Strippers vs Escorts - Preferences?

[landon]

As a Strip Clubber, most of my experience in relating to extras (HJ, BJ, FS) has been with Strippers inside club or outside. I am VIP at a couple of Houston area clubs and one in particular is very extras friendly. I have no prob finding gals that like to play in the strip clubs but rate and performance can vary. My current fav is one I have been doing mostly otc for slightly over two years (she gets me off always). I have had some experience with BP gals but just a couple. Many dancers dance to recruit clients for otc sessions.

With Strippers you basically know what your getting without showing up somewhere to do someone you have never met. Due to a couple of not so happy experiences I have been hesitant about escorts but may try out some of the ones with positive reviews here. I have found that drugs whether stripper or escort can be a drag.

With escorts there is no delay in cutting into the chase and I am wanting to try a couple which have had positive reviews here. I am very basic in what I like in a session - CBJ or HJ foreplay and then FS (prefer cowgirl or reverse MISH - gal on top leaning forward thrusting). My fav is really good at the latter so it is important to me an escort can give it to me how I want. One escort I met was on drugs and a ROB. Another one, an x stripper was fun but seemed fucked out. I believe drugs was also part of the prob for her too.

Doing a gal in a club VIP area can vary as to privacy. I have done them in a number of Houston area clubs and found it very enjoyable. Some gals like doing it around people. While the more privacy the better is my preference, I never let the not so private settings bother me.

[Randall Creed]

Guess I'm the opposite. Give me a provider every day of the week over a stripper. No games and other silliness over what I'm after. Directly to the point with providers over potentially, 'I'm not a whore/this is just a fantasy' hit and miss bullshit with strippers. The time and $ I invest in providers is more neatly packaged compared to with that chasing strippers.

But, to each his own. If that's your gig and you can get high mileage with em, more power to you. I just don't have the patience for it anymore.

[pyramider]

Better history of mileage with escorts than strippers.

[Eccie Addict]

I would rather see a provider any day of the week. Too much bad history with strippers for me.

[blowpop]

For me it's a totally different experience. Playing with strippers used to be all about the chase. But once you know the game, it's not exactly a huge challenge.

I find that I prefer the escort experience (much more relaxed setting) and the value is generally better.

And I don't consider out-of-club experiences with strippers in this equation. Once they see you outside the club, they're escorts.

[The G.O.A.T]

Escort over stripper and day of the week and twice on Sunday.

[ICU 812]

I'm with Rambro Creed and The G.O.A.T on this.

I have had a good time in clubs . . .BUT.

But there is too much will-she-won't-she and the maniger is looking crap. There used to be a thread on ASPD titled "So, You Want To Date A Stripper?" that really examined the stripper psychology and life-style. The dynamic is something like: You try to get as much as she will give for as little as she will take . . .while she wants to do as little as she can for all the money you've got. Just pre-pay once and see how quickly she has to go to the little girls room with a "Be right back suger!"

The Hobbyist-Provider dynamic on the other hand is very open. We all know what we are talking about and for how much. Go with someone well reviewed on this bvoard who has a website (less so with CL or BP) and you will know what to expect. Do your research right and you will, most probably, have the kind of time you expect. And it could be a long time if that is what you booked with her: thirty minutes, one or two hours , over night or all weekend.

Providers for me.

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

I used to go to the strip clubs back in the late 80's and early 90's was a bouncer at one where you could get a little extra fun.

However... lets compare 2 things

Getting some play in a club.. Vice and bust in and if you cannot get dressed fast enough or is witnessed playing around by an undercover you go to jail. Such activities are forbidden in a club and most owners will ban a girl from working there again if caught.

Escort where you arrange an incall to her place or to a hotel room where its neutral, 2 people check in and in a couple of hours, both leave.... now what happened?

if she is staying at a hotel, and you visit her for 1-2 hours.. she had a visitor... nothing silly about that..

Escorts are safer if you take precautions.

[SneakyCancer]

I guess I am still into the chase.....strip clubs have my attention. I like lurking through the clubs.....to and fro....searching to see who will answer my call as the next rum/coke victim. Its all about the chase and negotiation.

But i love my providers....for the personal touch....VIP moment. Matter of fact, I picture some of them stripping for me right now.....where are you ladies?

[Dad]

Novices like strippers. Experts prefer escorts!

[Hunteradventurer]

Interesting question, I was just contemplating this question the other day. I have had a a number encounters with both and had good and bad experiences with each group but when I go back and look at the number of girls i went back to see multiple times and the dancers won out hands down. I think for me the time I spent getting to know them prior to OTC verses meeting a provider cold has made the difference. I have met a few providers for lunch or a drink before a session but never considered bailing out of a session just because we didn't click. The advantage of meeting in a club for me is the ability to shop until I find one that has the right chemistry to proceed to OTC play. I am not saying this is necessarily been a cheaper rout there has to be a lot of time & money put into research but for me it has just worked out that way. No preference either way this is just how it has worked out for me and I will continue to see providers and dancers both.

[oilfieldscum]

1) The selection when it comes to strippers. It's like a buffet. You get to see how they look and even how they can move when they dance and there are numerous to choose from. When you call an escort you have never met you really have no idea what she looks like or how she will act. i.e. she could be using pics that show her some 20lbs lighter than she is now, she could be a space cadet, wasted out of her mind, etc. I don't care if she does have positive reviews becuase everyone has there own opinion. One mans treasure is anothers trash and vice versa.

2) Safety. Although there is a worry about LE raiding a club you don't have to worry about a stripper being LE and setting you up for a bust. Also, if you are playing in the club then you don't have to worry about being robbed by the pimp.

3) In general the stripper route is the more expensive of the two

[landon]

Some good comments. I agree once a stripper starts seeing you otc she is doing escort work. I was doing one gal in 2006 who told me she danced to recruit clients for her escort work. The stripper I am currently doing is meeting me mainly otc. POP has come down to $100-$150 (YTD avg $150). Been doing her slightly over 2 yr (1-2x week). She gives excellent service HJ foreplay then great sex (rev mish - her on top leaning fwd). It is great and I get off every time. I am not sure she is spending too much time in the club nowadays due to meeting me and and unknown # of other clients. She has told me "I would rather do this" (escort vs strip club).

I have been a little reluctant to jump into the escort game primarily based on what oilfield and Hunter say above. Another concern is the idea of escorts doing a lot more activity and wonder if the one I would get would be fucked out / loose. My two experiences with BP Call Girls - one a Psyco ROB, the other fucked out druggie. Perhaps I am too conservative primarily doing one girl but I am hestitant to push away a good one to take a chance with someone else which may be more money. I believe this site will give me a chance to read escort reviews and pick one for a sortie outside the box.

I believe there is another sub group - Amateur Escorts. My experience with these was 2 gals who were freinds of a stripper I saw 2005-07 otc. They were Waffle House Waitresses looking for xtra $ and fun but neither strippers or professional escorts like many on this site. They were very enthusiastic and one loved to pose for bikini photos before sex.

[blowpop]

Landon, contacts on BP are very much hit and miss. The high percentage way to start playing with escorts is to browse the independent reviews section here and schedule with a well-reviewed woman who strikes your fancy.

[Guest121310]

Well, TG is pressuring me to post in this thread since I've banged more strippers since I've been back than hookers, so here goes.

I only venture to one club. I've had my Lifetime VIP there for 5 years and it's my home field advantage. I know the waitresses, managers and the lay of the land, which definately helps sort out the eye candy from the players. When it's this easy to find the players, I get action every night that I want to. I don't pay exorbitant prices, as I let them know that they're not professionals and I'm not going to pay them professional rates. It's always a BBBJ in the back, which very often turns into more intimate play OTC, sometimes I pay, but most times I don't pay for that.

I like it because of the unknown. It's fun to play as the master trying to find a new apprentice sometimes. The only pitfall is not to start dating them...bad things.

Providers are the professionals, and when I want to get my freak on with a known set of standards, it's always with them.

Thrill of the unknown and the hunt - Strippers
Thrill of the guaranteed freakiness - Escorts