Alexa DiCarlo and The Real Princess Diaries

[Adrielle]

I looked around a bit for any threads on this and didn't see anything, but if it has and I overlooked them please forgive me.

There are several fantastic sex industry blogs, twitter feeds and books out and available for the general "civilian" public to see. I enjoy reading them because not only is it nice to read about other providers experiences, there's always something new for me to learn. One of the most popular, and the first one I ever actively read before I first started providing was RealPrincessDiaries.com. It was incredibly erotic and entertaining, but when I actually started escorting something about it seemed incredibly off, and I found other websites that I found more informative.

A blog (I won't post links to any that have discussed this topic, because it completely outs someone) and twitter feed popped up last week specifically to expose RealPrincessDiaries.com and Alexa DiCarlo, the supposed San Francisco escort that runs the website. I remember almost a year ago when concerns were first raised about whether Alexa actually existed, but despite evidence they had at the time many of "her" followers stood up for her.

Over the last week though a great deal of info has come out indicated that that Alexa may in fact be a man that lives in Delaware. There are many women that are coming forward now claiming to have seen a man named "Matt" who had been referred to them by Alexa. This is what completely scares me. This man used his website to gain the trust of women, some already providing and some just curious about getting into the industry, to book with them. There have also been accusations of this person threatening to out other sex workers and having inappropriate interactions with minors.

What saddens me the most is that RealPrincessDiaries.com had such a large following, especially by people who knew nothing of hobbying otherwise. Many of the things on the website and the associated twitter feed were things that I didn't think showed our industry in the best light (such as a post about a bareback gangbang she participated in, or claiming to be in doggy style while tweeting).

Kudos to the (real) ladies that operate blogs without sensationalizing content, and keeping things professional. I can only hope that more sex workers follow suit, rather then the people that only think they know what our work is all about.

[Camille]

Yup. I remember being told about 2 years ago that the RPD was "done" by a guy. Someone had traced his domain to another site etc etc and it all pointed to a guy...who got VERY freaked out when someone contacted him saying', "dude...wtf?" Take all blogs with a pinch of salt, anon and named ones, and my god, never ever use them as a means of screening.

C

[pjorourke]

The site has been suspended.

[discreetgent]

All sites associated with it, twitter feed, etc apparently were shut down. Interesting debate going on whether the person masquerading as Alexa should have been outed completely or just forced to shut it all down under some threat of it.

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Originally Posted by discreetgent

All sites associated with it, twitter feed, etc apparently were shut down. Interesting debate going on whether the person masquerading as Alexa should have been outed completely or just forced to shut it all down under some threat of it.

ΚΑΙ ΤΟ ΜΕΝ ΟΥΝ ΣΑΦΕΣ ΟΥΤΙΣ ΑΝΗΡ ΙΔΕΝ ΟΥΔΕ ΤΙΣ ΕΣΤΑΙ
ΕΙΔΩΣ ΑΜΦΙ ΘΕΩΝ ΤΕ ΚΑΙ ΑΣΣΑ ΛΕΓΩ ΠΕΡΙ ΠΑΝΤΩΝ ·
ΕΙ ΓΑΡ ΚΑΙ ΤΑ ΜΑΛΙΣΤΑ ΤΥΧΟΙ ΤΕΤΕΛΕΣΜΕΝΟΝ ΕΙΠΩΝ,
ΑΥΤΟΣ ΟΜΩΣ ΟΥΚ ΟΙΔΕ · ΔΟΚΟΣ Δ'ΕΠΙ ΠΑΣΙ ΤΕΤΥΚΤΑΙ
(Ξενοφάνης ὁ Κολοφώνιος, Fragment DK 21B34)

[Sa_artman]

Sounds oddly familiar per recent threads...I'm just saying.

[discreetgent]

Originally Posted by Sa_artman

Sounds oddly familiar per recent threads...I'm just saying.

On the face of it you are right. But the Alexa character did some very unethical things.

[Doove]

It did have some awesome tumblr feeds though. Those i'll miss.

[Alex Lieberman]

Unless a blog is doing harm it should be taken for exactly what it is...a blog. My blog doesn't promote anything, not even myself as I don't blog under my escort name. I never read The DiCarlo blog so I can't speak to the blogs content.

I can only speak to mine and it should be taken as a way to see what goes on behind closed doors in the life of an escort....at least according to me.

Kisses,

Alex

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

Unless a blog is doing harm it should be taken for exactly what it is...a blog. My blog doesn't promote anything, not even myself as I don't blog under my escort name. I never read The DiCarlo blog so I can't speak to the blogs content.

I can only speak to mine and it should be taken as a way to see what goes on behind closed doors in the life of an escort....at least according to me.

Kisses,

Alex

But you are not pretending to be a woman! I was once friends with "Alexa" and she gave me what advice before I got started in this business. I started to notice something was wrong by simply googling.. there are soo many sites about HIM .. it is nuts! When EVEYRONE is saying the same thing it has to be true. What HE did was WRONG! I am glad the truth has come out and he decided to leave the online world. It is sad because a lot of us trusted "HER"

[Guest042611]

The part that really bothers me was that he used the Alexa persona to refer escorts to himself as a client. Creepy! He already knew sex workers were angry and questioning him, but continued to do it for months. Unfortunately, I don't think people like that can be stopped without a somewhat dramatic intervention.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Natalie

The part that really bothers me was that he used the Alexa persona to refer escorts to himself as a client. Creepy! He already knew sex workers were angry and questioning him, but continued to do it for months. Unfortunately, I don't think people like that can be stopped without a somewhat dramatic intervention.

How 'bout emasculation???

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Natalie

The part that really bothers me was that he used the Alexa persona to refer escorts to himself as a client. Creepy! He already knew sex workers were angry and questioning him, but continued to do it for months. Unfortunately, I don't think people like that can be stopped without a somewhat dramatic intervention.

I agree

[John Bull]

He's probably already back online with some persona or another. Those kind of folks get a rush from it that they can't do without. Rather the same mindset as stalkers, I think.

[WTF]

What if God turns out to be a woman?

Will the good book be less good?

Now if , her/his advice was good as a woman, it is probably still just as sound as a man's.

There are a lot of good lessons to be gleaned from this