my own age...and women my age are all in a museum somewhere ...

Oh, yea they offer... but they know I'll fall asleep before I can get my walker over there to take them up on their offer...
Now I HATE to talk out of school, TMFT, but Truth be told, I understand you have one of those new fangled battery operated car-things from Medicare and can scoot over to her faster than dear_hunter can say "just say'n"

Just say'n

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I am sure many gentleman are very wise, and very experienced and probably don't feel they need to read any of this .....
Dear Hunter told me it was just like football...ram it up the middle... if you don't score after 3 tries... punt...

That Dear Hunter... what a deep well of knowledge...
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Old 05-19-2010, 08:11 PM   #11
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i hobby to play....and get me off. The girl is secondary....of course i am not selfish so i am more than willing to get her off. but really though...its a job to them...so how many actually enjoy it vs. the porn like faking? i do agree with knowing how to please the woman in all facets of activity Guilty Pleasures. for this reason, I keep my own nail set to keep fingers trimmed properly. Besides....the finger informs me if I am big enough to please or small enuff to add a finger with the dick. lol


@ providers....do yall really get off? Or is that just a role you play during the moment? Really, is it necessary to say im the best....?

I read that like 60% of women never climax and more than 90% have faked one to please a partner.
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i hobby to play....and get me off. The girl is secondary....of course i am not selfish so i am more than willing to get her off. but really though...its a job to them...so how many actually enjoy it vs. the porn like faking? i do agree with knowing how to please the woman in all facets of activity Guilty Pleasures. for this reason, I keep my own nail set to keep fingers trimmed properly. Besides....the finger informs me if I am big enough to please or small enuff to add a finger with the dick. lol


@ providers....do yall really get off? Or is that just a role you play during the moment? Really, is it necessary to say im the best....?

I read that like 60% of women never climax and more than 90% have faked one to please a partner.
Now wait a minute are you trying to tell me that these incredibly hot 2x and 3x ladies who have sessions with old, ugly, fat, bald, hairy-back, socially inept curmudgeons are NOT having the BEST sex of their lives? WTF???

Come on, we all know that we all make these girls have 3-6 BIG Os EVERY SINGLE time they are with us.

Now you are probably right that in their real world they may have a hard time getting off, but come on, get serious, NONE of these girls fake it with US.....

Where have you been?

Next thing you will be telling me is the providers are only doing it for the money......sheeeiiit
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just saying and asking....i am with you they are doing it because they love sex...so why not get paid to do it. but having a orgasm....hummm not all of us are gifted. i love seeing and hearing a woman cum.

Really more so curious....I agree with you though.
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Now wait a minute are you trying to tell me that these incredibly hot 2x and 3x ladies who have sessions with old, ugly, fat, bald, hairy-back, socially inept curmudgeons are NOT having the BEST sex of their lives? WTF???

Come on, we all know that we all make these girls have 3-6 BIG Os EVERY SINGLE time they are with us.

Now you are probably right that in their real world they may have a hard time getting off, but come on, get serious, NONE of these girls fake it with US.....

Where have you been?

Next thing you will be telling me is the providers are only doing it for the money......sheeeiiit
yea...what he said... and all them AMPs only post recent pics of the girls who actually work there...
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My experience has been that every woman is different when it comes to fingering. The best thing I have found is just to ask her what she likes and let the lady guide me with what she enjoys.
I concur....
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