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foX · 05-27-2009, 02:59 PM

There are a number of games we all play, and I’m not trying to criticize, just pointing out what I observe. For some reason I have noticed that hobbyists equate better service with providers who have a “baker’s dozen” mentality regarding their time. If you book an hour, by god you are going to hang out there for an hour even if you are done and the provider has the conversational skills of a Pekinese. And if you can squeeze an extra 10 minutes, or even a half hour for your money then you go away feeling like a champ.

I guess my point is, you send a gal an email and book an hour. She quotes you a fee for an hour. But when the hour is up and the escort calls time, then it ruins the GFE? If I book an hour, I generally plan to get my business done in an hour. I watch the clock the best I can because I made the deal and I respect the escort’s time if she has shown respect for mine (being on time etc.) And I feel a little guilty if I let it run over.

So for the escort the question is, do you build in an extra 15 minutes or more knowing that guys are going to try to squeeze out some more time? Or do you, graciously of course, hustle them out the door after the time is up?

And guys, do you really get so caught up in the moment that you forget to get off before the hour is up? Or do you plan in advance to overstay?

guest040711-1 · 05-27-2009, 03:07 PM

This is a complaint I hear often I've even been asked if I was a "aspd" guy? When I asked what that was? The answer was 90% about staying longer than an hour. I tell them I post on many boards, but by their definition I'm not a "aspd" guy.

Hardhat644 · 05-27-2009, 03:16 PM

I'm like you Fox, when a hour is up I'm gone. I want them to respect me so I think its only right to respect their time. Hell I never last that long anyway!

Hardhat644

foX · 05-27-2009, 03:33 PM

And hey, it’s not like I have never gone over. I saw Cameron Coxx recently and I was having the time of my life and suddenly I saw the clock and I was minutes away from the end of my time. I immediately directed her into a position that I knew would get the job done and I got out as quickly as I could without being, as Kelly says, “weird.” Even at that, I overstayed a good 10 minutes. She was very gracious and kind and didn’t say a word about it.

ControlFreak · 05-27-2009, 03:39 PM

With that being said, I expect providers to respect my time and be available at our designated appointment time. With that expectation, you surely must finish your business in sixty minutes or less and be on your way. It is called respect for people. If I should stay longer for some reason, I will tip accordingly.

McNulty · 05-27-2009, 03:43 PM

I always keep my watch on and generally try to say something like "I really need to get out of here" 5-10 minutes before the hour is up.

Lap52 · 05-27-2009, 03:54 PM

Have you ever felt like you have been held over the hour for what ever reason?

jollyrogers11 · 05-27-2009, 03:57 PM

I'm usually done in less time than what I book usually leave with at least 5 or 10 minutes left in a 1 or 2 hour session. I'm there to have fun, but when I'm done, I'm done and usually don't hang to cuddle and talk unless I think I can squeeze in another shot before the allotted time. But I've stayed longer a few times if I'm working that last shot or need to shower before I leave out but always leave a tip if I do run over.

guest123009 · 05-27-2009, 04:16 PM

I try to always be out before the hour is up and don't have a problem if I shoot my single shot before then. Recently, I saw someone and was told to wait while the roommate finished a session. Okay, I drove around for 10 minutes. Then when I got in and went to the bedroom she went to get some water for us and was gone several several minutes more. It just seemed like we started late. But I still tried to get out of there within an hour from when I walked through the door even if I wanted to stay much, much longer.

Mesquitor · 05-27-2009, 06:28 PM

I'm relatively new to hobbying and because the budget is not as free as I would like it to be, I spend a lot of time researching ladies and keep a pretty short list of those I would like to see. One criteria I have is that they are not a close clock watcher based on reviews I have read.

So far the ones I have seen have not been in a hurry to end our meeting. My last time in Austin a month or so ago was with an absolutely wonderful lady who seemed to "click" with me very good. I had booked for an hour with an outcall to my hotel room but she didn't leave for over two hours. Most of that time was spent lying together and chatting after she almost killed me in the sack - a true GFE in my book!

I always prefer that the lady come to me for a meeting because that takes away any of the pressure of when I am supposed to leave. She knows that I'm from out of town on business and have nothing to do that evening except sit in a hotel room and watch TV. If she is comfortable staying longer - even if only to chat - I enjoy the personal time and company.

1thatgotaway · 05-28-2009, 12:10 AM

An hour is 3600 seconds and it is what it is. If you need longer you should book it. If you stay later you are being in inconsiderate dick. It is your job as much as it is hers to manage the clock. Having said that I have been a dick before. It was not my intention but it happened. I realized I like to take my time and an hour is just not long enough. So I would not consider booking only one.

~1TGA

5150 · 05-28-2009, 08:43 AM

I am in the service industry and understand that one hour means one hour. With that being said I do like the ladies who are not clock watchers because it does create an atmosphere that is a little more relaxing, however I will not take advantage of there gracious attitude towards time since I do understand the old saying, “time is money.”

Introuble · 05-30-2009, 08:11 AM

Well admittedly, I am a 59 minute guy. I always try to be gone within an hour but as Fox says, sometimes it runs over if not careful. The thing that impresses me the most is when you do finish up at 39 minutes and after she cleans you up, she lays down beside you and says "we still have a few minutes" and does make sure she gives you the 59 minutes you purchased.

Clouddancer · 05-31-2009, 08:27 AM

I tend to watch the time as well and if I do run over I will usually tip. I always respect the ladies time, however, if I have booked an hour, I do expect an hour of attention even if some of that hour is just chatting.

One of my favorite ladies has a habit of diappearing downstairs while I'm freshining up. There have been times when the games didn't actually begin until 10 - 15 minutes later, but she has always given me a full hour of pleasure.

Another HDH I recently visited was very gracious. I had a very difficult time finding parking, completely my fault, and finally arrived at her door close to 20 minutes later than our scheduled time. She still gave a full hour of her usual passion.

Fortunately, we have many, many classy ladies here in DFW.

npita · 05-31-2009, 02:56 PM

I've never scheduled less than 2 hours as I did not think 1 hour would cover a gfe type session. However, I have run over on sessions. I always include enough of a tip to cover some small amount of overtime. If it runs over that, I cover the extra time and unless something has explicitly been said about overtime prior to the session, I expect to be told when time is up if I am not aware of the time. So, I tink an hour is an hour.