Do providers date privately?

[Mr.smooth81]

I've pondering on this question for quite a while now....But I always wondered if providers actually date or get into serious relationships while working actively in the business. I'm eager to find out what providers have to say. I actually think some providers are very sweet....Tell me what y'all think.

[DSK]

Originally Posted by Mr.smooth81

I've pondering on this question for quite a while now....But I always wondered if providers actually date or get into serious relationships while working actively in the business. I'm eager to find out what providers have to say. I actually think some providers are very sweet....Tell me what y'all think.

Yes, many do

[1blackman1]

I suppose the real question is are they honest about what they do, when do they break the news to the guys they are dating, and what kinda guys date prostitutes

[Boudin3112]

Relationships can be a lot of work. If you date a prostitute you are just compiling more problems on to the regular ones. Prostitutes have a hard time trusting men, who can blame them 80% of their clientele are cheating married men. If you want to be monogamous well game over there, when in need for money the prostitute's first thought is to suck a dick for cash. Sex is different too, she does not really want you blowing your load on her tits , she only does that for the cash not because she cares for you and wants to please you. Stop paying her and just like in most relationships the sex changes. Then you will have trust issues, is she still talking to past clients, did she feel for them, is she letting other guys do things to her you wish you could? Dude, the problems with dating prostitutes is numerous.
They do date but you are unappealing to them as you pay for pussy, they is strike one right there. Do they lie about what they do? Of course they do, everything here is a lie even our names. Think the lying stops out.in the real world, not usually. Remember I am generalizing, not all suffer from emotional disorder from hook I ng for so long. Only problem is every woman I met thought she was the exception to the rule, none, zero, admit this line of work has fucked with their emotional health.
Then you have to ask yourself as a hobbyist what can you really offer your partner. You pay women for your sexual needs. You may have cheated to be with her. She will remember that and wonder.
Normal relationships fail often, these relationships fail more often. Good luck.

[Fancylady]

Guys I dated didn't like me being escorts and clients paying me. .One guy told me he couldn't believe other guys allow their ladies to be escorts.

[SA Angel]

Honestly, dating IRL holds no appeal to me. The convenience of the hobby is lovely. I want a man to be around when I want him and go away when I don't. I don't want him constantly demanding my attention by texting or calling me when we are apart. I was like that before the hobby as well.

Plus, after being spoiled and put on a pedestal by clients I don't think I could put up with any disrespect, defiance, or thoughtlessness.

Generally speaking (because I'm sure there are exceptions) the emotionally stable women in the hobby won't want to casually date a client. A exclusive arrangement might become more lasting but I don't think that's what you are talking about.

[wildwooly1]

Do Providers Date? you got to laugh at that question.
Not only do providers date but believe it or not they are real live Women whos needs and lives are the same as any other woman. Lol
Lot of them are married or been married and still Hobby and that's why theres a hobby life and a RW life for most women in this business.
Yes there are troubles with dating or being married to a provider..There are not many men wanting there wife or GF out screwing around ( Pun intended )
and theres not a whole lot of men can get past that fact and usually its an open relationship much like that of a swingers...
Providers are special women that allow us hobbiest to share with them part of their lives and fufill our fantasies and thank god some of them do.
Yes most are paid for this and im not trying to glorify them just remember they are Human and have needs, feelings, and family to deal with on a daily basis.

[SlowHand50]

Yeah, believe it or not there may be some men out there who are more than OK with having a GF or SO who is hot enough to have other men be willing to pay serious $$ to be with them; some of us may even be highly aroused by the thought of other men paying to have their way with the woman who they get to have their way with for free.

Some may want to hear about their ladies' experiences and be turned on by that, others may just look the other way because the $$ is good.

Everyone's different in this world, thank gawd.

[samantha thom]

Do you think providers are outer space aliens and not real women or something??
Come on…use your common sense. People need companionship in life, we are just normal people who can love and be loved. Some of us have a meaningful normal relationship and yes, we are capable of being loved by a man who loves us for who we are and not just see us as sex object. Such a weird question you ask.
Outside of this hobby, I have a full life with a normal job, education, family, friends….lots of real world friends, hobbies, passions, home, pets,….just like normal people. Hard to believe, eh?

[Gotyour6]

Beta males need loving too

[NINA SIMONE]

I have dated and been engaged to a client or two which was breaking all the rules and I would not advise it. I have however dated a non client and was honest with him about what I do. He was turned out by it (GO FIGURE) distance ended our relationship but we are still in communication with one another. I think dating is very hard being in the business so for me. Its put on the back burner until I retire this year.

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Beta males need loving too

So do alpha females. :-)

[jbravo_123]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

Do you think providers are outer space aliens and not real women or something??
Come on…use your common sense. People need companionship in life, we are just normal people who can love and be loved. Some of us have a meaningful normal relationship and yes, we are capable of being loved by a man who loves us for who we are and not just see us as sex object. Such a weird question you ask.
Outside of this hobby, I have a full life with a normal job, education, family, friends….lots of real world friends, hobbies, passions, home, pets,….just like normal people. Hard to believe, eh?

Now that's just crazy talk

Next, you'll be trying to tell us that you ladies actually have thoughts and feelings too!

[Guest032117]

Sometimes I even have a bowel movement.

[pyramider]

Oh the horrors!!!!! Bowel movements, thoughts, and lives outside the hobby .... but those things should not prevent the ladies from posting taint photos.