Does age matter? Say no to clients under the age of 35?

[BlissfulTantra]

A lot of people fail to realize what we do as providers isn’t easy… we have to not only look good but we have to entertain in the best way possible and play sexy even when we don’t feel 100%. So, have a little respect when reaching out for more information and to book. Yes, we know we are hoes but we don’t have to the reminded when communicating with us. Sheesh - this is why I don’t like seeing clients under the age of 35. Smh what a day.

Have you ever treated a provider like they are less than you and here to serve you or ladies have you ever been treated with disrespect in this industry?

What’s the best age range for clients?

[pmdelites]

i can only imagine what you all go thru ... and i've been on this end for many many moons!

i've been told a few times about the ups & downs and even asked for suggestions (not advice). so i always say to the woman

"1. do what you think is best for you ... mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially. if we can hook up, great. if not, great."

2. work when you need to, but dont chase bad times for money.

3. see who you feel comfortable with or who makes you comfortable.

4. and if a potential or current client says/does something disrespectful, see #1-#3 !!! (quit communicating w/ him or kick him out!)"


wrt "... treated a provider like they are ... here to serve you ...",
sometimes w/ amp providers and maybe once or twice w/ providers.
but if the woman & i agree upon a dominant/submissive role play kind of encounter, yes - she's there to please & serve me. (btw, one time, i was the submissive to two providers [who were usualky subs to me]. i failed as a sub, but i did let them use me for their pleasures for almost two hours)


i hope your upcuming encounters are mutually deliteful !!!

[Joddxxx]

I usually have my regular providers that I see and we become very close until they retire from the professional. Since this happened to you then I would have a minimum age requirement.

[GayleMeyers]

Originally Posted by BlissfulTantra

A lot of people fail to realize what we do as providers isn’t easy… we have to not only look good but we have to entertain in the best way possible and play sexy even when we don’t feel 100%. So, have a little respect when reaching out for more information and to book. Yes, we know we are hoes but we don’t have to the reminded when communicating with us. Sheesh - this is why I don’t like seeing clients under the age of 35. Smh what a day.

Have you ever treated a provider like they are less than you and here to serve you or ladies have you ever been treated with disrespect in this industry?

What’s the best age range for clients?

I used to allow any age. I had a friend who thought I was crazy and made her cut off 30. After a while, I saw the value in that, lol! I do occasionally see someone under 30, but not very often. Unfortunately, "mature" men can act like teenagers, too, though ...

[Peyton Daniella]

I stopped seeing guys under 35 for a while because a lot of them would flake but then I realized that any age could do that. I now see any age over 21 as long as they're screened. Some of my best clients are under 35 now. My favorite age is 45-65 though. Just my opinion.

If I have a twenty something year old and a forty something year old wanting to book the same time I'll always choose the forty something year old. Older men are more decisive for the most part.

[Imperium]

Originally Posted by BlissfulTantra

A lot of people fail to realize what we do as providers isn’t easy… we have to not only look good but we have to entertain in the best way possible and play sexy even when we don’t feel 100%. So, have a little respect when reaching out for more information and to book. Yes, we know we are hoes but we don’t have to the reminded when communicating with us. Sheesh - this is why I don’t like seeing clients under the age of 35. Smh what a day.

Have you ever treated a provider like they are less than you and here to serve you or ladies have you ever been treated with disrespect in this industry?

What’s the best age range for clients?

It’s always unfortunate when it gets to a point that you feel you have to share your frustrations with this kind of behavior. I understand why many ladies have age restrictions because generally speaking they can expect better behavior from more mature clientele.

Only you know the specifics of how you are approached and contacted and how that translates to the general age ranges of those making contact. You will have to make your own rules as you see fit.

When you encounter behavior such as this in the future I would recommend using the Shark Tank approach by responding back to them with the ways in which their messages were disrespectful and concluding with “and for those reasons, I’m out!”

Here’s to hoping you have a great weekend!

[RickyG2002]

Ive only been at this for a bit over a year, but I dont see any reason not to treat a lady like a lady, no matter what she decides to do for a living. As long as we are respectful to one another Im sure ya'll get a bunch of aholes who act a fool, try to push limits/boundaries, be cheap and what not. Everyone has their limit (price wise)... if someone is charging more than you are wanting to pay, move on.


For me, I will always be respectful, nice and make sure I know what her limits (do's/dont's) are and respect them. In the end, I am doing this for a good time/fun and I would like to think its the same for her, even if she has to fake it. As long as we are respectful to each other, thats what matters.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

See a lot of guys under 30 , I have found they behave better then hobbyist who been around years .
Lot of they younger want Step Mom or Friends Mom . had a guy just the other day for Mother in law roll play and he was 28 just as nice as can be booked 2 hr's

Yes I sure some young studs may think they can act like a porn star in bed lol
I have found lot of young just want to learn more about how to be with a woman in bed or they are super shy and need some Guidance


I do love all ages and very Patient with gent's who need help with ED ..

[Wile E Coyote]

As long as they are above 18 years old, physical age does not matter be it a provider or a client. What matters is there attitude and maturity level.

There are many guys who are members of this board who have the maturity level of a grade school kid with their cyber bullying and trolling of others, no need to mention names, they know who they are. Same thing goes with the ladies, constantly creating drama just to see what will happen, they know who they are as well. The difference is, they know that whatever they do will be backed and supported by simps and white knights.

The disrespect comes from guys who believe their own hype ( this is supposed to be a fantasy). The disrespect also comes from the ladies who think that they are doing guys a favor by taking their money then while in BCD, making the paying client feel like he is inadequate as a person by giving half ass or worse service, then expecting a fantastic review!

[TinMan]

Back when I started, in my 20s and before the hobby had embraced the internet, the “no one under 35” rule was pretty common. It seemed like half the printed ads included it, but it probably wasn’t quite that prevalent. Those of you who still adhere to it are following a long provider tradition in that regard!

[oldbutstillgoing]

Bottom line is, do what ever makes you comfortable. No explination or rational needs to be given. Guys don't like it, they can go elsewhere. Plenty of providers to choose from. You protect you. Disreguard the know it alls. If age matters to you, then it matters

Of course, the more restrictive you are, the smaller your client base gets. Not just age, any restrictions. But then, life is full of trade-offs

[mrredcat43]

When I started, I was about 26, and if I saw an age restriction on a lady, I wouldn’t bother her, her rules. I did enjoy showing up to incalls and seeing the providers reaction when they see a baby face

[BLM69]

Good thing I'm older than 35, I don't have a baby face though, I conquer my woman with charm 😆

[MrColt1911]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

See a lot of guys under 30 , I have found they behave better then hobbyist who been around years .
Lot of they younger want Step Mom or Friends Mom . had a guy just the other day for Mother in law roll play and he was 28 just as nice as can be booked 2 hr's

Yes I sure some young studs may think they can act like a porn star in bed lol
I have found lot of young just want to learn more about how to be with a woman in bed or they are super shy and need some Guidance


I do love all ages and very Patient with gent's who need help with ED ..

+1
I'm late 30's now but when I started seeing providers I was late 20's and I had only been with about 6 girls all of which were younger and more INEXPERIENCED then me! and so when I started seeing older more experienced ladies I appreciated the lessons! lol

[Apitt12]

Originally Posted by MrColt1911

+1
I'm late 30's now but when I started seeing providers I was late 20's and I had only been with about 6 girls all of which were younger and more INEXPERIENCED then me! and so when I started seeing older more experienced ladies I appreciated the lessons! lol

I started at 25 (35 now) had the same experience. I prefer older women or women around my age within a few years, they make it feel more genuine imo and most of the time the older ones think im hot the younger ones I don’t get the same reaction from as often, I assume it’s the shaved head.