My First Hobby Experience

[Parttimehobbyist]

Whether you're a provider or hobbyist, feel free to share your first hobbying experience!

It was the summer of 2009. At the time, I was living in CA, had ended a relationship, and I wanted to try something new and out of the ordinary.

After a night out with friends, I booked some cheap ass hotel and decided to call an agency from some ad in a phone book. Lady on the phone said provider would be over in an hour. Ok cool.

2.5 hours later, I'm still waiting, laying in bed eating Dominos Pizza while watching re runs of Jerry Springer and Maury. I finally get a text saying she'll be over in 10 mins. All of a sudden I got real nervous. I was like "holy shit. Is this really happening?!" My hands started getting really clammy, goosebumps on my arms, cottonmouth started to kick into overdrive and I remember being very thirsty. I started thinking about the worst case scenarios and got really paranoid. I kept looking out the window seeing if there were sketchy people plotting ways to mug me and fuck my shit up.

I sat and calmed the hell down. There was a light knock on the door and I answered it. A beautiful half Japanese/Caucasian lady named "Sage" came in and we both hit it off immediately and to my surprise she said I was her very first client. I told her she was my very first provider and we both laughed and had an amazing time. I won't go into detail, but it was pretty awesome. She thanked me for not being some weird dude and I thanked her for not mugging me.

All that being said, I'm thankful for that pleasant first experience, cause if it was otherwise I probably wouldn't be on Eccie typing this out.

[ACharmXo]

I started on BP in Dallas
My first date of the night tried to run off with the donation I stupidly left out on the dresser halfway thru the date with his pants half down ..STAFF EDIT
I had to run after him smackin him in the head with my purse to get it back.
He finally gave it up and they tried to resume the date ... STAFF EDIT
Any normal person would have prob said to hell with this after that introduction but I just cleaned myself up and got ready for the next call .... (:

[Parttimehobbyist]

Holy crap!! That's awesome you beat him with your purse! LOL!

[Guest110920]

Mine was pretty standard, really. The only thing notable about it was how terrified I was. Made an appointment with a newbie friendly lady who worked out of her home, a duplex. I got there and was scared to death. I had to will myself to get out of my car and walk up to the door, then I stood there for probably 45 seconds or so before I worked up the nerve to knock. She answered the door and i was relieved to see it was the actual lady I had seen pictures of and not LE who had set up an elaborate trap to bust me! (What a maroon, I know, I know. Lol.)

Got inside and she showed me to her bedroom upstairs and asked me if I wanted porn or music on the TV that was playing. I chose porn. In retrospect I should have chosen music to avoid listening to Bree Olson and her friends wailing like banshees, distracting me from the mission at hand.

She gave me a nice massage to start and then everything went fine.

When I was leaving there was a guy across the street sitting in a chair in his yard looking at me. OMG HE KNOWS!!! That’s what i was thinking at the time. I got in my car and drove away, carefully obeying all traffic laws so the police, who I assumed the neighbor had called to report my heinous misdemeanor, wouldn’t have any excuse to stop me (as if they would have needed one if they wanted to). I breathed a sigh of relief after getting a couple of miles away with no sign of squad cars following lol.

Yeah I’ve calmed down a lot since then.

[Parttimehobbyist]

Hahaha!! Sounds like me when I was nervous! I remember the longer I waited, the more I started panicking internally and having thoughts of regret, but I'm glad I went through with it.

And as for Bree Olson & Friends being in the background....I'll take that any given day over Sasha Grey (overrated) yelling like a banshee!

[Fr8nk&Bnz]

2011 - Dallas

Was working there for a couple of weeks making good money. A buddy and I went out for drinks and to check out the scenery. We both aren't locals to the Dallas area nor did I know that he had been active in the "hobby". Ended up at this badass strip club. This place was packed. Seemed like a lot of the girls were college coeds and were smoking hot. Sitting back taking a few dances, he pulled me to the side explained that this girl I just took a few dances from he knew her. Thinking to myself how the hell does this South Dakota boy know this hottie in Dallas. He calls her over and gets to talking asked her if she had a friend that like to hang out afterwards. About hr later she comes over introduces her friend. She asked, if her friend met our standards. I'm like wtf does she mean by that. Hell yeah she does, she's finer than frog hair.

Sitting there buzzed and naive, thinking we got to be at work at 6:00, it's 2:00am and I'm tired of spending money. I'm done, call for a taxi. Dude was like hold on cancel that fucking taxi, these girls will take us back to the hotel. We load up and he asks if I got 200 left over. Well yeah for what??

He said take your pick of the litter. Told him.......I've never spent money for pussy. He said well this time you are and I'll explain later, which one do you want??

Needless to say it was my 1st to pay for it and she rocked my world till I made her leave explained I've got to shower and go to work. Boy was that a rough day in the heat with no sleep and still tasting whiskey.

Later that night I asked him how the hell did you know to ask that girl. That's when he pulled up Eccie and showed me her showcase.

Couple years went by and I reached out to him and asked what's the name of that site??

Here I am.

[Parttimehobbyist]

Originally Posted by Fr8nk&Bnz

2011 - Dallas

Was working there for a couple of weeks making good money. A buddy and I went out for drinks and to check out the scenery. We both aren't locals to the Dallas area nor did I know that he had been active in the "hobby". Ended up at this badass strip club. This place was packed. Seemed like a lot of the girls were college coeds and were smoking hot. Sitting back taking a few dances, he pulled me to the side explained that this girl I just took a few dances from he knew her. Thinking to myself how the hell does this South Dakota boy know this hottie in Dallas. He calls her over and gets to talking asked her if she had a friend that like to hang out afterwards. About hr later she comes over introduces her friend. She asked, if her friend met our standards. I'm like wtf does she mean by that. Hell yeah she does, she's finer than frog hair.

Sitting there buzzed and naive, thinking we got to be at work at 6:00, it's 2:00am and I'm tired of spending money. I'm done, call for a taxi. Dude was like hold on cancel that fucking taxi, these girls will take us back to the hotel. We load up and he asks if I got 200 left over. Well yeah for what??

He said take your pick of the litter. Told him.......I've never spent money for pussy. He said well this time you are and I'll explain later, which one do you want??

Needless to say it was my 1st to pay for it and she rocked my world till I made her leave explained I've got to shower and go to work. Boy was that a rough day in the heat with no sleep and still tasting whiskey.

Later that night I asked him how the hell did you know to ask that girl. That's when he pulled up Eccie and showed me her showcase.

Couple years went by and I reached out to him and asked what's the name of that site??

Here I am.

Great story!! Had me LOL on "finer than frog hair." Gonna have to start using that.

[bigjohn001]

My first time was about 10 years ago. I found TER and was intrigued. I probably read and researched for two months or more before pulling the trigger. I had narrowed it down to 2 girls. I had a business trip to Dallas planned and set it up for then once I had made my final choice. I was definitely nervous but everything went smoothly. The appointment was at an apartment and she arrived shortly before me and the AC had been off. It was a little warm when we started but by the time we finished we were both covered in sweat. I remember being in missionary just sliding on top of her from all the sweat.

Shortly after I got into a LTR that kept me occupied. A little while after that ended I decided to check out the hobby scene again. I found ECCIE and have been here since. Mostly reading and fucking, not much posting. I'm making an effort to contribute a little more now.

Interestingly, the girl that was my 2nd choice recently showed up on the scene again in Dallas.

[Warden639]

My first time was in December. In brief: it was a very bad year for multiple reasons; I was a 26-year-old virgin; decided my Christmas present was going to be leaving that status behind and telling 2017 to go fuck itself.

Once I concluded I was serious about seeing a provider, next I had to figure out "...how?"

If the internet has taught me anything, it is that Reddit has a subreddit for any topic you care to think of. Sure enough, r/askanescort exists. It provided a lot of information and also led me to p411 and TER.

I probably spent a month and a half researching, both the hobby in general--I wanted, as much as possible, to be safe, have no moral qualms, and make a good impression as a client--and which specific providers I might want to see. TER seemed to have a lot more information on escorts in Dallas alone, where I'd be traveling for the holidays, than the whole of Arkansas, so I got to work on narrowing down their top 50 list. Eventually came up with five I contacted. One never got back to me, two I arbitrarily decided from their replies weren't the right fit. Couldn't decide between the last two, said "screw it, why not both? (separately)"

Next to last day in Dallas, I drove down to Allegra's apartment in a gated complex. Made it there without trouble and on time, but then parked where I shouldn't and got lost, so I was a bit late.

Greeted at the door by a very cute, friendly Hispanic girl. I was all sorts of nervous. Definitely noticed my hands shaking a bit while I drank some water. Confirmed to her that, as I'd tried to hint without being explicit, yeah, this was going to be my first time with a woman.

She eased me into things with an absolutely incredible massage that, honestly, looking back, feels like the most erotic thing that occurred. Weird considering what happened later. I guess it was that first shock of being able to touch or be touched by someone so intimately.

Anyway, we had a fun time. I relaxed later and joked around a bit. Also found out she's friends with Aprill, the provider I was going to visit the next day.

I've still got a voicemail I asked her to leave me saved on my phone, don't want to forget that sexy accent.

[Parttimehobbyist]

Thanks for your posts Big John and Warden!! I enjoyed reading your experiences. :-)

[Guest110920]

Originally Posted by Warden639

If the internet has taught me anything, it is that Reddit has a subreddit for any topic you care to think of. Sure enough, r/askanescort exists. It provided a lot of information and also led me to p411 and TER.

Ha, reddit is what led me here too. My story above was my first hobby experience but not first P4P. That would be when I went to a legal brothel in Pahrump, NV about a month earlier and spent way way (way) too much money. I posted about it on one of the reddit groups - might have been r/escorts, can't remember - and some guy told me how much farther my money would go seeing independent providers and gave me a link to this place and P411. I should probably give that guy some reddit gold.

[shortblkguy]

Nice story

Originally Posted by Warden639

My first time was in December. In brief: it was a very bad year for multiple reasons; I was a 26-year-old virgin; decided my Christmas present was going to be leaving that status behind and telling 2017 to go fuck itself.

Once I concluded I was serious about seeing a provider, next I had to figure out "...how?"

If the internet has taught me anything, it is that Reddit has a subreddit for any topic you care to think of. Sure enough, r/askanescort exists. It provided a lot of information and also led me to p411 and TER.

I probably spent a month and a half researching, both the hobby in general--I wanted, as much as possible, to be safe, have no moral qualms, and make a good impression as a client--and which specific providers I might want to see. TER seemed to have a lot more information on escorts in Dallas alone, where I'd be traveling for the holidays, than the whole of Arkansas, so I got to work on narrowing down their top 50 list. Eventually came up with five I contacted. One never got back to me, two I arbitrarily decided from their replies weren't the right fit. Couldn't decide between the last two, said "screw it, why not both? (separately)"

Next to last day in Dallas, I drove down to Allegra's apartment in a gated complex. Made it there without trouble and on time, but then parked where I shouldn't and got lost, so I was a bit late.

Greeted at the door by a very cute, friendly Hispanic girl. I was all sorts of nervous. Definitely noticed my hands shaking a bit while I drank some water. Confirmed to her that, as I'd tried to hint without being explicit, yeah, this was going to be my first time with a woman.

She eased me into things with an absolutely incredible massage that, honestly, looking back, feels like the most erotic thing that occurred. Weird considering what happened later. I guess it was that first shock of being able to touch or be touched by someone so intimately.

Anyway, we had a fun time. I relaxed later and joked around a bit. Also found out she's friends with Aprill, the provider I was going to visit the next day.

I've still got a voicemail I asked her to leave me saved on my phone, don't want to forget that sexy accent.

[Pinky457]

Winter of 1989. I saw an ad for a massage parlor in one of those free newspapers. I didn’t have a car at the time, so I took a cab. I gave the driver the street address, because o didn’t want to say the name of the place. When we got there the building was empty. It was a sketchy part of town,he asks “are you sure? What are you looking for?” I hesitated a second and he asked “ are you looking for Le Club!”. That was the place , and he knew right where to go! The experience itself was ok, but it was the ride there, had was the funny part. Moral of the story: cabbies know everything!

[Parttimehobbyist]

Haha yes they do!

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Ha, reddit is what led me here too. My story above was my first hobby experience but not first P4P. That would be when I went to a legal brothel in Pahrump, NV about a month earlier and spent way way (way) too much money.

Since when is a legal brothel not part of the hobby? I'd consider any P4P to be part of the hobby, myself.

Cheers,

bcg