jeff,
first off, i hope you have a deliteful first encounter.
second, as in cards, you might not want to tip your hand so many can see it.
that is, no need to state you who are going to see.
third, if you do plan a backup appt [which i dont usually do], i suggest you do NOT let either of them know you've set up a backup plan. no need to introduce any complications in the matters.
fourth, if you do plan a backup appt, i also suggest you do NOT set the appts for the same time. maybe an hr or so later. cos if #1 cant make it but doesnt tell you until about 15-20 mins before the scheduled time, you might not be able to make it to #2 in that time frame.
wrt super newbie friendly, search the showcases, reviews, etc.
or, if you can weather what comes out, ask in the ISO forum for a newbie friendly provider. which, i see, you've already done. as well as asked about this previously.
finally, i hope your real life name is NOT jeff noble. not a good idea to use your real life name when communicating in this sub-culture. if it is, pm one of the mods requesting that you want to change your eccie userid. their names are at the top of the various dallas forums.
again, hope it turns out well!
p.s. if it were me, i'd keep Lexi Laye on my possibilities list.
in my book, she is cute, friendly, and top-notch!!
get your references, then check her out [she is "kinda" near your zip code].
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